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Im a 22 year old single mother and a beautiful baby i work full time and love spending time with my family when im not shopping. im single but very ready for love when it comes my way.

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Hi everyone i'm 23 yrs old and a young mom i have a situation and would like some input,I've been going over this so many times and don't know what to think.Today my boyfriend of 2yrs and myself got into a heated argument and I wanted to go home (we live apart but stay over at times) anyway i got all my things threw it in his truck and in the process scratched the interior leather roof of his truck and he flipped out our 3 month old was strapped in the back during all this and i was sitting in the back with her . He got out and started calling me a bitch and to get out i refused because of our daughter was still strapped in and he tried pulling me out and when i didn't get out he punched me twice in the stomach out of anger of what i did.My question is he going to do it again, am i in the wrong for starting it by throwing my things ?and should i stay for the sake our daughter? I'm still in shock and don't know what to think of the situation its the first time something like this happened.

WOW...this touched me deeply... im 22 yrs old also a young mother...so what i say to you is coming from the heart... GET OUT! i dont care how much you love him care for him or want a family with him..you can not let your daughter see those things or grow up thinking thats okay..i made the choice to leave my daughters father right after she was born because we to got into an argument and he hit me..no matter if he only did it to you its unsafe for your daughter..stand up and fight for your daughter and get help...go to the police get his rights taken away so you have 100% control over your daughter..your strong enough to handle this situation so prove and show your daughter the right thing to do in life and to never put up with a BOY putting his hands on you..take time to yourself and the right MAN will come along and be a real father figure for your daughter to look up to.



message me if you need anything im here...my daughter is now 6 months.

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just died. She was 23. Should I go to the funeral, or will it be too depressing?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I really think you should go..really it doesnt matter how depressing it is..do it for her..she would want u to be there..i know how it feels to have to go to a funeral..my grandfather.grandmother.and my own dad are no longer with me and it was a big thing i had to do..but when it comes down to it..its all about pulling them to rest..and being okay with yourself and knowing you did the right thing by going..GO because if u dont youll beat yourself up about not going then itll be too late..so please go do it for her..i hope i helped.i feel very strong about this..*BabyGurl* rate please.

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I'm an 18 year old female. I lost my boyfriend, to be honest my fiance, last summer. It's been long enough that I know I should be able to accept that he's gone but I still wake up with an empty feeling in the pit of my stomach. I just need some help, maybe another perspective on how to deal with this.

Hey i dont really know how i can help you cause i know most likely you dont wanna listen to a 16 year old..but i know the feeling i lost my dad last July when i was 15 and it still isnt the same i still wake up thinking it was all a dream and that hell be up ready to take me to school..its just so weird cause its like we never thought something like this would happen but its gods path he made for them..i know its hard but you still gotta be strong and keep ya head up and kno he is still right by ya side..do you have a bear that he gave you cause it makes you feel like hes still there if you sleep with it..that may sound weird but sometimes its just good knowing your holding something he once held..i hope i kinda helped you out in away..just e-mail me bak if you need anymore help..*BabyGurl*

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14/f
ok i have know this guy for like ever and we have never dated and we jsut hang out he has dated like all of my friends and now he says that he has had a crush on me since like forever and well i started dateing him like a week and go and now he say that he was to have sex with me my mom all was says that u need to betogeter for like 3 weeks and stuff but i mean could i just have sex with him since i have know him for ever but then my mom would be mad at me for ever some one plz help

okay first off your not to young...if you and your mom can sit and talk about it and work everything out and she is alouding you to have sex then find the right guy dont just give it to anyone it needs to be meaningful..dont rush into having sex it takes time to get there..its a big step to take and you need to make sure your ready for it..trust me i was 13 when i first had sex with the my first love and til this day im 16 now..me and him are still strong and still together..but not everyone is like that so just make sure that this is who you wanna do it with..dont let anyone tell you who it should be..make sure u and him know eachother good and that yall have something thats real..then go from there...its a great thing to be in love..i hope i helped..*babygurl*

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I downloaded the new AIM Triton,and I don't like it. How do I download the old AIM?

go to aol and look under downloads and go to aim 5.9 and then u got it..i had to do that today..

