im brooke .. im an all around nice girl and love to give advice so dont feel like you cant ask me for advice cause if i wasnt willing to give it i wouldnt have this in the first place lol
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Location: Dracut, Mass
Age: 14
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how do you stop loving someone? (link)
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truthfully.. if you are truelly in love.. it doesnt go away you cant stop loving someone .. i wish i could tell you how but its impossible.. you can find someone new who makes you feel the same way maybe even more but once you fall in love it doesnt go away expecially first loves they stick around forever.
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so i had this class with this guy who was really sweet and always knew what to say. he would always scoot into the chair with me just so we could sit together and he would just grab my hand and just look into my eyes. one day when he was in the chair with me, he put his hand on my knee&i didn't think much about it. slowly he moved his hand up my thigh and i took and put it back on my knee[we were in class.] so i thought he REALLY liked me. but then i was talking to some other girls and they said that he did the same thing to them. i was crushed. he still gives we long hugs everyday and holds me, but i'm still hurt.
now heres my question; should i do something that will make him like me more than the rest of the girls&if so what? or should just forget about him?
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i dont mean to hurt you but when a guy does that to alot of other girls it doesnt mean he likes them .. it means he wants to get with them .. he may seem like prince charming but the truth is he is an asshole and just wants to get in your pants believe me i go to a school full of them so i think you should just forget about him cause he will make it seem like he likes you and will go on and on about it making you fall more and more then he will tell you he just doesnt have as much feelings for you as you do for him and that he doesnt think its fair that you two are a thing .. so just forget about him and go find a sweet heart that doesn't have a rep for going up girls legs in the middle of class.
hope i helped hun
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okay i am 13 years old...adn there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. the only thing is that hes 2 years older then me...to me it doesnt seem bad or anything but to everyone else it does. everyone keeps telling my that he does drugs and stuff but whne i ask him he says no. and people are telling my that he only wants to go out with me to make out and have oral sex. when i asked him about this hes like i would never make u do anything that you didn't want to. and i said good b.c i would never give you oral sex. and he said fine...
should i go out with him???
please help...thanxx (link)
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yeah you should go out with him he seem's like a good guy and its no big deal for him being 2 years older than you its normal to go out with older guys and you know he isnt gunna make you do anythin and he told you he doesnt do drugs so trust him and go for it and see what happens ..
hope i helped ..
x3 brooke
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14/f
ok i have know this guy for like ever and we have never dated and we jsut hang out he has dated like all of my friends and now he says that he has had a crush on me since like forever and well i started dateing him like a week and go and now he say that he was to have sex with me my mom all was says that u need to betogeter for like 3 weeks and stuff but i mean could i just have sex with him since i have know him for ever but then my mom would be mad at me for ever some one plz help (link)
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alright well .. thats kinda weird your mom is allowing you to have sex after a 3 week relationship but oh well her choice but it depends what kinda guy he is is he the type that would have sex with you the dump you after it ? and i dont see the problem with you doing it now i mean you liked him since you can even remember and you've known him forever soo hey i dont see the problem just make sure he wont use you or nothing cause no girl needs to go through being used and getting their heartbroken =/ hope i helped hun
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ok there was this boy,
and he is my best friend's ex boyfriend.
but she still has feelings for him.
but he broke up with her.
but first time I saw him I had a crush on him too. I didnt tell my best friend, I couldent do that to her! but he had a football game and they won. my friend went to go to the rest room after the game. and I waited on the bentaches the the boy came up to me and sat by me. he said hi. I thought my friend would say it was ok just to have a confersation. then so we talked. the bathroom was like a couple minnets away. then right when my friend came she saw me and him holding hands!
she got mad but after a week she forgave me. that friday we were planning to go to a party. and he was there. soon my friend decided to leave but it was his house and he told me he had to show me somthing. I told him no beacuse of what happened. he talked me into it. then it was his room and you know what happened next yes we had sex.
but now at school I see him and he smiles. I hate keeping this from her.
