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Question Posted Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:30 pm

I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me..

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alisonmarie answered Monday August 9 2004, 7:10 pm:
The only major sign or symptom you'd notice this early in a pregnancy would be a missed period. In order for a pregnancy test to be as accurate as possible, you need to wait to take it until your period is two weeks late, as you might get false negatives before than point.

Be aware that high levels of stress - for example, worrying about being pregnant - can make your period late.

Remember this panicky, sick feeling you are experiencing the next time you want to have sex without using protection.

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BabyGurl21 answered Friday July 30 2004, 1:40 am:
Ok if he didnt cum inside you thats good.so you may not be!. have you been sick lately? just things like that go to google and find things about being preg or the symtoms!. i hope i helped.

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ocbabey41 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 1:11 pm:
NEVR HAVE SEX W/O A CONDOM!! ever!! well you dont throw up until later in the pregnancy but usually u pee a lot...um idk ne thing else but when ur period comes..get checked -- hope i helped L0VE;michelle

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grlhockeyplaya77 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 11:21 pm:
All you can do is wait untill your period. Let this be a lesson to you that no matter what you always have to use protection.
Hope I helped
Britt

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SeXyLaCi_XoX answered Thursday July 22 2004, 7:02 pm:
Please, don't ever have sex without a condom. I don't want you to have to go through this scare again. Even if he didn't cum inside theres a thing caleld premature ejaculation. Its when semen comes out without the guy even realizing it. It's clear, not white like cum. That though does hold a lot of sperm with potential to make a girl pregnant. If you keep worrying about it like you are you can cause your period to come later then it should. Try to relax. You don't need to tell anyone yet, you should keep your boyfriend informed on this though. Chances are you wont have any of the pregnancy signs or symptoms yet. Try not to worry and keep me updated on your period.

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xo_dream answered Thursday July 22 2004, 1:48 am:
Um, yeah, you can still get pregnant even if he doesn't cum inside of you. I'd get a pregnancy test asap, even if you don't have any symptoms at first, just so you know for sure.

Some early signs of pregnancy are:

Delay of Menstruation
Nausea and vomiting
Tender or swollen breasts
Feeling exhausted or "sleepy"
Backaches
Frequent headaches
Food cravings
Darkening of areola (breast nipple)

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S_C answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 4:01 pm:
you should have used the mornin after pill, but too late

most likely if he didn't cum then u aren't pregnant, but just incase...

wait until your supposed to get ur period
if u don't get it, wait 1 more week
if u still don't have it, then go get a pregnancy test

GL, hope all works well for u! :-)

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AdViCeGrL123 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:57 pm:
#1 DONT GET YOURSELF SICK OVER THIS
Its going to be ok...
I have some questions for you ....did his penis go inside or you? If not then your not pregnaunt you cannot get pregnaunt from oral sex at all............If it did then ask yourself these qusestions did you just have you period b4 you did it? If you did then you shouldnt be pregnaunt and if your worried a simple pregnancy test will tell you and you should let your b/f know how your feeling its half his fault to...If you need to talk IM me at Wewonstate03
p.s you cant get pregnaunt from oral sex you can only get pregnaunt if his sperm is in you....



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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:43 pm:
get a pregnancy test and then see what the results are..if the results r positive..you will have to tell ur parents..theres nothing around it..they may be mad at first but i am sure that they will support you and ur descisions *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

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itsallabOutkimbO answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:11 pm:
i did the same stupid mistake... me and and my bf did it without a condom and he didnt cum inside me but we were both really worried. I would say do what i did and go to the nearest planned parenthood and get the day after pill, but its too late. I think you should wait to see if your period comes or not, if not i suggest you get a pregnancy test. I hope everything works out. x0x0x Kim <3

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spoiledx3shortii answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:09 pm:
okay.. if by the time your period should have come you don't have it go out to the store and buy a home pregnancy test.. test yourself.. if its negative and you skip your next period too than something is wrong.. buy another kit and test again.. signs would be bloated.. throwing up.. and your stomach growing..
hope i helped!
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xogiggles37xo answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:06 pm:
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) itll probally help itz a website listing the signs of pregnancy.

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girdy_goo15 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:05 pm:
well if you're scared then you should get someone get you a home pregnancy test. there is always a chance that you could be pregnant every time you have sex. even if hey didn't cum inside you. condoms reduce that chance but they don't prevent pregnancy. the best way to do that is to go and have a doctor prescribe some birht controll pills for you. some symptoms include morning sickness, fever, and swelling, and of course no period. but i think that you need to tell your family, at least your mom. everyone has sex but it's better to be safe than sorry. good luck!!!!! girdy_goo15

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nikki1030 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:05 pm:
ur right that was sorta wrong but u did it and there is no taken it back. u need to take a preg test if u dont get your period.if u dont want to tell yur parents then tell your closest friends the ones u know u can confide in then sit your parents down and tell them that u r preg and that u need their help they r going to yell alot but u sorta got it comin just tell them they need to help u

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KraZyBaByx0x answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:00 pm:
It isnt wrong to have sex but it is wrong when your not ready (or pressured) and you do it unprotectivly. But im here to help..Some symtoms are: mornings sickness (throwing up) and not feeling good at all-feeling sick to your stumache! Now im not very good on this subject but what i think you should do is take a preg test, it will ease your fear of being preg if the awnser comes negative.. then you can wait fer your period to make sure..If it comes out possitive then i would wait to see if yer period comes at the end of the month ne ways. Then you will see if you are preg! i hope i helped..if you have ne more promblems talk to me about them!-x0x becca

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ballerina04 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:58 pm:
i guess you should probably go to planned parenthood. they can test you for STDs and you can see if you're pregant. best wishes. send me a message if you need anything else. i'm here to help!

xox Kristen

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angita answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:56 pm:
hi.. the 1st thing is.. its ok if u had sex.. well kinda.. but its very very very important to use a condom! becuz even if he doesnt cum inside u a lil could still come b4 he actually does.. if u want u can just go to the store and get a preg. test its easy and ull noe if u r or rnt! but next time to b on the safe side use a condom! xoxo angie

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xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:56 pm:
O my goodness sweetie you muct be so scared....Well you definitely should have used a condom or used abstitnence. Some signs of pregnancy are food cravings, mood swings , vomitting for no reason (etc.) basically pms signs before pms. Maybe you should go talk to a friend or go to a hospital and get checked out. You can do that confidnetially im pretty sure. If you are pregnant you have to tell someone so you get the care that you need. And you have to research your options. such as adoption abortion and keeping the baby. You will prob. be scared to tell your parents but remember they love you no matter what because your there baby! You also need to tell your b/f so hes aware of this. Good Luck to you.. and if your not pregnant.. then i hope you learned from this and Be careful next time if you do it again..

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browneyes175 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:55 pm:
well ull have morning sickness and u wont get ur period but if u wanna kno u could alwayz take one of those EPT tests and find out, hope ur not for ur sake. XOXOXO

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lilangelshan08 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:52 pm:
first of all, there's nothing wrong with having sex with your boyfriend, it's perfectly normal to have sex. second if you are scared that you might be pregnant find an adult that you trust (it doesn't need to be your mother but it's a good idea) and ask them to go out and get you a test. or go to your nearest planned parenthood and get tested. but the most important thing for you to do is relax, take a deep breath and just think clearly. good luck
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