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ok im with this guy and weve been together for 1 month and i am so ready to have sex with him and i really do trust him and weve spoken about sex so many times but after how many months do u think i should actually have sex i dont want to have it too early..
please answer thanx
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well, personally i think you should wait a little longer. me and my ex boyfriend who went out for 2 1/2 years waited about 11 months to do it. we were both virgins. i think maybe it depends on if you both are virgins or not. but personally, i think you should wait a little longer than a month. goodluck
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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f (link)
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well, if he didn't listen to you when you told him to slow down..there is definitely a problem. you have to think about this. do you really want to be with a guy who doesn't listen to you. it was hurting you. you shouldn't have let him control you enough to make you sleep in his cum. that's really gross and abnormal. i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. i hope everything works out.
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I really miss my ex boyfriend and he has a new girlfriend.. but lately he's been talking to me like he used to and it's making me confused. What should I say to him, should I tell him I miss him and I still love him and would do anything to be with him again? (link)
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it never hurts to let out how you really feel. maybe he feels the same way? go for it and good luck !
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My boyfriend and I had intercourse two Saturdays ago. I'm due to get my period the begining of next week. Normally, by now I'd be showing my normal signs of PMS such as lower back ache, tender breasts, bloating, excessive eating, and cramping. The only thing that I'm getting is slight lower back pains, slightly tender breasts (but hardly), and the excessive eating. We did use protection, but as you may know, condoms are not 100%. Could it be possible that I am pregnant? Or do you think it's a little too soon to tell? I should be getting my period between the 23rd-25th. 17/f. And for the mothers on this site, when you didn't know you were pregnant, before you got your period, did you show your normal signs of PMS? Thank you. (link)
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you're probably just overreacting. i did the same thing, and when my period came i laughed about it. if it was your first time having sex..most people tend to freak out. goodluck and im sure your ok
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How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity? (link)
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when the time is right, you have the perfect guy who you know you're going to be with for a while.
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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley (link)
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i think when people tell you that you cant fall in love at our age..i think its bullshit. me and my boyfriend are both 17, we fell in love at age 15 and have been together since. we've been through so much together. he's going away to college next year and i'll be a senior, but if its love, it'll work out. so when someone tells you love isnt real at our age its usually probably because they've never fallen in love or are jealous. hope i helped
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Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
confused.. (link)
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ok well, i made up this game called the handcuff game. get a pair of handcuffs or just pretend the other person is handcuffed. The point of the game is to tease the other person and they can't kiss you or touch you til they give in. once they give in, they lose the game. when me and my boyfriend played this, it was all fun and games until i gave him oral. this game is a good game if you want to go far and kinda sneak it in. make sure you are ready for oral, or whatever kind of sexual stuff you may want.
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I'm 22/m and my sister just turned 16. We're very close with one another and usually can share anything. Recently, however, she has become more sexually explorative, which is fine, but now seems to be obsessed by it. She told me yesterday that she wants to hook up with this 19 year old freshman in college that I know. They're not dating, but are considering getting to know each other. My sister used to be so righteous and moral and I feel that she's going to just end up hurt with this new sexual discovery. She's thinking about getting ahotel room with this guy this weekend. What should I do? I don't want her to get hurt and frankly, I don't want her to turn into a slut. Thanks =Concerned Brother= (link)
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awww it seems like you really care about your sister. this seems pretty serious so i think you need to sit her down and have a talk with her. she shouldn't be getting together with a guy in a hotel room that is 19, let alone the fact that she barely knows him. do what your heart tells you to. goodluck
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like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant? (link)
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oh god, no you cannot get pregnant by him finguring u.. unless there is sperm in his finger? haha i dont think you should be doing something you don't know about...
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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either tell the truth or tell them its to regulate your period.
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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
thanks a lot yall :) (link)
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save your virginity for someone you actually love. sex is very special, therefore you should share it with the one you love and think you'll be with forever...
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Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex only twice this month, both times we used a condom and I'm not on the pill or anything. The condoms didnt break, rip or tear. But however, my period tomorrow will be a week late. I don't know if I'm just over reacting because we did have sex and I haven't gotten it yet. But theres no way poissible right if the condom didnt break for me to be pregnant is there? What should I do just siot around and wait for my period to come?
Thank you all sooo much (link)
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if you just started having sex for the first time, your period is going to get messed up. the first time i had sex my period was 2 weeks late and i worried so much. i dont think u have anything to worry about. maybe u should see a doctor if you dont get ur period for another week or so. goodluck
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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You're way too young... and It takes more than 2x to have sex until it stops hurting. It took me like 5 or 6 times until it stopped hurting. I suggest you wait until you're older to have sex.
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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE (link)
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the same thing kind of happened to me... the first time i had sex, it was like a week or so late. i think it happens to alot of girls when they first have sex. plus your gonna stress over getting your period the first time u have sex. every month for me is hell-- i look forward to getting it lol. i think u should give it til like next week and then if u dont get it, take a pregnancy test.. hope everything works out sweetie
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees. (link)
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personally... your not taking this as serious as it is. it is a pretty big deal. im not a virgin anymore. i lost it to my boyfriend who im madly in love with and we're still going out. i also said told myself all my life that i was going to wait til marraige, but when u fall in love everything changes. just do me a favor and make sure ur really in love before you go off and have sex.. hope i helped...
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What does it feel like to give head? I was just wondering, because my boyfriend asked me to give him head, but I want to know what it is like first. Please help me out! (link)
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it really isnt all what its cracked up to be like someone answered already. i give my boyfriend head and i remember the first time i did i was really nervous. i never ever thought id do it but its really nothing. just watch out the first time he "goes" in your mouth its gonna be gross and you won't know how to handle it. good luck
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What are all the flavors of condoms? Do they really taste good? What kind taste best? (link)
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i dont actually know all the flavors, because there is so many... but everytime i tasted one on my boyfriend it tasted horrible. dont try the banana flavor :-x
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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening? (link)
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morning after pill.. i had to take it once, it works great. just go to the nearest planned parenthood. the pills should cost about 5 dollars and its totally anonymous so ur parents dont have to find out. good luck
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hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :) (link)
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salt and pepper
peanut butter and jelly
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For everyone I wanna know how old were you when you lost your virginity, how did it go, was it to someone special or do you regret it, where were you when it happened... and so on. Thanks (link)
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I was 16 when i lost mine and my boyfriend was 16 also. It wasnt too long ago either. We were going out for 11 months when we decided to have sex. It was definitely to someone special and i dont have any regrets at at all. Wasn't exactly in a romantic place (in his basement) but it was a romantic feeling. I bled a little bit when we were done and it definitely hurt. But the feeling you get when you have sex the first time with someone you love is amazing. So if your thinking of having sex for the first time, make sure its with the right person and that you two have been together long enough. Also make sure you will be able to take responsibility in your actions. Any more questions, IM me at itsallaboutkimbo or drop one in the inbox.. glad i could help ;-)
x0x Kim
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