I think he really likes me but so do i. but my friend will hate me!!!!! what do I do!!!!!!!?? (link)
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well you got yourself in a big mess her hun .. um .. well if you like him you cant help how you feel i mean yeah your friend will be pissed but if she is such your good friend she wont be pissed for that long i mean look at it this way there will be millions of guys in all of ours lives and we cant just stick for that one guy who it most likely wont happen with again so i think you should go for the kid even though it may hurt her you should .. and i know she will come back and be your friend cause if she is your good friend she wont go and hate you over a boy but about the sex thing telling her .. you might wanna tell her like soon cause the longer you keep it from her the more pissed she'll be so yeah she'll be pissed for a couple weeks a month tops and then she'll get over it cause no one even bothers caring for that long ..
hoped i helped hun
♥ brooke
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Relationship needs work...he didn't/doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated on him though.... I'm pretty happy with him...but I think I'm starting to like one of my old crushes. I liked her before but I thought she was straight, so I just forgot about her and moved on...went out with my best friend.... We went to different high schools...and I found out that she likes me...for months she has... I hung out with her and I'm starting to get these feelings for her. She makes me happy too. Is this wrong? (link)
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alright im kinda confused so you got a boyfriend .. but the girl you used to like likes you .. and you thought she was straight so you gave up on her? cause if she was straight wouldnt that mean you had a chance but i dont know its not wrong but its kinda hard to choose cause your kinda in a mix here. just talk to the girl and see if she ralyl does like you hope i helped somewhat of a bit
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hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
ill rate so high
hearts (link)
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well i think you should tell him and be like im sorry i didnt tell you its not so easy to tell people these things trust me i know how it feels to be in the rape situation expecially when having a boyfriend anyways .. be like.. i know i should've told you a long time ago but i just couldnt but im ready to tell you cause i really do love you and need your help with this and then be like.. and then start talking about taking the relationship to the next level and be like.. well im ready to have sex but im not pressuring you .. just tell me when your ready and be like .. its not cause im a horny girl its cause i really am in love with you
hope i helped tell me how it goes ;)
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There is these 2 older guys.Im 14 and theyre 17. They have seemed to like me but I dont know.Would older guys like someone younger out of everyone of their own age? (link)
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yeah they actually do it is pretty surprising but they do .. that happend to me im 13 he was 17 and he liked me and was all cuddley with me on a couch believe it or not.. but it is also a little weird but he was really hott so i enjoyed it :)
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welll how do i start....well i start from the very start....i went out with this guy because i knew him from high school..we went out before...now were grow into mature people, and was attracted to each other....every thing was goin great for 6 months...but within the last month he started treating me differently, like he didnt appreciate me...one day he called it off, he said he can see that were not right for each other...i begged and cried and cried...i was so shocked we just spent the weekend together and it seemed great but he said he doesnt love me anymore..i begged him twice and i stopped after that....he tells me im doin great getting over him..so i snapped and yelled at him and said he was unfair and told him that relationships are about communication and honesty...he said loving me and missing me will just go away which mean he would consider going back out with me, i gave up but told him for the last time what i loved about him...then he kissed me and cried....so yup he decided to go out with me again...but left the decision for the weekend..i had to wait 3 days....
yup so we went out...the first three days seemed great..well he was good at making me believe it was great....and i think he was deliberately driving me away and finally broke it off and said he hasnt loved me for the past month although im a beatiful person...we lost the chemistry....i didnt cry this time....but he seem angry at me...i said you lied and he said i should be thankful he didnt lead me on for long...he also said he doesnt care about my feelings about this...and he only went out with me because he didnt wanna deal with breaking up....
now although im badly hurt im realizing he wasnt treating me the right way...everything was based around his feelings, his thoughts, and his doubts. What kind of guy is he? he doesnt know what he wants...
