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friend of backstabber
i am so upset righyt now. i told my friend some really personal things about my life. she promised she wouldnt tell anyone. it was mostly about this guy that i liked a lot. a real lot. we were firghtin the ohter day and she told him all my personal things and now she wants me to forgive her. i dont think i should because she doesnt deserve it. it was really personal and it wasnt his business. what should i do?
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Eventually you should forgive her but definetly don't forget what she did. You guys can still be friends again but if i were you I def. wouldn't trust her with any personal info. anymore.
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Ok... A best friend is someone who no matter what tells your secrets! aka personal info! NO MATTER WHAT! Like people already told you, shes not worth it. Find someone else. I mean. theres plenty of other people in your school to hang out with. And don't sink to her level by telling some of her personal info! Then your just as bad as her.
~Talktotay196~
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Beat her up. Dont give her forgivness. Sew her mouth shut, with a dull stitch. Shave her hair so she looks like those cats. Break her legs. And dislocate her thumbs. Then she'll look freaking hilariouse all crippled just sitting there. Then you cant take out the stiches and take her to a hospital so she can be corrected of the impurities you gave her.
After that, she'll definately listen to anything you say. She'll probably even be your slave. ENJOY!
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I wouldn't be friends with her anymore. I had a friend who used to do the same thing to me. I'd forgive and then she'd just do it again. Stupidly, I kept forgiving her over and over, and it just kept happening. This last time, she got my husband kicked out of his apartment and lost his job. I've said goodbye to her, and if your stuff your friend told was really personal, you might want to do the same.
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Tough stuff, hun! Personally I think you should give her another chance but make it very clear to her you dont want her telling your stuff. If she ever tells just give her the boot. No one is worth it if they dont play by your rules especially if you told her not to tell already! hope i helped, *thinkpink*
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i Have been through the same thing... im sorry it has happened to you... its very hard to take it... luckyily for you she wants your forgiveness.... my friend hates me now... so i hope you forgive your friend... but be very careful of what you tell her! always there for who ever, Hope (lil hil)
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i think you should forgive her only if she really is sorry though! i dont think you should tell her any more of your personal things becuase she obvioulsy cant be trusted to keep it to herself!! hope i've helped and i hope that you sort it out with her
luv shelly
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Just let your friendship die down, and at the beginning of next year, just avoid her,if she confronts you,tell her to leave you alone because she really hurt you,and if she tries to argue with you just walk away. don't let any of your friends get in the middle.This is your problem, not theirs. If you are feeling nice, give her another chance. Give her a fake secret like, "I like soandso" If she tells, she may have a problem with gossiping, so just ditch her. Tell the guy that she was just exaggerating, and act sort of embarrassed (you may not need to), then straighten out what she told him, or tone it down a little. or you could turn it into a chance to flirtt w/ the guy you like, and be noice to your friend and forgiver but if she keeps doing it ditch her.
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she isnt your real friend, she was probly just using you for gossip and also for revenge of some sort. if you blurt out her secrets you'll be just as bad as she is
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You shouldn't forgive you no matter what you have fallen out about she should have never told him your secrets. And if you do make friends with her say that you can never trust her again with your secrets then she will see that what she did was wrong no matter what you were arguing about.
luv roxie
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A friend wouldnt tell anothers friend personal stuf feven if they were angry, i think you should forgive but know that you cant trust her, dont tell her anymore personal stuff
Hope I helped
Alex**
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she is not a real friend.i don't know why she is pretending to be your friend but its for her own good.do not forgive her what kind of backstabbing bitch would ask for your forgiveness after that.if she was a real friend she wouldn't have blabbed even when you fought.real friends are always your friends.it might be dangerous to tell her you can't forgive her.avoid her if you can.pretend to be her friend if you can't avoid her.but even if you do forgive her she can't be trusted
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You have the right to be upset. Everybody says theywill not tell anything but they always do. You should try to stay calm if the guy looks at you funny then you should just say hey i was joking i was just trying to see if my friend would tell something personal. Tell your friend that she should not have done that and give her time to feel sorry never tell her anything personal again. Let her know she did something that really hurt you.
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Have you talked it over with her? Talk to her tell her why you wont forgive her.
♥ Michelle
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