hi my name is tara! i know a lot of yall dont feel right asking for advice over the enernet but its completely anonomyous and i promise you i will try very very hard to give the best advice. my interest is for ppl to feel comfortable talking to me and not feeling scared of me like ill judge them or something, but i swear im very understanding. just for fun ill say my hobbies which are reading and writing poetry.
Gender: Female
Location: houston texas
Occupation: student
Age: 13
AIM: idontbangmyknee6
Member Since: July 19, 2005
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OK.. so i know.. online romances are dangerous.. but this is different. Hes my friends cousins friend! Ive never met him personally but I talk to him online and hes sooo sweet. Hes always telling me how nice i am and that he wished i lived in his town. We joke around and when i talk to him im so happy. we're both 14, and i dont know what to think. we were talking and he said i wish i could see u right now so said me too.. lets run away.. (this whole running away thing was just a fantasy for BOTH of us.. we're not really gunna do it).. and we said we were going to vegas together. and we both plan to go to collage in FL, and if we go to the ones we both want, we'll be kinda close.. miami and tampa. and i really really want that. but idk what to do. should i tell him how i feel?.. if i should .. how do i do it?.. im usually very outgoing.. but with this im kinda shy. and wow.. so please just give me your honest opinion on the whole situation. I rate high for advice I like, and i dont rate at all if i dont like it.. i dont like lowering peoples ratings for one question. Thanks in advance! (link)
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well yeah i know exactly how you feel! k well u should definately tell him cuz youre like 99% this guy is for real right? even if youre shy its okay because ill bet hed be really happy to hear that so i dont think you would regret telling him. then when yall finally will meet, just to be safe, meet in a public place like a resturant and if yall communicate in person and connect, then go for it and good luck to you!
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I just had surgery and i can't really walk very well and i have to go to registration at middleschool in 2 days. I am not sure if i will be better by then and i am nervous that people will think i am a weirdo if i walk around limping. What should i do? (link)
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its not your fault you limp, you just had surgery! if people laugh and think you're a weirdo and bully you and stuff, then they're just pathetic jerks who dont deserve for you to give them the time of day!
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been GREAT... we have been goin out for 5 months and everything was the way I wanted it to be... except for two things... he always wants us to have some kind of sexual contact. He always wants to fingwer me and stuff... and he always wants me touching him. and up until I came back from France Our talkin relantionship was perfect. And now we fight all the time. I want so bad to break up with him but I keep thinkin what I would be without him and to me... I don't think I would be anything... What should I do? (link)
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if u already talked about him and that didnt help, then let him go! ull be fine without him and thats pitiful you think ud be nothing with him!! hello you are a person with your own life and personality! maybe this could give you the space to get more comfortable with who you are and learn how to live without a boyfriend by your side.
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I have been in a fight with my best friend for about a week and I have no idea what to do to make us friends again. The fight was over a really stupid reason. She used to have me change her myspace because she didn't know how to do the colors or anything. Well, I haven't really looked at it in a while since she wasn't allowed to go on it anymore. She claims about a month ago she went on and fixed it the way she liked and that I changed it. So she's being seriously retarded about it and won't forgive me. So what should I do? Don't say forget about her she's an idiot (I know she is already) because I don't want to end our friendship over this. (link)
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well try giving her a little space for a little bit but if shes still all mad at you, then apologize and stuff. a good way to apologize is to let her know u think this fight isnt worth risking yalls great friendship over and that shes a very dear friend to you and its stupid to lose each other over something so small. saying it over email/ texting is fine but its even more deep and heartfelt if you tell her in person.
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hey thanks 4 writing bak. he's actualy a really good friend, im really close to his fam and we've just been buddies 4 ever, hes never made moves on me but wen he did he was trashed i dismissed it as nothing due to his intoxication, but over the nxt few days (when he was sober) he was still making moves so, i dono i hope everything works out. thanks again (link)
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your welcome
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hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks (link)
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in my opinion, its better to save it until marriage because its possible you could regret it and of course you cant take it back. have you asked your girl friend how she liked her first times? well first of course you talk it over with her, make sure you're really ready i mean really ready then go ahead and do it if you're really sure and really in love
CAUTION: be careful and safe, i know you know that but im just saying
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There is this guy that i like and he likes me but he has a girlfriend. he is my really good friend. but he made a move on me. people tell me to just stay friends with him. i agree with those people but i dont know what i am gunna say to him..*
Help Please
-x- Bridgette -x- (link)
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so he makes the moves on you while he still has a girl friend? that shows what kind of boyfriend hed be to you doesnt it? tell him if hes really into you then he shouldnt have a girl friend and he definately shouldnt be willing to cheat. but if he does dump her and stuff and then asks you out, if you really really like him maybe you should give him a chance and maybe that boyfriend/girlfriend bond will make yalls relationship stronger
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ive a friend, ill call him B weve been friends all thro HS, @ this party he was trashed and was making out w/ me i dindt care no big deal, until he invited me over that nite to have sex, i was like umm thanks but no, over the nxt few days he's trying to hang out all the time and hookup, hes HOT but were pretty good friends, so its random and wierd, i had to travel so he was trying to hang out b4 i left, so the morning i was gonna leave he was liek cum over i wanna say bye meanwile im only gone for 2 weeks not a long, time so i went and said by, no biggie just since wen do friends try to fuck friends? im saying ill prolly hkup w/ him but i dont want tings to b wierd ya kno? write me bak! (link)
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man that guy doesnt sound like such a great guy to be friends with. like he starts getting into you when hes trashed and makes the moves on you? that doesnt sound like a nice friendship so since things are already weird just go for it i guess if you like him but are you sure he wont just dump you once he gets into your pants? i know i didnt help you very much sorry but if i were you, id try to dump the guy all together because i agree, since when do friends try to fuck friends?
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Hey Tara...I was wondering...I am always being put down by my brother about how I look...even my little sister also agrees!! I can't take it...I've tried going on diets but me and diets just don't mix!! it's not working!! please help me be more comfortable with the way I look...
Sincerely yours,
Non-Movie Star Body (link)
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girl i know exactly how that feels!! honestly, there is no certain way to get over that kind of anxiety stuff cause all you can do really is let people's rude comments roll of your shoulders. your siblings have the annoying duty to put you down and like me finally you'll get so sick of it you stop listening and ignore the things they say cause no one else opinion matters, belive in yourself and concentrate on your strong points not flaws. i know its hard to do that but you gotta try to feel more confident. focus on what your good at and stuff. about the diet thing a good thing to do is eat a lot of protein and 6 small healthy meals a day so you dont binge. also you can come up with a daily workout routine for yourself and you can start simple like just push ups and crunched and stuff then work it up to jogging and that crap... well good luck to you!! oh and some examples of the protein thing is fish, grilled chicken, salmon, vegetables and fruit
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