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well my boyfriend is really nice. I just met him and hes really interesting and we really click. Except he seems a little too nice. Hes always telling me that he loves me and that im hot and pretty ALL the time! Then he asked me if I ever made out with anyone. I said no and he said, "oh who do u plan on making out with for the first time?" But still he really loves me and he is so nice.

Do you think hes using me?

i dont think he is, but you might want to hang around him more and see if he asks for anything else. im actually going through the same thing right now. my bf seems too perfect and its always about me, and im just expecting any day for him to ask for something like a bj or sex or something of the sort, and i just dont know if he really cares for me or just wants to do me, maybe you could help me too! haha

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ok. here's the deal. I loved my boyfriend sooo much. we went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing. but he really was drunk cause my friend went to a bar before we went swimming and she said he was hammered. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. yesturday, he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Shoould I believe what he says? I really need help! PLEASE HELP! =(

he is an awful person to do that to you. he obviously doesnt know what he wants, and he changes his mind often. if he dumped you for someone once he can do it again. and you might give up some things you wouldnt want to give to someone that shallow, you would regret it. you should find someone new who will treat you better, and not bounce from you to your friend whenever he feels like it.

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i have a bf that i like very much. but, we don't talk often. its the summer now so we don't get to see eachother very often and he doesn't come on instant messaging often either. he isn't really considerate, but he is very nice and funny. um, i guess i'm just worried if he really likes me or if he is just using me. i could call him, but he isn't usually home. i cant exactly tell him how i feel because i'm kind of shy. should i break up with him? or should i try to stay in this relationship and make it better?

you should talk to him. even though you are shy, you wont regret it. you will find out how he really feels. and the more you conquer your shyness the easier it will be other times. so just give it a try doll.

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I just had surgery and i can't really walk very well and i have to go to registration at middleschool in 2 days. I am not sure if i will be better by then and i am nervous that people will think i am a weirdo if i walk around limping. What should i do?

ive been through that too except it was the first day of high school and i had no idea where i was going and everything was so big. it was hard, but i got through it, people most likely wont think your a freak and if they come up and talk to you gently ease in the subject of your leg, and then people will know that it is temporary, and they would have to be really cold and rude to make fun of someone who had a disability, you wouldnt want them as a friend anyway.

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ok, my bf thinks that i dont like him very much...but i dont know y. i mean i told him that that isnt the deal but he wont listen. he even asked advice on here that said "i think my gf is going to break up with me...but i dont know. i dont think she likes me that much. what should i do?"
can you belive that. i dont know how to get it through to him that i really really like him. how? any advice?

tell him to stop being emo and sex him up!

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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this???

those people are morons for thinking your a slut just from someone touching your butt/boobs. i woudl talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and ask if he had told people something untrue.

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i have this friend tht i have known for years and she always seems to beat me at everything music grades, instrumentsand she is better at everything than me such as sports (netball) snd she thinks tht ts a competition. should i dump her as a friend or tell her how i feel?

you should definantly tell her how you feel, but in a nice way, and make sure she knows you want to talk it over and not just stop being friends, and if she cant understand that, then shes not worth keeping.

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