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i have a bf that i like very much. but, we don't talk often. its the summer now so we don't get to see eachother very often and he doesn't come on instant messaging often either. he isn't really considerate, but he is very nice and funny. um, i guess i'm just worried if he really likes me or if he is just using me. i could call him, but he isn't usually home. i cant exactly tell him how i feel because i'm kind of shy. should i break up with him? or should i try to stay in this relationship and make it better?
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dump him u guys never talk thats not a relation ship me id dump him he could call or wright if not her lost something good your to good for him
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Bonjournio,
Find him. Call his friend's house, his neighbors, call his house at 7am and wake him up. Ask him to come see you/meet you somewhere as soon as possible. Be straight with him: "What's going on? Do you like me or not, because you have me very confused. If you like me, we need to put a little bit more commitment into this relationship. Call. Email. Just let me know you're still alive once and a while! If you don't like me, let's end it right here, because any further and we could both get hurt." Make sure you're prepared to accept both answers. If he says no, don't walk away like a sorry dog. Give him a hug, tell him it was good, and walk away like a strong, confident girl. If he says yes, give him a kiss and ask him what he's doing this afternoon. Make sure he realizes that you're not a passive girl, not going to sit at home and wait for the phone to ring.
Mucho luck,
OhSoFamous
P.S. If you feel shy with this guy, why are you with him? Your boyfriend should be someone you can talk with, laugh with, cry with, and live with.
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i think you should stay in this relationship and try to make it better and if it doesn't get better then you should break up and just go separate ways and just be friends.
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You do need to learn to express your feelings to him. If you can't do it with him you won't be able to in your next relationship either. I don't know that hes using you, he is probably, as you said just inconsiderate. He may not even realize it. Tell him and see if things improve. :)
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call him and ask him if he likes you. I do that if I think a guy doesn't like me. And make him swear his life (or balls...always works) on his answer.
or break up with him.
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you should talk to him. even though you are shy, you wont regret it. you will find out how he really feels. and the more you conquer your shyness the easier it will be other times. so just give it a try doll.
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I'm gona try and help you the best I can with the info you gave me, if you still can't decide send me a message in the inbox & I can go further, Well okay *if* you have been together for awhile & you could REALLY see yourself with this boy later on then you should try an work it out, But, from my guess you may be young a little bit ( NO OFFENSE ) & probably still curious, IF when you see eachother he always wants to have sexual..encounters, and he doesnt usually call you, He probably is using you & I would dump him. But hey, if you like him, Start calling him show more interest and see what happens, Call him up; invite him over, or ask to do something like go to the movies. If yall go to the same school and things arent going well no, tell him maybe yall should see what happens when school starts up again.
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if your not totally comfurtable talking to him about what your feeling then you shouldnt be with him. you shouldnt be embarresed infront of him to like talk about stuff and what not. so either your not ready for a relationship or you just need to find someone your more comfurtable around. someone you can talk to and share your feelings with. so think about that!
michelle<|3
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