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How Old?


Question Posted Saturday April 9 2005, 10:24 pm

How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?

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punkrockbabe123 answered Thursday May 26 2005, 8:10 pm:
after marrige

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Becky2005 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 5:47 pm:
whenever you get ready is when u should loose it

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itsz_JESS answered Saturday April 30 2005, 9:13 pm:
well it doesnt matter.. you just have to be ready and if you do think you're ready.. then just go for it

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ilovedoyel8 answered Sunday April 24 2005, 12:51 am:
when your ready

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lovergirl69 answered Friday April 22 2005, 4:03 pm:
definately after marriage God intended people to wait until after marriage because then you know that ur gonna be with that person forever and you don't need to worry about getting pregnant without being ready for it and who says birth control pills protect against all pregnancy trust me its not good to do it at 16 its way to young!

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inAdr3am327501 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 10:55 pm:
I blive whenever you are ready and understand the consequences and now about AIDS and STDs and when you have a full understanding and can be responsible about it.

GOOD LUCK!!
Sarah

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xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx answered Monday April 18 2005, 11:12 am:
i WOUld SAY AbOUt 16-17 YEARS Old. bECAUSE YOUR NOt YOUNG ANd YOUR NOt Old...
♥aMbEr BaMbEr♥

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itsallabOutkimbO answered Friday April 15 2005, 9:46 pm:
when the time is right, you have the perfect guy who you know you're going to be with for a while.

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Shaye1223 answered Thursday April 14 2005, 8:45 am:
Honestly I dont plan to loose my virginity until I get married but if you do plan on loosing your virginity before that make sure you ar eat a responsable age that you can take the after math of whatever may happen due to the fact that you will be loosin gyou rvirginity(knock on wood) I hop ethat there is no after math but I also hope that my advice could help you if not sorry I tried.

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i_need_advice answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 6:40 pm:
i dont think it matters how old u r age doesnt matter to me. it does matter to some people but tha their opinion not mine

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XxKandyshopxX answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 4:53 pm:
i would say around.. 16-17.. because youre not too old.. and then youre not too young

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SiLenTxfAiRy answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 12:32 pm:
when YOUR ready. dont let anyone presure you into doing it. but i say 16-17 and on.

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karazimonki answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 8:10 pm:
24 and married.
Karazi Kenzee

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SULaxStryke answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 6:07 pm:
By the time your married, and to me that doesn't mean get married early just to have sex. You need to make sure you trust the companion, and make sure he won't be a distraction if you are still in school. I dont think you should have sex if you are still in school because of the distractions, and it might be a little harder to take care of the baby. I would say some where around 24, but make sure it is not just for the fun of it because the kid might get sad when he finds out that he has no dad or mom because they werent really together. Hope i helped

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bethanymichelle answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 4:18 pm:
when u are married duh!

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 5:18 am:
You should probably be over 16. Its a fact that teens who start end up pregnant a year later, even if protection is used, but always being on the pill and the condom decreases your chances. But, I'm sure there are the answers that say, "oh theres no age limit, it doesn't matter, its when you feel ready." Well, lots of us think we are ready for stupid things, like when we are about 13 having sex. Remember that.



-TheTeenGirl

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ThursdayCasey answered Monday April 11 2005, 9:52 pm:
There is no recommended age. I was 13 when I lost my virginity. Some people wait until they are married to lose their virginity. It all depends on what your views and values are. If you don't have any moral issues, do it when you feel that you are ready. If you choose to wait until marriage, then do so. Again, I did it when I was 13, and I don't regret it in any way. Just be sure that when you do choose to have sex, that you are responsible, and ready for it. Good Luck!!

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KirksSkater answered Monday April 11 2005, 4:06 pm:
when you and your partner is ready!
Tara <3 I love you!

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IfIonlyhadaLIFE answered Sunday April 10 2005, 7:14 pm:
Um, it depends. I was really young, I think I was almost 15. But the best age is probably 17.

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K2204 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 5:06 pm:
i think its a maturity thing.

i also believe in sex after marriage.

please keep in mind you asked for my oppinion:)

KelSa

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Shelly_x answered Sunday April 10 2005, 4:06 pm:
well if your in a good relationship and your not been pressured into it. whenever you feel ready.
luv shelly

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XxSwEeTtArTxX answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:40 pm:
you should be married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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rememberxforever answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:54 pm:
Well i am really young but i think you should maybe be 18 youngest. i know a few people who have lost their virginty and they regret it alot. like i said though i dont think age determines it i think it is the people and i personally think they should actually love each other...plus you dont wanna rumors about you if you are still in high school...........=

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xOtWiXi answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:41 pm:
I don't think there's a specific age. Some people find the one there supposed to be with at 16, and do it.. others find their special someone at age 30. It's more when you find the person that you truly LOVE and would do anything for, and when they feel the same about you. You shouldn't plan it, and you shouldn't feel that you have to loose it before a certain age, because that is not the case. Personally, I'm waiting until I'm married. Just make sure to yourself that before you do have sex, that if the relationship didn't work out you would be comfortable with knowing you gave him everything. Don't plan- let love happen on it's own! Hope I've Helped, and if you need anything just message me! &hearts;

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darkconfessions answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:33 pm:
18. 16 at the least.

