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this guy
14/f
ok i have know this guy for like ever and we have never dated and we jsut hang out he has dated like all of my friends and now he says that he has had a crush on me since like forever and well i started dateing him like a week and go and now he say that he was to have sex with me my mom all was says that u need to betogeter for like 3 weeks and stuff but i mean could i just have sex with him since i have know him for ever but then my mom would be mad at me for ever some one plz help
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first off you need to wait longer than three weeks! I am 14 and I lost my virganity at 13 but i waited 9 months to give it up to this guy. Even though I thought I was ready I really wasn't I wish i would have waited longer. And he broke up with me about 2 or 3 weeks later. And i thought that i "luved him" so dont rush anything. Take your time you still have plenty of time to have sex.
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okay first off your not to young...if you and your mom can sit and talk about it and work everything out and she is alouding you to have sex then find the right guy dont just give it to anyone it needs to be meaningful..dont rush into having sex it takes time to get there..its a big step to take and you need to make sure your ready for it..trust me i was 13 when i first had sex with the my first love and til this day im 16 now..me and him are still strong and still together..but not everyone is like that so just make sure that this is who you wanna do it with..dont let anyone tell you who it should be..make sure u and him know eachother good and that yall have something thats real..then go from there...its a great thing to be in love..i hope i helped..*babygurl*
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alright well .. thats kinda weird your mom is allowing you to have sex after a 3 week relationship but oh well her choice but it depends what kinda guy he is is he the type that would have sex with you the dump you after it ? and i dont see the problem with you doing it now i mean you liked him since you can even remember and you've known him forever soo hey i dont see the problem just make sure he wont use you or nothing cause no girl needs to go through being used and getting their heartbroken =/ hope i helped hun <3
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don't rush the sex thing you are really too young to be so overwhelmed by a situation like that. be young and enjoy life. if you do decide to go all the way just remember to be safe or you just might end up being called mommy for the rest of your life or even worse.
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Be careful it looks like he just wants sex from you. But I may be wrong. Your young thats truth but if you feel like having sex its your decition not your moms. Though you should find someone more reliable for sex. Just be sure youre ready.
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Ok at 14 you should definitely wait more then 3 weeks it doesnt matter how long youve known him.. but then again its up to you, if you think your ready to have sex with him them go ahead, but if you want to wait just camly say to him "Right now i dont feel comfortable having sex, if you really like me i hope you can understand and wait till im ready"
Hope i helped!
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All right first of all...you should probably wait more than three weeks before you have sex with him. You'll come to learn that if a guy is already pressuring sex a week into a relationship he's probably not a keeper. If you really like him that much, then stay with him, but don't put out just yet. He'll stay if he's worth putting out for, and he won't wait around long if he's not. You should wait at least months, not weeks, before having sex with him, especially at a younger age. Give it 6 months or a year and see where it goes. I know that sounds like forever but if you really love him then it will be worth the wait.
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