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I need major help , im 15 f dc and i'm just
confused about my love life. My boyfriend told me that he loves me but now i don't think he means it. The reason why is because i haven't talked him in about 7 weeks. i talked him like twice and all he had to say was whats up and then he would leave out of nowhere with out saying goodbye or what not. It's starting to get fustrating. He didn't tell me he was going on vacation or anything and when ever i try to talk to him its like he has nothing to say. Now im really wondering if he has another girlfriend or something ... i mean could it be true or what?
please i am asking for your advice. please help me.
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Ok honestly you need to sit him down and you need to tell him how you feel because your feelings are important do not let him play with your emotions!!
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Yes it can and is true ((PROBABLY)) anyway dump him not worth it
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He either has another girlfriend or something else is defintly going on. 7 weeks? Thats almost 2 months! ouch! This isnt the right guy for you!! You deserve better. I wouldnt say he loves you and i would say to give up on him you do deserve better then this guy. Totally not fair. Anyways!! I would get frusterated to so dont worry i would just give him a call and leave a message and when you do talk to him tell him you need to see him and you demand to know whats going on between to you guys. Its not exactly fair that you half to hold on by a tiny string waiting around for him.
Trix
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He's not worth it. If he doesn't even inform you that hes going on vacation...than how can you trust him? If he doesn't have much to say and its basically just silence the whole time theres not much of a connection between you two. If you just end things now, you'll find someone new sooner.
-Nina
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well your boyfriend may just be confused about his feelings. he may not know wat he wants or wat he is doing. 7 weeks is a long time not to talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should let him know that you think he is cheating and that you want to know whats going on with him and why he has not been calling you and acting normal
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just break up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sounds like yours is sort of a long distance relationship. Sorry if I am guessing wrong.
I think its time to find someone else. I think you know that already. If this guy cared about you he would make some effort to keep in touch.
I don't know if he has someone else or not. You may be able to salvage your relationship if you have a long honest talk with each other and BOTH make an effort to make it work.
If you are the one doing all the work though, I'm afraid it isn't going to last. Sorry. :)
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There are a few things I could think of:
When your boyfriend told you he loved you he might have really meant it but doesn't know where to go from now.
When he told you he loved he might have thought he really did then later realized he wasn't ready to tell you he loved you yet.
He might want to take a break from this relationship.
He might have other things going on right now.
Talk to your boyfriend that is the best way to really know what is going on.
If you need anything else drop one my inbox ♥
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aw hun im sorry.It sounds to me hes spending time with another girl,since you guys havent talked in 7 weeks and not much to talk about anymore he might think you dont love him.If he is with another girl he might want you to get jealous, you and talk more with him ask him to hang oshould ask him whats going on.If you want to get more intimate ut after school or on the weekend instead of talking online with him.Do something to show him that you really do love him.Because if you dont, he might start to go towards another girl(if he hasent already), and you guys will break up.Get him to talk! You have to really work hard to make this relationship work.I hope everything works out for you hun! im pulling for ya! If you need anymore help let me know!
i hope i could help!
♥ danielle
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If you didnt say i lopve you back he may need some times to think about it. The best thing is to talk to him about it personally. I dont think that he has a new g/f if he did he wouldnt be acting so weird. Maybe if you went to his house or something and went to the movies. It will help if you talk to him though if you dont you are just going wonder about it. Dont regret not talking to him about it.
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