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_eMiLy answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:05 pm:
I think people should wait till at least they are 15 but then if they are 15 and still immature then they shouldn't it all depends on your mental maturity.
&hearts;Em

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southsideboy14 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 11:24 am:
You should be at least 16 before you lose your virginity.

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Kels answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:44 am:
I dont think its an age thing, its a maturity and responcibility thing.

I think you should be married, and happy, and be physically and menatally ready, and have the money if you get pregnate! :)

also, i think that there should be no doubt in your mind! what so ever!!

-Kels

sorry if that wasnt what you wanted to hear, but you asked for my oppinion, and thats what i gave you, my honnest oppinion!

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:10 am:
i dont think there a real age you should have sex.. i think its when your mature enough to have sex and when your in love with somebody.. i dont think 13 or 14 is a good age to lose it.. cause they mainly want to do it cause they think they have to or something..i think honestly wait til your in love with somebody youve been with for a long time.. and wait til your completely ready..much luv dez x0x0

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Karen answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:59 am:
It really depends on the person and when they are actually physically and mentally ready to lose their virginity. There is no age but most people lose their virginity to their boyfriend/girlfriend and when you love your partner and if you know you are ready, that's when you should lose your virginity. Anywhere older than the age of 16 is when you should lose your virginity but like I said, it depends on the person.

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girdy_goo15 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:51 am:
I have several up-to-date, good quality latex condoms, and both I and my partner know how to use them.
I have a large bottle of latex-safe, water-soluble lubricant (KY Jelly, Astroglide, Wet, etc.).
I have a secondary method of birth control for use with condoms.
I have a towel, and a stock of menstrual pads.
this is a sex check-off list that you should make a note of. i got it from www.scarleteen.com you should go there it will answer any questions you have. but also think of how old you are and the possibilities of pregnancy and STD's.

I have a list of local clinic or gynecologist phone numbers.
I have a savings account I can use myself at any time (preferably, with a pad of $500), and I have a "sex budget" of about $50 per month to take care of birth control, safer sex items and annual testing and sexual health care.
I am covered under a health insurance policy, which can cover pregnancy, neonatal care, gynecological visits, STD testing and/or birth control, or I have the funds to pay for these services.

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rainbowcherrie answered Sunday April 10 2005, 8:56 am:
There is no set age. You should lose it when you are mentally and physically ready and you're 100% sure that you want to. You should also wait until the right person comes along, don't jump into bed with the first person to look your way, wait until you're in a loving relationship. It also helps if you have reached the age of consent. (16 in the UK, 17 in the Republic of Ireland and 18 in most parts of America I believe.)

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mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday April 10 2005, 6:13 am:
Well i think you should be 17+, But thats just my advice, i think that sex at 16 is very young.

luv roxie
XxX&hearts;XxX

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QueenCece answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:25 am:
Be think it's great to lose it at 18, but i say whenever your ready and no rumors can be spread. Do it with a person you would absolutly trust and they trust you.

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insomniac.with.advice answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:15 am:
Loosing your virginity, To my opinion is not something that can be planed out. I mean Im sure you have always heard, That when you are ready, You will Know. I completely agree wuth that. Sex is a very huge responsibility, Even if you use contraception there is still that possibility of getting pregnant,or getting an STD. So I mean make sure that not only do you love the person you want to give your virginity, but there is mutual feelings...especially respect. I think that sex needs maturity because you need to be ready emotionally and physically if anything where to happen. Thats why most young people are left with regret and no self respect after losing their virginity. So my advice to you is wait till you dont have to question yourself or anybody else about when is a good time to loose your virginity... because when the right person comes and the right time approches you'll know....

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Tinkerbelle answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:07 am:
Whenever you're ready, there's no set age limit. But I wouldn't push it, 16-17 is the minimum age I'd do it, and that's only if you're ready and you love and know the other person very well and can handle the risks of getting pregnant and such.

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spacefem answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:07 am:
well, I'm 25, and I wouldn't mind being a virgin right now. you be the judge.

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CaitlinCrane answered Sunday April 10 2005, 2:19 am:
i personally think that everyone should wait until marriage...but if you dont want to do that, then i would say like 21-25

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LostAngel answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:48 am:
whenever you are ready, but i have to disagree with those who said "15-17" you should do it in your early 20's or so...you dont want to get pregent by a broken condom...and having to drop out of school to support the child and have your b.f. leave u..and have your rents mad at you

sorry buts its true

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lil_short_girl answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:34 am:
10 no just joking like 16 or 15

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:27 am:
id say married to a great guy who you love but... it really depends on when you're ready to do it.

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x0xTarax0x answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:26 am:
when you think yer ready, but i have to agree with everyone else, 16/17

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karenR answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:25 am:
Old enough to drive. Old enough to know better :)

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TR0PiCALX3 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:20 am:
At least 16 &hearts;

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angelxinxurexnightmarez answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:16 am:
whenever you wanted to...there isn't an exact age.....

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kevin1986 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:04 am:
I love these questions. However old you get the chance.

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hitler_the_goat answered Sunday April 10 2005, 12:50 am:
twenty eight. or seven, depending which catholic priest you talk to.
-hitler

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shake answered Sunday April 10 2005, 12:46 am:
However old you want to be

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russianspy1234 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 12:43 am:
it depends on you, id say 16 or so

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