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idk if this is friend or love kinda both
Ok..this guy..I really like him and like everyone had told me that he likes me too..then my bestest friend like came with me to see him and they were all dancing and like they were flirting but she has a boyfriend ((of 5 months)) and like i think she is gonna ruin what me and ((we'll call him mm))MM have and like i dont want that to happen..should i just like not take her back or what should i do!? please help i rate high!
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talk to your friend and explain the fact that you really like this guy and didnt likethe way she was acting around him. she probably didint even know it was making you unhappy and im sure that that wasnt her intention. and as for the guy, i think you should tell him how you feel about him. just get it out in the open and you'll feel much better for it and you will know how he feels about you so your not trying to guess why he is doing things. maybe he didnt know how u feel and so didnt see a problem with the way he acted. but ye i think the bestthing to do is to talk to both of them!
good luck!
hope i helped!
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In my opinion you should start by expressing to your friend how you feel about her flirting with the guy you like. I know that alot of people say in that "unwritten book of dating" or what ever you want to call it, when a friend is flirting with your man or ex or someone you like, or if they date them, it's like breaking the rules. So express to her how you feel and that it hurts to see them together. And i dont know if you have already told the guy how you feel but maybe you should tell him that you really like him and all that stuff, you really just have to express your feelings.
Hope it helps,
~DeVy
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Ask her what she was doing, but ask her nicely. She might not have realized she was flirting. If she's your bestest friend then I'm sure she wasn't trying to hurt you! Maybe she's had a crush on this guy forever too and didn't want to tell you. Most likely, she's not doing it just to hurt you. That only happens in movies. And anyways, it'd just be dumb. I wouldn't think you'd be bestest friends with someone who you probably knew could or would do something like that. Good luck!
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u need to sit her down and talk to her and remind her that you like him and that shes has a boyfriend..
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find out if he really likes you...go staright to the source...then if he doesnt dont feel bad..there are more guys int eh world...and talk to your friend about it..tell ehr to back off...he's mine!
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talk to her about it she might have been feeling depressed or something could have happened with her and her bf that she is not telling you about. If you talk to her and she keeps flirting with your bf I don't think that she is a true friend!!
hope this helps!!!
Lauren_E_x3
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Mkay.. Well apparently she's not a true friend if she can flirt with tha guy you like especially when she has a boyfriend. She'd really have to be someone special for me to take her back in my personal opinion.. THa guy on the other hand shouldn't have been dancing with your friend if he supposedly liked you. Neither one of them sound like they're very loyal as friends but its really up to you whether you want to continue being friends with her or not. Hope I helped =]
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Okay i have been in this situation in a kinda way.. i think your friend just doesnt want you to have this attention.. and i think you should talk to her about this b.c you are gonna get mad at her b.c i mean friends dont do that crap to each other.. and i think you should explain to her that you like this boy "MM" b.c other wise she is gonna confuse HIM .. and then it may just screw everything up including yalls friendship so your best bet i would think is to just go ahead and talk to her.. she is your best friend she should understand where you are coming from! Hope that help please let me know - Katherine
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Honestly, if I were in your shoes, I wouldn't set up plans between the three of us anymore, until I discover what exactly this boy is feeling for me..
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