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Is it Impossible?
well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.
so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.
i rate 5 if it helps even a little.
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A gay person cannot turn straight, I'm sorry to tell you. There are many other fish in the sea, so even though you don't want to hear it the best advice is to give up and just be his friend..
-Sarah-
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I would tell him that you like him. I know this does not help, but I don't think he will turn straight. I would tell him the truth, and maybe he will try to feel the same way that you do. I'm sorry that I can not help more. I hope this has helped in any way, and I want you to know that my door is always open for any other questions you may have.
*~Alexia~*
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well .. he might be lying about being gay if he knows you like him but i dont know hang out with him dont let him hang out with alot of guys.. just have you two hanging out and ask him if he'd ever go straight .. be like cause i'd be willing to go out with you or something .. talk to him about it all .. call him up and make plans with him .. soo you can work your magic and get him to go straight hun ;-D
hope i helped
brooke<3
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You can't turn them straight just for your own sake. Even if he wanted to be straight for himself, he would just be kidding himself. Have you ever seen those things on Oprah where like the guy or girl gets married to the opposite sex, because they convinced themself that they were straight and then came out to their spouse because they had a desire for their same sex. While you might really want to go out with him, its just not good for you or him. You'd be living a lie. So just be friends, and enjoy what you have, not what you want.
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Ai, gay guys are really funny to watch, especially when the ones with the lisps are doing musical theater... but anyway, you don't need to turn him straight. You could just make him metro. If he's metro, he's not literally gay as in liking other guys, but he has the same personality as a gay guy. So just flirt a lot and stuff, tell him you like him if you haven't already, etc. and eventually, he'll like you!
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There is no way to turn a gay guy straight. They do however, make really good friends. :)
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aww gay guys are awesome!! and most are definately hott. ok well it could be really difficult to turn a gay guy straight, and i don't think that's the approach you wanna take. tell him that you like him, even though he's gay. maybe he'll realize he likes you too, even though you're a girl, know what i mean? i don't think there's really ways to turn someone straight, but maybe he'll like you as a person and you guys could get together er something.
good luck!
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well it could be a phase hes going through and hes wuestioning his sexuality because he hasnt been in either or both. gay guys can be nice, i know it and i can see how that happened. be his friend and tel him how much he means to you...that will get him. they like kindness and if you give him lots of it he might come around and like you and give up the gay scene. hope that helps! <3
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Whew... gay dude... Well, I know this dude who is gay, and I didn't know untill my friends told me. But, I see him and one girl sit next to each other, and she hugs all over him and holds his hands and stuff. So maybe, if you become more flirtatious with him, you could POSSIBLY turn him straight. I also saw him nearly get suffocated with hugs from girls, and I thought to myself "Dang, so the gay dude get's all the girls and I don't?!" It's kinda comical. Hope I helped and good luck!
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I mean it would be strange for me to ever get involved with sumone that is gay or whateverr.. but i mean i am thinking he isnt that old so he is probally just experiences other things in life.. and maybe its starting with being gay.. i would def. ask him why he chooses to be gay but it is possible but i dunt kno how
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No offence or anything, but would you see yourself becoming lesbian? I'm guessing the answers no, so with that in mind, it doesn't seem likely he will change. No, it's not impossible - but very very unlikely. You could try being the best friend he could possibly have, in the hopes that he would like you maybe more than just a friend. You do have determination, so don't give up. Hey you never know. Good luck.
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Hey. Sorry sweetie but if he is really gay then there is no turning him back. He cant help who he is and chances are if hes started to come out of the closet, then he really is, because he wouldnt go through peoples reactions for nothing, if he was messing around or something. If you really do like him, just try and be close to him as a best friend and find out if he really is gay or if he is just doing that because he has had no luck wirh girls. Good luck, really. =)!
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If u like him that much, then u should try talking to him. If he doesn't understand, than he doens't. Tell him how you fell, and if he likes you back, he will change his ways.
Hope i helped!
..<3 Allison xoxo..
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Well hun im sorry there really is no way that you can i know just how you feel though because i have like 5 gay friends and they just are like that i mean i ask them what they dread the most and all of them say being straight i mean they like being gay and there really isnt any thing you can do about it! and you say that people should say dont give up but are we supposed to lie to you? i mean what i did when i fell hard for one of my gay friends i just told him bout it and he laughed it off and kissed me just for fun and i eventually got over it... so my advice to you is just to tell him and see how he reacts or just make a move on him and maybe he will end up being bisexual... hope that helps!! adn good luck!!
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All I'm going to say is watch "But I'm A Cheerleader"
I know I'm not any actual help, but that movie is all about "back in the day" when homosexualtiy was wrong, and men were the dominants in the household. Anyway, parents took their children to a camp to turn them straight. I never saw the ending, but I'm sure you'd be interested in the movie.
I don't have advice to give because I don't think trying to change someone is right, but I won't lecture or anything like that, I'm just offering a title of a movie.
Oh yes, and as MFS said, just because you report someone doesn't maen they'll be banned. They have to be abusive in some way or another.
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No, I dont think its impossible. If you like him that much, I think maybe you should try talking to him and just act like he's normal, and try spending more time with him-as much as possible.
Anything else that is needed, just drop it in my inbox.
~*Jess*~ ♥
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First off, reporting people doesn't mean that they'll get banned, and including such a statement like that just seems silly. You don't have the authority to ban people.
Nextly, your "dream prince" is a gay man? That seems odd. I would assume that a girl would want a straight guy... (yes, I'm trying to be funny... laugh or I'll kill you).
Really, you can't "turn someone straight". Without trying to spark any debates on the nature of sexuality and sexual orientation, let's just say that being gay really isn't something you just wake up and decide "hey, I'll be gay from now on!". Much the same most gays don't wake up and think, "You know what, those straight people have got it made. I think I'll join them!"
Crush on the guy all you want. Be friends with him. Love him to death. Just don't expect the same sort of love in return.
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So this guy is perfect for you, except you need to change the part where he doesn't want to be for you, but for some other guy. Have I got that right?
If he asked for your help my advice would be different, but he hasn't. Instead he has come out to his close friends (ie, you) probably hoping for acceptance and support. That is not what you are doing by plotting behind is back to hetro-ize him. Don't be so selfish. If you really like this guy, like him for what he is, not for what your 'dream prince' ought to be.
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Well, you have a lot of determination which is good. Like you said, you've heard STORIES were you can change someones orientation, and the stories most likely the guy was bisexual. It sucks, cuz, gay guys usually are awesomly nice and hott, but you cant change how someone feels. There really, isnt a way to turn him straight...Deffinitly dont give up, i mean, if you dont want to stop trying then dont, maybe you could become awesome friends with him. Good Luck!!!
~BrInA~
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You can't just turn someone straight. It doesn't work that way. You're just going to have to find another "dream prince," because it ain't happenin', sister.
You can try all you want to, but unless he's not REALLY gay he's not going to be interested. If he told you he's gay, he's trying to let you know something. Either he's not into you, or he doesn't want you to like him, or both. Take hints.
I hope this helps you in some way.
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