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should we make love?
hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks
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listen 2 your heart if youre sure itz wat you wanna do go 4 it. but dont do it cuz you dont wanna be a virgin anymore, do it cuz you love her
stay safe& hope it helped
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i don't think that you should. how do you know that she is the one that is suppose to be your first? i know that you 'love' her, but is that really enough to do this? this either could something totally awesome or something totally terrible ending with an unplanned pregnacy. i think that you should wait and think about it some more. yes, you think you are ready, but think about all the possible consquences of this before you do anything.
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personaly i'd wait for marriage but you probably think that i'm retarded... I'm just saying love is tricky and you don't want to have regrets. Break ups hurt 100000000 times worse after having sex. don't put your heart or your health in jeopardy.
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If your in love and you want her to be your first then go for it. Just remember to be safe. Have fun with that!
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i think if you are really inlove and you are ready to expiernce sex with the love of your life then go ahead. but just remember your girlfriend is right you cant take back your first time so think about it and know for sure that you are ready! Also remember "wrap it before you tap it!" lol! :D
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If you think you're ready, and you've found the one, then go for it.
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hey if you really truely love her then no1z stopping you if you think shes the 1 the why not hope i helped
Morgan
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your gf has a good point. i mean your giving your mind body and soul to her. but if you think your ready for this then i guess...go for it. i mean you love her, she loves you, and it seems to me that you really care about her bc otherwise you wouldnt be asking other people if you should. i hope your making the right desision and i wish the best of luck to you two. ♥ leah
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Go for it. But be safe!
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She's right, you can't take back your first time. If you honestly think it's the right time, then you should go for it. But wait a little while longer to make sure shes the one, because you don't want to want to take back your first time.
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in my opinion, its better to save it until marriage because its possible you could regret it and of course you cant take it back. have you asked your girl friend how she liked her first times? well first of course you talk it over with her, make sure you're really ready i mean really ready then go ahead and do it if you're really sure and really in love
CAUTION: be careful and safe, i know you know that but im just saying
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Since you're here, you are obviously having reservations about sex. The best thing to do is take your time, make sure you're ready, and don't rush into anything. Talking it over a lot with your girlfriend will help. I don't mean to talk the issue over until it's dead, but to make sure you're both comfortable with the issue of having sex. You're lucky to have a supportive girlfriend.
I think you're showing a lot of maturity in taking the time to make an informed decision. Your girlfriend is right about not being able to take back your first time.
Wait until you're ready and sure about sex before taking that step. No one can tell you when that time is, only you can know.
Good luck. Be safe,
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Wait untill marriage, cuz she's right. You can't take back your first time, and when your older you may regret it, because even studies show if you wait untill marraige, you'll be getting it better and you won't regret things at all.
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If you two really love each other than I say, why not? Just be careful.
xoxo
Jessica
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