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okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do?

Okay that sounds like a wife beater when he grows up. Why would you still like him if he pulled a knife on you hello that is dumb thing to do. If my boyfriend ever pulled a knife at my throat I would punch him in the face and plus things always start out little and then they get big dont stick around next time could be more serios and alot worse. Sure he says he was joking but maybe not would you rather stay with him and be afriad for your life or have fun with somebody else think about it that is pretty bad. People who threaten people end up doing something they will regret dont stick around you can get hurt

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Ok well im a singer and i sing in like coffee houses and stuff. Well i sing like country music and the 2 songs i always sing are Whiskey Lullaby with a guy and God's Will, and whenver i sing them i always start crying and i dont do a good job, how can i get over this?

Dont think about the song when you sing. Think of something that you are going to do at hme or something.

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okay I just got my braces today and I think I look kinda stupid, but I just wanted to know if anyone knows whether or not it's harder to kiss, I've never actually kissed a guy but I have my braces for 2 years so I think I'll probably kiss a guy within those 2 years, so if anyone could help me that would be great, thx!

Anna

I used to have braces myself and i an tell you from experience that it does not bother wit kissing. but if you are worried about that theb get over yourself

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OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please

Well i really am shocked. You got caught it is your guys fault for doing that. You should have waited until you were alone and plus you guys are way too young yet. Get a grip you are still a kid, his family has a right to be upset with you.

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Okay here's the story, me and my bf have been together for over two years now and it's getting to the time where I need to decide on a college there this is one college that I was looking into because it had a an excellent animal sciences program but it isn't exactly close and I would have to live on campus. He told me that he couldn't handle me being far away and if I left that he would break up with me. Now there is a school closer to us that I could go to but then I'd have to pick a different major. So wait I am trying to figure out is should I go or should I stay?

You need to think of yourself for once just b/c you love does not mean he will be there forever. College is big deal and plus it is the rest of your life. If he really loves you he would support you choice. Do not bother about what he wants do not waste your time making him happy do what you want to do. It is worth it alot.

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Ok so I'm in 8th grade and there is this 7th grader at my school who has a HUGE CRUSH on me. He's also extremely sweet and the nicest person to me and always wants a hug everytime i see him. He rates a day as good or bad by if he talked to me that day, then it's a good day. But it's starting to get annoying hugging him all the time. But if I tell him this he would be totally crushed. How do I tell him we need to hug eachother less? THANKS!!

get somebody to act like your b/f. Then tel him u have a b/f and its not going to work out between us at all. Tell him in a note and give him one last hug

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Okay, there's this girl who is supposed to be my friend. Well, let's say she doesn't act like it. She calls me "idiot", "fool", and a bunch of other names. She's also (according to the guy I used to like) asked the guy I liked out, and I trust the guy I liked because I've known him for a while. She knew that I liked him. She also tries to make me look stupid and bad, because we're on the same sports team, and she'll throw the ball in a weird way and I can't catch it, then she'll say "What an idiot!" or something like that. I'm sick of it. Should I just stop being friends with her, and if so, how?

Thank you so much in advance. I'm sorry it's so long.

I know somebody like that. Dont let them treat you like that stand up to them. Tell them to stop and call them names back they know they can run over you dont let them at all. Stand up and she will cool it say hey you cant run me back off the name calling. She just wants to act tough and she knows nobody will stand up against her

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I have officially met the love of my life.He treats me better than anyone ive ever known. he says he wants to take care of me for the rest of my life, and hes proven that in many ways. there are only two problems: 1. he has a girl living with him- they used to go out, but now theyre just sharing living quarters.hes moving soon, and shes not coming with.2.(the main issue, at hand)there is about 15 or 16 years between us, and i should probably mention that i am defintely not 18. its so hard to keep this a secret and lie to everyone around me, i hate it, but i love him so much. PLEASE give me an honest opinion on how you, personally would handle my situation. thanx for any advice you can give.

First of all ewww. How do you know that him and his ex are not doing anything and plus just b/c he syas that stuff does not mean anything they are just words every guy uses them anyway, you need to be more into people your own age relationships always end with people a t a big age gap like that. trust me

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Heyas.

Three days ago I got bad congestion. Today, this morning, I wake up and can barely manage a whisper. Theres no pain in my chest, when I breath or swallow or anything, just the usual discomforts of inflamed skin. However, it is progressively getting worse. I ahve to communicate with pen and paper now! Is it possible I have tonsilitis? What should I do to help it?

15/m

In the morning wrap your throat with a hot towel then suck on cough drops. If it gets worse get to the doctor

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im fat {mostly in the winter}. ive tried crunches and deits and all i do is feel more hungary. at one time i was 131lb, i was good with that, now im 164lb then 159lb then 165lb. it keeps fluctulating. i want to be 131!!! please help me!!!

Dont worry about what you look like. Be confident of yourself. If you want to loose weight then eat healthy and every morning take and jog and do outdoor stuff work up a sweat dont be lazy. Dont do crunches that is wasteing time eat healthy and jog.

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at my school we need to wear uniforms, with mine i waer the sweatery thing, and latly its been getting really warm out, well i dont like to take my sweater off cause im kinda fat and i look really bad in the uniform. but the problem is since its been hot iv been sweating {even though i wear dedorant} and its smelling bad. im afriad i smell bad!! all my friends say i dont but still, my mom refuses to wash 2x a week. what should i do?

Well do not be ashamed of anything. you shouldn't call yourself fat and plus you need to be confident if anythings guys like gilrs who are confident. Its okay take off the sweater if u are worried u stink then take spray with you its okay every girl worrys about that i worry about that. BE confident stay cool

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i am so upset righyt now. i told my friend some really personal things about my life. she promised she wouldnt tell anyone. it was mostly about this guy that i liked a lot. a real lot. we were firghtin the ohter day and she told him all my personal things and now she wants me to forgive her. i dont think i should because she doesnt deserve it. it was really personal and it wasnt his business. what should i do?

You have the right to be upset. Everybody says theywill not tell anything but they always do. You should try to stay calm if the guy looks at you funny then you should just say hey i was joking i was just trying to see if my friend would tell something personal. Tell your friend that she should not have done that and give her time to feel sorry never tell her anything personal again. Let her know she did something that really hurt you.

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