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ok. here's the deal. I loved my boyfriend sooo much. we went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing. but he really was drunk cause my friend went to a bar before we went swimming and she said he was hammered. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. yesturday, he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Shoould I believe what he says? I really need help! PLEASE HELP! =(
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Mkay he sounds like my (current) boyfriend (he's changed i think) but thats besides tha point.. Well for one he has a gf and hes doing stuff with you while goin out with her .. and if you went out with him whos to say he wouldnt do stuff with her or another gurl while yall were goin out.. another thing.. he needs to stop with the excuses. i mean he kissed u again even tho it was only a peck but wat excuse is he gonna use this time..taht he was HIGH i mean really. I would make him earn his trust back b.c for now you can't trust him and you're havin trouble believing what he says so if he really wants to be with you then he needs to SHOW you and stop makin excuses. Hope I helped =]
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Don't believe a word he says until the girlfriend he has is history. He has already cheated on you with a friend of yours. He may be using you so just keep an eye out and don't trust him. Sorry but that's how I'm seeing it. :)
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Okay , Hey well, listen I bet youre gona get a LOT of "he's using you" kinda advice, welps I have a LOT of experience in boys so I'm gona tell you what I think, If you love this boy a lot lot you need to tell him, if he really is sorry he should probably tell his girlfriend he still has love for you and break it off easily, & then you, you should tell him.. he hurt you and you don't wana be hurt and ask for him to prove his love to you & that he won't hurt you or leave you for any friends.. (It may be a HARD path but it will be worth it in the end) Good luck girl if there is anything else more indepth let me know! <3
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he is an awful person to do that to you. he obviously doesnt know what he wants, and he changes his mind often. if he dumped you for someone once he can do it again. and you might give up some things you wouldnt want to give to someone that shallow, you would regret it. you should find someone new who will treat you better, and not bounce from you to your friend whenever he feels like it.
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i think he is kinda trying to lead you on . and use you b.c i mean jeez behind his girls back he wants you but no telling what he is telling all his friends or his girl.. but THIS girl.. DITCH her.. i mean she may be your best friend and that is hard. but you dunt TAKE your best friends boyfriend that is just wrong that is just a D0 N0T D0O .. if she did it once she will do it again! but i mean just see what happens. i swear i think he likes you.. but he's just confused i hope i helped - Katherine rate me
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