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best friends not forever?
I have been in a fight with my best friend for about a week and I have no idea what to do to make us friends again. The fight was over a really stupid reason. She used to have me change her myspace because she didn't know how to do the colors or anything. Well, I haven't really looked at it in a while since she wasn't allowed to go on it anymore. She claims about a month ago she went on and fixed it the way she liked and that I changed it. So she's being seriously retarded about it and won't forgive me. So what should I do? Don't say forget about her she's an idiot (I know she is already) because I don't want to end our friendship over this.
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Maybe you could tell her that even though you didnt do it that your sorry about what happened. Then you could go on to tell her that you would still like to be friends with her because you dont wont to lose her.
~Maegan~
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Okay.. tell her that you did not do it and if she doesn't believe you, remind her of how great of friends you two are and that your friendship shouldn't be lost over this little problem. Offer to help her change it back to how she likes it. Hope I helped!!
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try to make friends the stronger person always amts to being wrong even if you dont think you were you dont have to tell her that
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I guess if she really had it changed the way she liked it she needs to change it back. Seriously, that's a pretty petty reason to be mad at someone.
If you messed up her my space apologize one time and leave it up to her to come crawling back. Don't just keep apologizing over and over again.
If you didn't mess it up then tell her you aren't going to apologize for something you didn't do. Tell her you hate to break up a friendship over something as stupid as this. Let her apologize to you. I think you might need to see if there is something else bothering her that is making her act like this. Good luck :)
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tell her that you dont think this is a very good reason to fight. tell her your sorry for changing her myspace and youll ask her before changing it. then like ask her if she wants to go to the mall or something.
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i say you should talk it over with her . be like * whatever her name is * this is a really stupid reason why we are fighting. . . and if you didnt do it try to prove it to her. like that isnt a big deal because of a myspace . . i have problems wit mine all the time but anyways . . b like * blah blah * let me talk and you listen and then seyy like i really want to work this out because we are best friends and best friends dont fight over a stupid reason like this . . . and then let her talk and you listen. . . if it doesnt work out than she really doesnt care about your friendship . . sorry to say that but it is true. . . =))
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ok i think i kno who asked this but if i'm wrong sorry. I think u should not be friends with her because she said "i'm happy ***** is moving to fl, i HATE her" than she talked shit about me. (again really sorry if this isn't who i think it is) she is a theif, caught stealing n ipod n cell phone in the locker room, n going through a teacher's purse!!!!!!
really sorry if this wasn't my friend, totallty disregard if so
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i know it sounds to easy to be true- but just tell her exactly what you just asked. tell her that you dont wanna ruin a perfectly good friendship over sumthin so stupid.as for now, thats all i can tell you. get back to me if you still need help. *~aim~* mikelly4039
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hi,
don't worry your friend will come round and I'm sure that if she doesn't she will come to find that the more people she is mean to the less friends she will have
I hope that it all works out for you
from wiggs(advice columnist at advicenators)
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well try giving her a little space for a little bit but if shes still all mad at you, then apologize and stuff. a good way to apologize is to let her know u think this fight isnt worth risking yalls great friendship over and that shes a very dear friend to you and its stupid to lose each other over something so small. saying it over email/ texting is fine but its even more deep and heartfelt if you tell her in person.
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The answer to your question is to tell her EXACTLY what you told everyone here on advicenators... how you feel.
You need to tell her that you're her friend... why would you do that for ABSOLUTELY no reason?
Explain to her that it's not worth fighting over and you don't want to lose a friend over something like this. This is a stupid reason to fight.
Tell her these things. If she won't listen to you, try telling her the same words in different words... does that make any sense? LOL.
It means try telling her what you've been trying to tell her, but use different words.
Same concept, different words.
Do this and it is sure to work. She'll understand if you tell her that a friendship is more important than something on a website.
If you need more advice or need to talk, email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com or email me in my advicenators inbox! :-)
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla ♥
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dont worry. stupid fights are parts of being best friends
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tell your friend that you didnt and if she doesnt believe you then tell her that you wouldnt do that and that she should trust you cause you are her friend.and if she still doesnt believe you then their isnt really anything that you can do but give her space and hopefully she would soon come around.i hope everything works out:)
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Hey,
I think your problem is pretty common. My best friend and I can be pretty nasty. My advice to you is to call her up/email her/text message her/get a bullhorn and yell at her house from across the street. Even if you didn't do it, apologize. She is probably in a state of mind that she needs to here you say 'I was wrong, you were right' (not that you actually have to say that, we must stand united and not admit we were wrong!) but just apologize. And if she doesn't accept your apology over something petty like this, maybe she doesn't deserve a friend like you. After all, you're the one trying to correct this problem.
You go girl, (and good luck!)
OhSoFamous
P.S. Buy her a Mars bar. Thats the way to my heart at least!
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Just give her some time..she'll probably come crawling back to you eventually. Depending on the person, though, it could take a couple days or a couple weeks.
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