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ok so i like this guy and im afraid to tell my best friend bc last time i told her i liked someone she got involved and it kinda made things confusing but shes my best friend and i think i should tell her but im afraid she will just get involved again like last time its not involved like in a bad way its like trying to help when no1 asked you for help and i really like this guy what should i do tell her or not last time i told her i asked her to not talk to him bc i didnt want her to get involved and she did anyways please someone help me!! thanx so much!
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Don't tell her - unless you have a plan of action you want her to take. If you'd like for her to get involved in some way, tell her exactly what you want her to do. But if you dont want her involvled at ALL (example: asking him if he likes you) then DO NOT TELL HER until you and he are something.
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tell the guy you like him
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If you tell her this time she will just get involved again and you dont want that. You should be able to get a guy in your own way and your own time. Her rushing it isnt romantic at all. It is best she stays out of it. Do you want to get the guy by getting him yourself or do you want to spend the rest of your life knowing that your best friend hooked you up b/c she couldnt stay out of the way. i like hooking up with someone when i did it not when someone else did it.
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I agree. Friends have no place in another friends romance!
You probably should sit her down and have a talk. Let her know that you want no interference at all. Tell her you are serious!
Just explain that if you want help you will ask. Bring up references of the last time she "helped" if need be.
You can be nice about it but be firm at the same time. :)
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What you should do, is talk to him and like ask him out, and all that stuff, and then tell her. If you tell her before she will be the one to tell him. If you tell her afterwards, she can't get mad at you for not telling her, because tecnacely you aren't. Also, do everything that you want to do with him, but don't tell him unless you don't care about it getting out. That way your secrets, personals, and/or suprises for him don't get out before they are ment to be. I hope I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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