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Ok..this guy..I really like him and like everyone had told me that he likes me too..then my bestest friend like came with me to see him and they were all dancing and like they were flirting but she has a boyfriend ((of 5 months)) and like i think she is gonna ruin what me and ((we'll call him mm))MM have and like i dont want that to happen..should i just like not take her back or what should i do!? please help i rate high! (link)
u need to sit her down and talk to her and remind her that you like him and that shes has a boyfriend..


i want to dye some of my hair with this "Loreal Color Pulse", I need to know the price. has anyone ever used it? and does it work good? and i need the price of it at a local Walgreens Or CVS cuz i want to buy it but im not sure how much it is.thanks!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
i recently bought a box and it works really well 8 dollars @ walgreens


I'm 14 and I'm one of 3 people in my grade that doesn't have a cell phone. I'm constantly out with my friends and they don't like me to call home on their phones cus it uses there minutes. *They didn't mind at first but when I have to constantly call home they got frusterated* My parents want me to call all the time when I'm out. I've tried explaining to them all the reasons why I need one, Like how they want me to call home and all that but they still say you dont get one till your 16 like your brothers. Well, im not my brothers, im more responsible, but i tried to tell my parents that and they wont believe me!
What should I do? (link)
prove to them that you are responsible enough to get a cell phone. do things without being told to that you know you need to. and they will see that oyu are more responsible. and hopefully you'll get your cell phone


Hi my name is Bill. Im 15 and I currently attend a christian church. As a baby my parents werent married, my mom ran away, my dad couldnt afford a baby soo he left me with his parents. I grew up with my grandparents till right before my 15th b-day when my grandma died from carcinoid cancer. after that i weant to live with my dad. instead of being distanced from God I feel closer. my pastor said im the strongest person he's met. what does he mean by that? by the way i want to go to olivet collage and become a youth pastor myself. (link)
that is awesome that you want to become a pastor.! im pretty sure from what your pastor said by being the strongest person's he's met he is meaning that because you've lived though both your parents giving you away and your grandmas' death and dealing with it by getting a stronger connection with God.


hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks (link)
i think if you are really inlove and you are ready to expiernce sex with the love of your life then go ahead. but just remember your girlfriend is right you cant take back your first time so think about it and know for sure that you are ready! Also remember "wrap it before you tap it!" lol! :D



My boyfriend of over two years is in the Navy. We're working on a long distance relationship and we have gotten so much closer, it's unbelievable. I'm going to visit him in 18 days where he's stationed in Florida, and I'm going to be there for almost two weeks. I want these two weeks to be the best ever. Any suggestions on what I can do to make it awesome? What kinda things can we do, or what can I say/do to show him my feelings haven't changed? I want this to be perfect. =) (link)
just be the woman he fell in love with be yourself... that will make it perfect enough


I apologize in advance because this is going to be pretty long. I'm a sixteen year old girl and I've been single my entire life up until now. I met this great guy at work, and we both liked each other. Our first date was absolutely perfect. It was more of a date to make things official seeing as we already knew a lot about each other. He gave me a red rose, we held hands in the mall, cuddled in the movies, and he kissed me goodnight in the rain. It was perfect. With this being my first relationship ever, I'm freaking out. I know you're not supposed to kiss on the first date, and I wasn't exactly ready for it either. I know that in a relationship, a guy is going to want something "more" than what I'm willing to give. My morals are that I don't want to go past kissing wiht a guy until I'm married. I'm not ready for anything sexual...I'm only 16! Everyone has told me that before you love someone else, you have to love yourself. That could be an issue with me, since I'm full of self-loathing and I have no self-esteem. I can't understand how a guy would pick me in the first place. My internal conflicts are seriously creating a huge dilemma for me and I don't know what to do anymore. This guy made me so happy at first. I could not stop talking about him and I was so happy for once in my life. But now that things are moving faster, I'm freaking out and instead of smiling all the time, I cry. I don't want to give up something like this...what I've longed for my entire life. At the same time, I can't just ignore my issues. I need help. Please tell me what to do. :'( Thank you so much. (link)
keep the relationship at the pace you want it to go.. your in control of your feelings in the relationship just because you really like this guy doesnt mean that you have to put aside your feelings in order to make him happy, make your self happy do what YOU want to do not what he wants you to do.


is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this) (link)
yes its possible just as possible if you werent wearing glasses, but wearing glasses doesnt disadvantage you at all :D


hey jess, iw as wondering, do girls have the same g-spot i mean like is it in the same place? (link)
not all girls have the same g-spot some girls have it in different places then other girls
thanks for stopping by


hi, this has been bugging me for ages. when i was 13 i got the chicken pox. i went to the hospital and was seen by a male doctor. he asked me to take my top off to have a better look at my spots. i had them on my arms and body. then he told me to take my cami-top off too so i'd be naked down to my waist. i cried but he insisted it had to be done. so i did and he touched my breasts...all this was to confirm i had chicken pox. thats not normal is it? (link)
its not right, you should report him because he couldve looked at your arms and back but your breast, that doesnt even sound right..


14/f Ok so i have nothing to do this summer and I've been riding my bike to K-mart and stealing. I know its wrong, but its k-mart. I got some thongs---my mom don't let me wear them so i pissed her off and some hair dye which pissed her off even more. But i want something better to do with my summer besides a life of crime. Any suggestions? (link)
try hanging out with friends, getting out of the house and having fun instead of pissing your mom off, ride your bike to the community pool if you have one and go swimming, there is alot of things you can do beside riding oyur bike to k-mart and stealing because, if you keep doing it then one day you'll get caught, fined and maybe put in juvy for stealing.


hye jess i have this firend who i like but she is gogn out with thsi other dud e and my fjirend wants her what does he do???? (link)
well you need to tell your friend about your feelings she'll either reject of approve of them. Its always a good thing to let out how you feel because in the end you know if its meant to be it is. thanks for stopping by


i had alot of pimples to begin with, and then i used proactiv and they went away. um, well now, i used up almost all the stuff and so i don't use it as often as i use to and i don't use as much.. because the bottle is pretty much empty, so i smack it and get as much as i can every night.. well anyway, it seems that the amount i use isn't enough, because my pimples are coming back. i have alot of them, and they make me look like crap. does anyone having any suggestions for me to get rid of those pimples um.. as soon as possible? because i have to go somewhere and i want to look um... pretty.. hehh.. if you could suggest something that works as good as proactiv but isn't as expensive, that'd be nice too.. thank you very much! (link)
well first of all proactiv is great stuff ive used it. but i think you may need to go see a dermitologist to see whats up, because ive stopped using proactive for awhile and non have showed up on me. and to tell you the truth anything that you buy for acne is going to be a lil expensive but if you dont want to go to a demitologist try the clinique 1...2..3.. steps tahts good stuff too :D




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