How long am i going to keep feeling lonely and sad about this...
i know hes not worth it but a part of me wants him or maybe just the companionship..
is worth it?? is he gonna comeback?? if he did should i take him back??
im dealing with this better than the first time we broke up but i still get moments where i cry too much, and i cant sleep or eat.
he only cared about his band and friends, i wasnt even special..he said i was, but i could feel i wasnt...
it seemed really good at one stage and he just stopped loving me as he said...
i see him everyday and it seems like hes dealing with it fine...but i dunno how he truly feels behind closed doors... (link)
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alright i like this kind of question long and alot to answer lol .
well anyways he obviously doesnt know what he wants and doesnt know how to treat a girl right from what im hearing since he cared about friends and his stupid band
and yeah it is worth it and yeah he will probably come back and yah you should take him back this last time but tell him if he screws up again your done and if he breaks it off again and comes back dont taking him back
and ..dont worry .. you'll get over it soon i mean im going through the same thing right now and pathetically i cry every single day cause of it and he likes to play the little mind games with my head just like this guysdoing to you ..
and the fact the guy told you he loved you .. that is leading you on weather he wants to admitt it or not he doesnt understand that saying those words to a girl actually gets them hooked and makes a girl love them back ..
and since you see him everyday and he seems like he is all happy about it take him to a place where its quiet and only you and him and be like you claimed you loved me but your fine with seeing me now. not having a problem we broke up . and tell him how you feel .. tell him what is on your mind about him ..and it'll be alright to cry.. but you'll be relived that you went and told him off like you've wanted to for a while and just let everything out that is on your mind so you dont have to think about it cause he will be the one thinking about it more than you will since he'll know exactly how you feel and he'll feel like the biggest dickhead in the world for doing that shit to you ..
sorry so long hun x3
tell me how it goes :)
brookex3
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ok here it goes there are a couple of guys that i am interested in and i cant decide who i like the best ( im 16/f) the first one is reelly hott and hilarious but he gets in trouble alot too and theres this other guy hoos one of my good friends and stuff but he annoys me all the time(hes just a little less hott)in a flirting kinda way and another guy who is so sweet and i know he likes me cause he asked me out before but i said no. So i was wondering if anyone could tell me which guy i should go out with and why *ill rate good for a good answer*
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well it looks like the second kid is definitly not the one to go out with if he annoys you .. um . the first guy ehh .. he seems pretty hott from what im readin but him getting in trouble could get him grounded so you'd never see him or like.. you could be with him when he got in trouble so you'd get in trouble yah know? soo i saythe last guy since he is sweet and stuff. i mean he could make you happy and not get you in trouble and not annoy you ,you know what im saying hun?
hope i helped
brooke x3
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Okay. I've gone out with this boy 3 times. We've been broken up for about 4 months but I still love him very much. I told him I liked him still and he told me that he liked me too. We'll talk online a lot but the weird thing is that once in awhile, he won't IM me. Almost like he doesn't want to talk to me. When we do talk though, he'll say that we need to hang out and he actually talks to me and we get into a conversation. He asked me out on Thursday but I said no because I just couldn't figure out what was going on and I'd rather have him ask me out on the phone or something and not online. So basically my question is..does he like me or not? What exactly is goin on?? I'll rate 5's for good answers and 1's for smartass ones. THANKS! (link)
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well .. from the looks of it he obviously likes you .. soo you should tell him that you sent a wrong IM when you said no and xed out when he asked it.. and you should call him and be like whatd you say that day i sent you the IM no and xed out and i didnt know what you said .. but if he knows you knew about him asking it then just be like.. well .. i want you to do it on the phone ..
hope i helped tell me how it goes.
brooke
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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.
so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.
