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i moved away 2 years ago but i go back and visit every summer and talk to my friends at least once a week so we're still really tight. one of my best friends' dad just died. He's been sick for a while but i dont know what to do. I dont want her to think im abandoning her. I want to call her and tell her that im here and stuff but im scared its too soon. what should i do to tell her im here but not upset her more. its only been about a week since he passed. (link)
uhh, that would really hard for me to handle if my dad passed but i woudl want a really good friend to call me asap .. so its been a week so the funeral and everything is outta the way.. so i would call her the next chance you get!



This is so weird but..my friend has a pic of my ex bf that I like so much and she made him a website and it has the picture. When I saw the picture, I started crying. I dont even know why. Maybe cuz I haven't seen him for 4 months striaght. I'm supposed to be hanging out with him when I get back from vacation. What if when I see him i want to start crying?? What can I do and why did i start crying like that?? How can help myself from crying when I see him?? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
It could be many things.. you could of thought you moved on and then just the image of him made your heart drop and all the emotions and feelings you had for him just came rushing back it really sucks but i would say its just a lil love bug; and you seeing him could make things better or worse.. i would go with hanging out with him tho


hey my friend seems like she wants to have all the friends i have so she is trying to take them away and is saying that i cant be some ones friend because that person doesnt like her should i still be her friend if i am not she will make my life a living hell!!!! (link)
I would slowly drift away from her. and i mean dont tell your other friends persay "dont be her friend" but be like "hint:and:clue" to it that she isnt a good friend for making you choose other friends.. i get the jist that she may be using you to get other friends.. so i would drop her .. and if she doesnt have you to get those friends she want have those friends.. so her life will be the living hell and she is a douche so i mean dunt worry about it .. friends dont make other friends choose friends over each other thats just immature and she has lots of growing up to do


School pictures are coming up, and I don't know what I should wear. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
try layering;

sum shirt with is like open and a tank up underneath!


i just cleaned out my whole closet basically and now i only have like 40 shirts! i usually shop at abercrombie // hollister // american eagle, and its pretty pricy. i was wondering if there was any other stores that have websites with cute clothes for school this year. and if you could name some. thank youu! (link)
uhmm.. i wear Abercrombie and Hollister and Buckle but there all pretty expensive!

you could try:

www.daisymaze.com

umm i cant think of any others.


what's the best way to get rid of dark under-eye circles?
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Wash your face in the morning.. helps wake you up.. wear make-up and use concealor under your eyes


whats a really good bronzer in compressed powder form..? i have pretty fair skin but i like to look a bit sunkissed.. any advice? (link)
i like Avon; www.avon.com its called "Tint`N`Go" for cheeks and lips ... i like the "Sunny Glow" color


what are some really good, smudge proof, long lasting black eyeliners?

and what is a good mascara that you can layer and it gets like clumpy and cakey? i like that look.

and what are some tips for putting eyeliner on tje upper eyelid? i've never done it before.

and one more question, is liquid eyeliner really worth the hassle, and if so could you give me some good ones?

thanks. i rate 5's (link)
Cover Girl Perfect point plus; it has a smudge thing on the bottom if you mess up; lol


i have these pants that are destroyed [meaning they r ripped for those who dont know] they fit me around my waist but they are VERY loose on my thighs and i was just wondering if anyone knows how i can skrink them a little bit. they are a size 1 but they are still really big on my leg area.. i was thinking of wearing them first day of school but i like jeans that are tight not too loose. thanks in advance ;] ♥ (link)
uhmm.. im not sure how to skrink them in the leg... but i mean you could try washing them in HOT water.. it may make them shorter if there not that long.. so idk!


whats the best coverup.. like the coverup to cover your pimples..? (link)
you can go to like walmart or places like that and get any kind of concealor but i use Avon and you may not have a way to get it but i would if i were you , www.avon.com has it im sure it called "Trulyl Flawless concealor duo" its got 2 in one.. this green and then a tan color lol


does the maybelline dream matte mousse work really well? i tried alot of coverups and they dont really cover my pimples.. so do you think maybelline dream matte mousse would work? (link)
o god i love that foundation i have it in like 3 colors Winter and Summer and in between it works lovely make sure you smear it in good tho.. and watch your hair line and just blend it well! but it works good..! and to cover up pimples get a concealor.. it works good and then put your foundation over it!


Okay. I have hu before but for some werid reason I am scared to hu with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i hued with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!

and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out? (link)
uhmm.. just do it its really not a big deal your making it out to be alot more than it really is.. nothing serious only kissing i mean cmon! dont be so blah about it.. and type a lil more clearer


At Cheerleading practice we have to run like a mile and a half without stopping and if we stop every1 has to run another lap around the football field (4 laps=1mile) I get so exhausted and i cant run that much i get to the point where i cant feel my legs and i cant breathe..i dont know y though i am a skinny person and im short and very atheletic ..i just cant run for a long time!...i need help on ways to make me run better/ longer..thanks!...I rate!!!!!! (link)
Okay i cheer also.. and we run unstop 15-20 mins. and the last 5 wehave to put our hands up and hold up .. its hard as hell i know !!!! sucks... but if yall run on a regular basic you should get used to it.. i have pretty much.. i dunt "think i am gonna die" any more lol =] just you will get it and i mean yall are just trying to get in shape for the new year so hopefully you want run as much when the season kicks off!


i was wondering if hair removing creams, like veet resera bladeless shaving kit, work if you're shaving down below. i'm a girl by the way. thanks. i rate 5's. (link)
you could try nair


hey guys... im looking for a good deoderant that will accualy work for me.. like ive tried secret platinum protection but it doesnt stop me sweating.. theres like no odor but i just sweat and id like to get a new one before school starts... well pleaase help and thank you! (link)
i use Dove.. !! it smells great and it works and it makes your arm pits really soft lol like after shaving it helps prevent razor burn and things like that! i would try that Doce it has so many fragances but i like "Radiant Silk"


Hey i was wondering if any of you know a all around really good shampoo and conditioner.. i use brilliant brunette right now but i was wondering if theres like a better one maybe pantene the brunette expressions or garnier fructice or what... my hair is wavy i can curl or straighten it so yeah thanks! im looking for one to make it shiny and healthy and makes it just look good! 15 f (link)
Brillant Brunette is good.. i use that ; but i also use Biolage its pretty expensive but it works wonders.. you buy it at Salons!


hey
is there any way to deal with baby hair i have alot and i dont know what to do about and it sucks. (link)
Straigten them... if you wear your hair straight... Hair Spray... or i mean just use gel or things to get them down.. everyone has baby hairs.. dont swear it to much! i hate them to tho, just dont pull them out!


I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait? (link)
you should do what you think is right; i personality dont see me waiting for marriage but i am a virgin.. but inyour opition if you think you should wait then wait dont let your friends incourage you to do anything you dunt wanna do!


well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.

so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.

i rate 5 if it helps even a little. (link)
I mean it would be strange for me to ever get involved with sumone that is gay or whateverr.. but i mean i am thinking he isnt that old so he is probally just experiences other things in life.. and maybe its starting with being gay.. i would def. ask him why he chooses to be gay but it is possible but i dunt kno how


i love my boyfriend and he loves me also he doesn't have a problem in opening up to me bout how he feels but i can open up and let him into my life what should i do? (link)
What? - Do you mean cant open up?

just give it time and build up your trust..

but i dunt understand really how you can love him but you cant open up to him that is kinda strange? dont you think




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