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Hey! I'm OhSoFamous, and I'm from eastern Canada. I am currently a student but I also ride horses. I currently have my top mount, Cody, in jumper training. Then there is my second mount, Soulie, who shows western pleasure. And last but not least we have Misty, who is in a lease agreement. I love to compete with these horses, and my favorite part of shows is the barrel racing. Actually, my favorite part of shows is the barrel racers! Haha!

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16/F, You know that typical story of if the most popular guy likes a girl who is considered a geek/loser that everyone likes to pick on and his friends don't approve by saying that you're reputation will be ruined etc. Then his friends would give them both a hard time in school. I'm in that type of situation and I'm wondering why does this happen?

I think this happens because naturally, the most popular guy in the school should have the most popular girl. It's pretty much the food chain.

When the popular boy goes for the geeky girl, its breaking the food chain. All his friends step in and say 'Why would you go for her when you could have HER?' so yeah, it's amazingly stupid but then again so is human nature in general.

If this guy really likes you he'll forget about what everyone else thinks and start thinking about how much you mean to him and he means to you.

If things are supposed to work out, they will.

Good luck,
OhSoFamous

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omgsh ok i like this guy and we both like each other( we talk everyday and we have told each other that we like eachother) and he has told me he loves me : ) aww i noe sweet!! so ok well we start high school in a month and we really wanna go out but see he doesnt want to go out over the summer , and when school starts i cant promise him that i will feel this strong about him!!! wat do u think i should do!?

Ciao,

Do you love him? If you do, just keep thinking that. Your feelings should carry on if you have commitment for each other.

Fortuna buona,
OhSoFamous

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Okay, so I like this guy and I can't bring myself to ask him if he likes me back even though people say i should. On top of that my ex boyfriend likes me again and my best friend is trying to force me to go back with him. She also said i wouldnt get anywhere with the guy i like and that really hurt. I'm so confused.

P.S the guy i like is really shy..and so am i

The best friend needs to go. If she's pressuring you and hurting you its a bad friendship. If you like the guy, you need to let your feelings take charge. I really liked your question because it made me realize I have to do just that: go after my crush. Thanks!

Best of luck,
OhSoFamous

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Where can I get really cheap but stylish clothes in California besides the mall?

Ole!

Rodeo drive hunney, might not be cheap but it is the center of stylish.

In style,
OhSoFamous

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I know this one girl, lets call her Natasha. Natasha goes to this high school that's pretty close to my high school so i see her pretty often. I really like her alot, but it seems like she never notices me. we met once but i don't think she remembers. She's always hanging around these other people i know who are also my friends. How am i gonna get her to notice me?

Greetings,

Go over to your friends when she's there. Ask a friend beforehand to maybe 'play you up' to her. Ask that same friend to introduce you two. If she's into you, she should let you know by striking up a conversation. If she's not, she'll blow you off.

Life's hard,
OhSoFamous

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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up on August 17th. I want to do something really special for him. Any suggestions are appreciated!

Ooh, birthday girl-in-law,

I don't know you, your town, or your boyfriend, but here's what I would do. Near where I live is a huge dam. (It's actually a water treatment center, so romantic huh?) but anyways the lake that feeds it is BEAUTIFUL. We have the most amazing sunsets. I would take him there, close his eyes and take him to the top of this 75ft structure and hold his hand while we watched the orange sun set in a red streaked sky over a still lake. Then we would go out to dinner and probably get a movie like The Notebook or something.

What I would do,
OhSoFamous

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Anyone,know a store that sells really nice guitar.
Not,the kind that you have to order online.

Aha!

FIND YOUR NEAREST GIBSON DEALER. If you have buckets of disposable income, definetely buy Gibson. On a budget? B.C. Rich and Fender will work. They're my recommended brands because they're high quality and nice to play. Gibson's also increase in value so they're nice.

Happy tunes,
OhSoFamous the wannabe rockstar.

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all off my friends dont like my girlfriend but i really like her, what should i do

Ahoy,

Tell your friends they're going to have to get used to her 'cause she's stickin' around! Besides, you and her are together, not all your friends and her. If you like her, your heart, not your friends, should be your guide.

Best of luck,
OhSoFamous

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i have a bf that i like very much. but, we don't talk often. its the summer now so we don't get to see eachother very often and he doesn't come on instant messaging often either. he isn't really considerate, but he is very nice and funny. um, i guess i'm just worried if he really likes me or if he is just using me. i could call him, but he isn't usually home. i cant exactly tell him how i feel because i'm kind of shy. should i break up with him? or should i try to stay in this relationship and make it better?