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Okay so I know that hundreds of people have asked questions like this one, but I was just looking for some helpful advice. When you are pregnant, does just your niple hurt or your whole boob is sore? And how soon after having sex will you start to get morning sickness, sore boobs, and things like that.I will be grateful for any help I can get. Thankyou!

When you are pregnant your boos do start to hurt not really bad but bad like they get really sore..morning sickness doesnt really start until your around 7 to 9 weeks but its different from person to person..i hope i helped.

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16/f
So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen

Hey well...all i can really say to do it to be forward and tell him how you feel and what you think about him...tell him that you like him and let him tell you how he feels about you...your friendship will workout at the end yall just have to make sure of that before you start going out...i hope i helped...--BabyGurl--

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hey i read somewhere that you do english and jump and stuff...so do i.. i was wonderin wehre you did it and stuf!
please answer
thanks

Hey sorry i just checked my e-mail..and saw that i have a question!.well if you would please IM me on aol at MiAssIzLykeWoh13 i would love to talk to you abou riding..Thanks.--BabyGurl--

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Im 13 and me and my bf have been goin out for about 4 months now. I really love him with all my heart and he's like my soul-mate. He cares 4 me and loves me a lot to! (also 13).
I've been in a past relationship where the guy took kissing and making out for advantage.. and I still haven't really healed from it. My bf wants to make out and says he respects me not being ready. He asks me when I will be ready or if I ever will. It seems like all he wants is to make out.. Wut do I do?


i think you should make out with him because thats kinda away of showing someone you love them..and 4months without kissing is really long.!.i hope i helped..

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i was staying after school waiting to be picked up and the 1 guy that ive liked ALOT with me. (he kinda had feelings for me but he is so hooked on his gf) well my dad called my cell and said my Aunt DIED, and he'd pick me up in an hour. so i started crying histerically, and Tom just came over and comforted me and i layed there in his ARMS crying. he literally wiped my tears and layed with me the whole time. Once i stopped crying he leaned over and kissed me. and then... we started making out for minutes straight, it was the most amazing/beautiful thing EVER. eventually i had to leave, & later Tom called & said how perfect that was & never had anything special like that. well he asked me what to do about his gf cause theyve been together for a year & he doesnt know if he should TELL her or NOT. hes really confused. so what should he do about his gf do you think he should tell? i dont want her to be mad at me and have all her friends threaten me and stuff. please help i dont know what to do about the whole situation, this is too much... (DONT TELL ME ITS WRONG WHAT WE DID CAUSE no shit I KNOW THAT ALREADY!!!)

well i think he should break up with her because for him to do something like that shows that he likes you...i mean what other guy would do that ya know..so yeah i think he should talk to her about it and tell her cause its only the right thing to do..and yall should really just get together!.i hope i helped.

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im 15 and i have a very small penis and im worried
about what my girlfriend will think does it matter?

Ok im sorry it took me so long to write you back..how long have yall been together..cause if she really loves you for who you are it really shouldnt matter how big or small you are..so if i was you i wouldnt worry about it..i really do hope i helped..i tried..

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I have two horses that are the BEST of friends. You can't take one out of the pen without the other. They are stuck like glue, but one is 42 years old! really he is! and the other is at least 30. When one passes away, do you think we should put the other one down? I mean they are both already really old and I know that one would be in MISERY without the other. Just getting an idea if the event might arise.

Ok im going to be alot nicer about your ?..when one of the horses past on all i would do is look for another horse to fill in and so the other horse wouldnt be alone..i mean it doesnt have to be a horse you ride it could just be a horse that really needs a good home you know what i mean..i wouldnt put my horse down i would just look for a different way to make he or she happy..if i was you i would just buy another horse..

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well, my horse is being trained, and i want her to trust me more. although, as a girl, she has a bitchy attitude. i know i should do groundwork, but whatelse could i do?? i can almost ride her, maybe in a few weeks.

will rate well!!

