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my hair gets incredibly greasy easily cause i have oily skin. i was wondering what i could do to prevent this from happening cause i have camp for two weeks and it grosses me out

boohoo this suggestion is no fun sometimes, But EXCERCISE ( I'm not jokin lol) when you run (outside is a LOT better than a tredmile) your face wont be as oily along with your hair, also try a special shampoo the doc can reccomend some.. But I have suave shampoo it doesnt cost much so youd think it isnt that good, but It works great for me , maybe it will for you too! :) :D

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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been GREAT... we have been goin out for 5 months and everything was the way I wanted it to be... except for two things... he always wants us to have some kind of sexual contact. He always wants to fingwer me and stuff... and he always wants me touching him. and up until I came back from France Our talkin relantionship was perfect. And now we fight all the time. I want so bad to break up with him but I keep thinkin what I would be without him and to me... I don't think I would be anything... What should I do?

A hard one, but I'm gona try my best.. Through my past welps I kinda think he wants the sexual kinda stuff as in proof of you loving him a LOT I really don't know him though so I dont want to give you the wrong view, it could mean many things.. depends on what kinda guy he is --> the first time doing all that sexual stuff might be scary and not very pleasuring but it will be after awhile, I understand what you mean "I don't think I would be anything(without him)" You either, can do what you want with him sexually & move forward, but if you arent comftorable with that, explain it to him, tell him you love him & you love how everything was going before he kept on wanting all this sexual contact, explain what he means to you, dont spill your heart all out though, If he is a good guy he WILL understand & that will tell you a lot, tell him youre uncomftorable doing those kind of things with him.. and its unnessicary if his love is really that strong.

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ok. here's the deal. I loved my boyfriend sooo much. we went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing. but he really was drunk cause my friend went to a bar before we went swimming and she said he was hammered. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. yesturday, he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Shoould I believe what he says? I really need help! PLEASE HELP! =(

Okay , Hey well, listen I bet youre gona get a LOT of "he's using you" kinda advice, welps I have a LOT of experience in boys so I'm gona tell you what I think, If you love this boy a lot lot you need to tell him, if he really is sorry he should probably tell his girlfriend he still has love for you and break it off easily, & then you, you should tell him.. he hurt you and you don't wana be hurt and ask for him to prove his love to you & that he won't hurt you or leave you for any friends.. (It may be a HARD path but it will be worth it in the end) Good luck girl if there is anything else more indepth let me know!

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I just had surgery and i can't really walk very well and i have to go to registration at middleschool in 2 days. I am not sure if i will be better by then and i am nervous that people will think i am a weirdo if i walk around limping. What should i do?

Ahh, okay that has to be hard, I'd be scare too if I were you, but hhey you know its not going to be that hard! Just be friendly have a smile on! Not everybody is that bad, people are nice if youre nice first. I say friendly is about the key here, GOod luck!!

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i have always been a dancer, and all of my friends were dancers too. but then middle school came and me and my friends did dance and band. i was the only one of my friends who kept doing band because i really enjoyed being in drumline, and now being in high school all my old friends are on the dance team, and i have tons of new friends from drumline. i love hanging out with my old friends but it seems we dont have much in common anymore. i always come home from drumline all happy, or when im hanging out with my drumline friends im always having fun and not worrying about drama or any other crap like that, but then i go back to my other friends and theres all this drama and they talk about stuff that they do and will do right in front of me, even though they dont plan on inviting me. i just get upset and depressed around them. the thing is that weve been friends since elementary school and i cant just dump them, and they get all upset when i dont hang out with them. and im really starting to get sick of it all. please help me! what should i do!?

Ahh the old saying "follow your heart" Looks like your heart belongs in your drumline friends, They make you happy & smileyy hehe. But, your other friends they probably do still care about you & going to highschool woo is hard.. Cept i think your more yourself and comftorable around your drumline friends, maybe you should start hanging out with them a lot more.. Less drama and your having fun with people who wouldnt disrespect you by talking about future plans without you... Keep in touch with your middle school friends but maybe not as much?

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i have STICK STRAIGHT hair no matter what i do to it. how can i give it some wave without curlers or a curling iron cause i dont have much time in the morning

You might hafta get up a little bit earlier.. I have curly hair but some people if you blow dry it in the morning it makes it a little bit fuller, But I think youre gonna hafta use a type of curilng iron, You could crimp it. At a simple store such as CVS, They sell straighteners/crimps for about $25, Doesnt take long at all and they work great, I have a blue one that trades off to Crimp/wave hair.. GOod luck!!

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i have a bf that i like very much. but, we don't talk often. its the summer now so we don't get to see eachother very often and he doesn't come on instant messaging often either. he isn't really considerate, but he is very nice and funny. um, i guess i'm just worried if he really likes me or if he is just using me. i could call him, but he isn't usually home. i cant exactly tell him how i feel because i'm kind of shy. should i break up with him? or should i try to stay in this relationship and make it better?

I'm gona try and help you the best I can with the info you gave me, if you still can't decide send me a message in the inbox & I can go further, Well okay *if* you have been together for awhile & you could REALLY see yourself with this boy later on then you should try an work it out, But, from my guess you may be young a little bit ( NO OFFENSE ) & probably still curious, IF when you see eachother he always wants to have sexual..encounters, and he doesnt usually call you, He probably is using you & I would dump him. But hey, if you like him, Start calling him show more interest and see what happens, Call him up; invite him over, or ask to do something like go to the movies. If yall go to the same school and things arent going well no, tell him maybe yall should see what happens when school starts up again.

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im 17/f and i have a little acne on my face. the only place i get them is on my forehead and especailly my chin. i was wondering if anyone knew of any good acne products that arent real expensive? what the product is called, how much it costs, how good it works, and where i can find it? thanks so much!