Bonjournio,

Find him. Call his friend's house, his neighbors, call his house at 7am and wake him up. Ask him to come see you/meet you somewhere as soon as possible. Be straight with him: "What's going on? Do you like me or not, because you have me very confused. If you like me, we need to put a little bit more commitment into this relationship. Call. Email. Just let me know you're still alive once and a while! If you don't like me, let's end it right here, because any further and we could both get hurt." Make sure you're prepared to accept both answers. If he says no, don't walk away like a sorry dog. Give him a hug, tell him it was good, and walk away like a strong, confident girl. If he says yes, give him a kiss and ask him what he's doing this afternoon. Make sure he realizes that you're not a passive girl, not going to sit at home and wait for the phone to ring.

Mucho luck,
OhSoFamous

P.S. If you feel shy with this guy, why are you with him? Your boyfriend should be someone you can talk with, laugh with, cry with, and live with.

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Okay, so I'm engaged.
I have a friend with whom I used to be extremely close. I found out, though, after I started dating this guy, that she'd had a crush on him for quite a while.
Just so there are no misconceptions, I'm going to emphasize that I didn't know she liked him before I started dating him. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone out with him.
I was talking to my fiance - he's friends with her too. From what he told me, I think she still likes him. She doesn't know we're engaged. He started to tell her on line, but she signed off before he could and hasn't spoken to him since.
She's going to find out at some point, but I'd like to tell her in a way that won't...hurt her too much, I suppose.
Is there a way to tell her without going "oh by the way we're engaged" so heartlessly?
The thing is, I could say that, but she'd never admit to me that she still has feelings for him because she wouldn't want me to feel bad.
Any suggestions?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down.
Thanks in advance :)

Hola!

Okay, like mentioned before, you need to tell her. What if she happens to be out grocery shopping one day and someone who does know comes up to her "Oh, did you hear about 'Mark' and 'Stacy'! Such a lovely couple, and now they're engaged!". Let me tell you, if there was ever a better time to fall into a black hole at the supermarket, somebody better tell me. If she's your friend, she would probably feel betrayed that other people knew before you evened slightly mentioned it to her. I think you should take her to a little coffee shop, sit down, make casual conversation, and after a little while just say 'Hey, there's something I need to tell you. I hope you won't be hurt by this, but you need to realize So-And-So and I need to be together. That's why I'm coming right out and telling you this: we're engaged. I hope you'll be supportive of our marriage, and I hope I haven't hurt you.'
If that doesn't work, perhaps you would be better off in the long run without this friend.

Sounds like a perdicament,
OhSoFamous

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I have been in a fight with my best friend for about a week and I have no idea what to do to make us friends again. The fight was over a really stupid reason. She used to have me change her myspace because she didn't know how to do the colors or anything. Well, I haven't really looked at it in a while since she wasn't allowed to go on it anymore. She claims about a month ago she went on and fixed it the way she liked and that I changed it. So she's being seriously retarded about it and won't forgive me. So what should I do? Don't say forget about her she's an idiot (I know she is already) because I don't want to end our friendship over this.

Hey,

I think your problem is pretty common. My best friend and I can be pretty nasty. My advice to you is to call her up/email her/text message her/get a bullhorn and yell at her house from across the street. Even if you didn't do it, apologize. She is probably in a state of mind that she needs to here you say 'I was wrong, you were right' (not that you actually have to say that, we must stand united and not admit we were wrong!) but just apologize. And if she doesn't accept your apology over something petty like this, maybe she doesn't deserve a friend like you. After all, you're the one trying to correct this problem.

You go girl, (and good luck!)
OhSoFamous

P.S. Buy her a Mars bar. Thats the way to my heart at least!

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okay so i have had a crush on my sisters boyfriends brother but they leave in palm springs so he dont really seen to like as much as i like him i dont see him as much as my sis sees him isaw him this weekend and i might not see him till like 5 more months what could i do to make him like me the next time i see him ps try not to make it really nasty cuz my sis will freak out i just want him to notice me.will rate high.

Well you can't make him like you. Just be yourself, because if you act fake and he does like you, you can't go through your relationship being something you're not. Next time you see him, listen to things he has to say. For instance, if you're watching TV or something and he says 'I'm hungry,' or whatever just be like 'Wanna go out for pizza?' and just be friends first. Long distance relationships can work if both people are committed.

Hope it works!
OhSoFamous

P.S. Wearing tight jeans helps! ;-)

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