Just try to spean as much time as you can with her and talk to her and tell her how cute and good she is..just so she can get to know you and your voice..give her alot treats and by time she'll get better.have anymore ?s just IM me.
i hope i helped.

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any body have any sites that hase journal free and qestions goes with? I want start journal for school starts

just go to www.livejournal.com/ alot of people use it i even have one..i hope i helped.

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hey sweetie! do u wanna spread around my column? its call paradise88 ill rate and ill make u a favorate columnist!! xoxo

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hey yeah ill help you out ill pass you around.

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Okay I want to know why all these 12, 13, and 14 year olds are all thinking about sex and asking how to do it and blah blah blah...Theyre too young! And I hope all of you 12, 13, and 14 year olds get an STD and die....youre being stupid!

First of all who are you to tell them that they arent ready you dont live in there body..people make there own choicesin there life so if they want to do that its up to them not you. my sister is 13 and had sex that it was really up to her.soo i really think thats its up to them and you wishing that they get a STD and die is just wrong what someone said that about you..so if your just trying to put them down and make them feel like shit then you have something wrong with you.and yes im looking out for all of you 12 13 and 14 year olds cause i think right now im the only one that understands what yall go through with people like her.so if any of yall ever need anything just write to me and ill help yall out..
i hope you understand were im coming from cause you need to go look in the mirror.


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ok im a guy and im 15 and i have sum question i have been in a 14 mounth realtionship wit my gurlfriend and for the past 4 mounths we have been breakin up and just fightin becuz the 1st time we broke up she thought i cheated on her but i didnt and the snd time i thought i wasnt gettin any attention cuz she was over her friends house allll the time for like weeks at a time and so we broke up again its been about 6 weeks since we broke up and now she wants me back but we have been findin out alot about eachother lately like she messed around wit a few boys and i messed around wit two gurls but she cheated on me like the last week or so we were together and got fingured by 2 other guys and me i....had sex wit this other gurl that was her "friend" she says but the gurl didnt consider her as a friend and i have a convo were her "friend" says shes not her friend and i made out wit another gurl the day after i was wit my x-gurl (sex). but i really really feel like im in love wit this gurl and she says shes in love wit me but i cant get over the fact that she cheated on me and i dont want to seem like a punk if i do get back wit her u no wat i mean (lol cuz of my friends)and wen we r togther it feels so right and i was her 1st and she was kinda mine cuz i have to tell the truth i believe that u should wait till u find who u want before u have that great 4 sec ya no so i had sex but "I" never finished till me and her made love and so i consider her my 1st but i never told her that. (should I?)but i love this gurl i really do and she said she loves me and i dont see y its not workin out PLZ HELP me!!!!!

Well first i think that you should tell her that she was really your first dont keep things from her.and if you really love her i dont think that you should have had sex with her and then the next day go make out with a girl that had to really hurt her.and for her to forgive you had to take alot of her heart.she may have cheated on you but hers wasnt has bad because the one she got fingered by wasnt one of your friends.yeah the girl may have said she wasnt her friend but she also could have lied.DONT think about your friends there not the ones in the realtionship! so what if your a punk your happy right.to me it sounds like she really does love and care about you if she forgave you about what you did i just think its fair that you forgive her. You two should get back together and see how things go. i really do hope i helped.

i was only on her side cause i know it took alot of heart and i do hope you two get back together just write back and tell me if you do. i hope i helped you out.

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i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ??

That just means that your really lucky lol.!. :)

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Ok, this sounds kinda gross, n this question might get kicked off but i am serious about this...today my breasts started hurting really bad, it is doing it right now there are like these certain spots where they hurt, so im just wondering why they hurt and shud i call a doctor or something? Thanks!

My Dr. told me that means that they are getting bigger..i dont know if thats right or not with other dr.s but mine did!. i hope i helped.! :)

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I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me..

Ok if he didnt cum inside you thats good.so you may not be!. have you been sick lately? just things like that go to google and find things about being preg or the symtoms!. i hope i helped.

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