i rate 5 if it helps even a little. (link)
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well .. he might be lying about being gay if he knows you like him but i dont know hang out with him dont let him hang out with alot of guys.. just have you two hanging out and ask him if he'd ever go straight .. be like cause i'd be willing to go out with you or something .. talk to him about it all .. call him up and make plans with him .. soo you can work your magic and get him to go straight hun ;-D
hope i helped
brooke
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okay well me and this guy have been "together" all summer... but were not really goin out... its wierd tho, he seems like he likes me one day and the next he wont talk to me... everytime i confront him he makes up some excuse like i had to go to the doctor, or i had to go shower... but ive kinda gotten fed up with it! hes really sweet and i really like him... but should i just stop talkin to him, or try and keep are relationship togteher and til we can move it further?? please help! (link)
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he's just scared .. i mean .. he doesnt know what he wants right now well thats what it seems like..it looks like he wants to be with you but not go out with you yet it looks like he wants to take things a little slow. but just keep your relationship together and wait for him to be ready to go further it'll happen soon don't worry hun ..
hope i helped.
brooke
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I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks! (link)
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well you can't make her love you but you can get her to like you and then move on to loving you i mean hang out with her .. flirt a little tell her how you feel .. tell her i know you think of me as just a friend but i really think we could be more.. i mean we would be good together .
and like.. when you two hang out listen to her when she talks help her with her problems she is going threw hold her hand .. be like her bestfriend and her boyfriend ..cause girls want to have that kind of relationship ya know?
hope i helped
brooke
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I don't know what to do about this guy... at the beginning of the summer i found out he liked me and the more i thought about it the more i liked him back, well i jacked up really bad cuz i accidentally misworded a quote he had told the person that told him so ever since then he thought i said no, but i didn't, he was just so mad at the peron that told me that he didn't give me a chance to say yes... well he hasn't talked to me since then and it's really depressing, not only cuz he won't talk to me but because he won't talk to the person that tole me either and he get's POed at anyone who brings it up from what i've been told... i don't know what to do, if anyone can help i'll rate high.
thanks
o, yeah... 14/f (link)
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well ..call him up ..be like i know you dont want to talk to me or ( who ever told you) but see if he/she didnt tell me then i wouldnt know you liked me .. and i like you alot and have been waiting for you to let me answer i mean yeah you have a right to be mad but were both really sorry or show up at his house and wait for him and then be like listen .. i like you alot and ive been waiting to answer you for a while now but you just completely ignored me cause someone told me you liked me .. i mean i could've answered and we could've been all happy by now but you just wont talk to me and i didnt do anything wrong and im sorry for whatever reason your mad at me. .
i hope i helped hun ..
brooke.
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How do you get pictures on myspace? (link)
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go to upload pictures and then browse double click on the the picture then press upload.
hope i helped
brooke.
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What does smoking pot accually do to someone? (link)
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well .. nothing make them feel happpy i guess i wouldnt know i dont smoke but people could smoke themselves stupid like my friend billy did.
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
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well ... it's kissing so it's not that much of a big thing lol people have done much more younger than you and havent been together as long as you two have.. and thats retarded that your parents arent letting you guys date or anything um...just tell your mom i mean mom's understand this stuff more than dads do the dads are too like stuburn and shit so i think you should tell your mom then gradually tell your dad and have your boyfriend do the same.
hope i helped hun
brookee.
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well, my bestfriend ( guy )( who likes me ) just slept over my boyfriend house last night and he is telling me all this stuff about how my boyfriend was talking to my bestfriend ( girl ) non-stop for like 2 hours this morning and last night. and my bestfriend (girl) isnt really that nice .. she always tries to make me jelous and shit. so i dont know if shes trying tog et me mad or if my boyfriend likes her ( cuz they liked eachother at the begining of the year )
can someone please help me !! i'll rate 5's for good help=D (link)
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ask your friend because she is fucked up if she is going behind your back and shit and ask your boyfriend and be like..soo you can call my bestfriend and not me pretty cool and if he tries to deny it be like .. kid my bestfriend slept at your house and told me and to tell you the truth i wouldnt be suprised if she liked you and stuff [make it sound like your mad]
hope i helped
brooke.
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13/m I masturbate sometimes but sometimes i feel bad about it. Is it a sin? Is this normal? (link)
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well its nothing to feel bad about its normal for a guy to do it .. girls do it too..
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