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Hi i am Shelby and the reason I spell my name Shelbee is becasue I go by Bee most of the time. I am so excited to help people and give good advice. I am a very out going person and I love to sing and dance and when my friends have problems I am usually the one they come and talk to so feel free to talk to be about anything!!

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i am 15/m and i am completely in love with this girl we'll call her Ally she is 15 as well...and we have been dating for three months but it seems like years...we are both so close to eachother and we love eachother so much...now we want to have a baby....i know we are 15 but we want one....we have been talking about it for a while now..and we feel like we are ready like we have been doing a lot of research....but how do we tell our parent that we wanted one and it wasnt a mistake?

ok personally you are way to young to have kids!!!!! idk bout where you live and how you high school works but this pasr weekend i had to take home one of those dump ass fake babies and they sux ass!! But if you guys think you are really ready then wat u should do is just tell them how you feel!!

~Well i hope i helped a little~

SHELBEE

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Well my gf broke up with me then the next day made out with her ex. then me and her loved eachother again and we kissed and stuff and had a good time. then she told me she doesnt want love or a serious relationship but the next day has a bf that she had just told me the week before how she hated him so much. so i guess the question is really just what should i do next try to persue her or forget about her cuz ive tried that and its workin i guess but i still cant just forget her shes saved me from too much and has been there when i needed her but now we seem detached but i still luv her so idk just want some opinions please.

ok hun you need to just let her go because is she really loved you she wouldnt have hurt you you deserve so much better than that and trust me you will find that person that will treat you right... it is hard trust me i know it is hard to let someone you care about go... I am going throught the same thing but she will realize what she lost... just remember wat goes areound comes around!! you will get throught it just hold you head up high!!
~hope i helped~

SHELBEE

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14/f
ok i have know this guy for like ever and we have never dated and we jsut hang out he has dated like all of my friends and now he says that he has had a crush on me since like forever and well i started dateing him like a week and go and now he say that he was to have sex with me my mom all was says that u need to betogeter for like 3 weeks and stuff but i mean could i just have sex with him since i have know him for ever but then my mom would be mad at me for ever some one plz help

first off you need to wait longer than three weeks! I am 14 and I lost my virganity at 13 but i waited 9 months to give it up to this guy. Even though I thought I was ready I really wasn't I wish i would have waited longer. And he broke up with me about 2 or 3 weeks later. And i thought that i "luved him" so dont rush anything. Take your time you still have plenty of time to have sex.

Hope I helped
Shelbee:)

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ok i have this new boyfriend. well he really is not that new but you get the picture. well we just started to hug today like when i saw him in the morning and when we left school we hugged to say good-bye. well he says that he thinks that we are to young to kiss and stuff but i almost kinda wanted to have my first kiss with him but i don't think that that would happen because he thinks that we are to young to kiss. what should i do?

Well you have to respect that. But you need to also tell him how you feel. if you like him that much you will wait for him to be ready and hey maybe you r to young to kiss. But talk to him and tell him how u feel but let him tell u how he feels and things will work out

Hope i helped
Shelbee

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I need major help , im 15 f dc and i'm just
confused about my love life. My boyfriend told me that he loves me but now i don't think he means it. The reason why is because i haven't talked him in about 7 weeks. i talked him like twice and all he had to say was whats up and then he would leave out of nowhere with out saying goodbye or what not. It's starting to get fustrating. He didn't tell me he was going on vacation or anything and when ever i try to talk to him its like he has nothing to say. Now im really wondering if he has another girlfriend or something ... i mean could it be true or what?

please i am asking for your advice. please help me.

Ok honestly you need to sit him down and you need to tell him how you feel because your feelings are important do not let him play with your emotions!!

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