Ahh I had such a similar problem, one day I woke up and I screamed! haha, well I experimented with a LOT of 'face-creams' These worked for me : "Neutrogena Acne & Oil wash"

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Hmm well maybe I should start like this. I met this girl like 5-6 months ago and she was pretty cool so we became pretty good friends. Now after being with her at school and seeing her here and there after school, I finally figured out I like her a lot. She had a bf though, but he treated her like crap, he wouldnt ever talk to her or do things with her etc. So now she broke up with him and I'm not sure if she likes me or not but I dont want to ask her out because if she doesnt like me our friendship will suffer, and plus I dont usually like to ask people out.

Well, I think you shouldn't freak her out and tell her you like her so much suddenly unless she acts like she really likes you, Just give it time Ya know? , Well Start spending time with her.. DO not help her or support her wayy too much with her boyfriend or else she'll view you as a brother or a close or bestfriend. So when you think the time is right , Just ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner or something. Good luck !! Best wishes to your courage to ask !!

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Is there a site on the internet (like cdzinc.com) that provides free listening music to everyone? I don't mean one of those illegal downloading sites, just a site where you can listen to the music but not download it.

Launch.yahoo.com

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Ok.. well first of all my younger brother has a mental disability called Autism. I try rally hard to be nice to him and understand him but sometimes he drives me crazy! But my older sister just doesnt understand him AT ALL and doesnt try to help him and is always mean to him. I try to talk to her but shes just mean to me too... What should i do?

I agree with the other advice, If your sister is out of hand being rude, Explain how he feels when he's treated that way. Tell your rents they should sit down and talk to her.. Talking doesnt work punishment would. That's really rude of her, Explain he's still a human being Just because he has a mental disability doesnt make him any different to be treated Worse than others.

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I don't like this kid but he's been inviting me and my friend to the park with his friend. What should I do? I say no, but he keeps asking. My friend thinks its really funny and wants to go with him one time. I don't want to go because he is a jerk and has gotten into some trouble lately... what should I do? I don't want my friend to be mad or I don't want her to think I'm scared of him or something. He said that we should meet him on a certain day because my close friend would be there... I love that girl but that still won't persuade me to go with them. Why does this kid keep asking me to go with him?? I really really don't know what to do!

_**Confused**_

I think this kid likes you , Well I'd be a bit confused too.. But I have been in the same situation , Not the park though. Well listen , I think you should go once, Take your friend with you & another friend, a cell phone.. And make sure it's in a PUBLIC pllace, that there WILL be people, Almost anywhere you go.. If not , Explain to your friend how dumb it is to go with this guy if he has got in so much trouble, What if you say no about going to a 'private spot' when he asks and something goes wrong? Well that would be BAD. explain that to her hun, If he's been in awful trouble.. You know? Then you definetly need to Explain to your friend the negatives that could happen .. there are MANY, send a message if you need further help ! GOod luck beautiful

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Well hey yall, The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here?

WEell to those of you who want to be rude, I know this was a fucking accident. Me and him have been together for almost two years, & I know hell be there after his daddy Already saying he'd care & support ifa nything like that went wrong.. and IM NOT trying to act hard .. Its not something I want to go through I just want help

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ok im going 2 a new school and i hav a new friend.. she and i both like the same guy... and unfortunately he won't tell ne 1 who he likes at the moment... and he never tells ne 1 if its the newest person i school.... and im not sure if he likes me... but my friend says he does.... she isn't mad at me... but i dont' want 2 her 2 no that i like him.... what should i do 2 find out if he likes me? should i ask him myself?

RATING!

Thanx, Hope (lil hil)

Hey hun ! I agree with others, talk to your friend about it.. she must not like him anymore, Can you tell by the way she says "he likes you?" Is it the little snobbyish way, jealous.. ? By the tone of her voice I mean, Well if not then tell her you really do like him.. If your gona ask him I'd personally ask him alone, not with a friend unless you really want to . Well good luck sweetheart!

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I have a friend who cant keep her mouth shut! She tells everything I say and I always try to remember tp tell her stuff but sometimes i am just itcing to tell someone. I really wanna be her friend but then again I dont NEED her! any suggestions? 5 points for anyone who helps! xoxo

Hey, well you know if shes driving you CRAZYY annoying, then you should just start kinda acting a bit annoyed, IF she doesnt get it then damn. Well hey when I was ab 14 I had the same prob like that, She drove me CRAZY! And she acted so hot for what she's not, okay back to the point, what we did, Well I found some others who felt the same way.. A girl that is open not totally good friends with her had said something.. A few guys found out, they said something too.. Explain to her in a nice way if you wana keep her ya know ? Well and if not just tell her straight up harshly, she may forgive you if shes understandable

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well ive had a fwb for awhile and its been going pretty good up until now .. hes my best friends ex from a while ago and she doesnt have a problem with it .. but me and him dont really get along anymore so weve decided to stop. the problem is now i like my other best friends ex boyfriend and i dont know if i should tell her or not because im afraid she'll be mad. She told me she thought it was wrong of me to hook up with our other friends ex so im scared shell think its wrong to go out with her ex. i really like him and she told me she noticed me flirting with him lately but i dont know if she cares because she doesnt like him anymore .. i don't know if i should just ignore my feelings or let her know the truth? does anyone know what i should do?

I dont think you shoulld hook up with him , you know ? It would be reasonable if you were in love.. the two of you , But if not I think your better off keeping your best friend rather than losing her over some guy. Well maybe not some guy to you, but If yall arent in 'real' Love you know? WEll good luck hunni! xox

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