Hey y'all! I'm 16/f, a gymnast at Top Flight Gymnastics Training Center in Southlake, Texas (I don't live in Southlake, that's just where my gym is!) and I go to Lewisville High. Go Fighting Farmers! Haha...ya right. Umm...ya. Ask me anything you like. I love to give advice. Ask away, I'll answer asap! Love ya!
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: Gymnast
Age: 16
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Member Since: December 5, 2004
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So heres the story.. i met this guy and hooked up with him. He has a girlfriend which he supposably is breaking up with but this has dragged on for bout a month now! He says hes into me and everyone tells me this.. his gf even found out he cheated on her with me and their stil together! they went out for 2 years now.. i like him and he likes me but he says he doesnt want to have wasted 2 years of his life or is worried hes making a mistake.. someone told me today hes still plannin on breaking up with her but this is taking so long!! what should i do??
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pretty much all you can do is wait. and i know that that must sound like one of the hardest things to do right now since you've already waited for a while, but that's just how it is. i guess you could try to talk to him more about it, but make sure you don't pressure him, cz that'll just make things worse. be patient and kind to him, he'll see that you are no mistake.
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i have this really hard warmup for gymnastics and it makes everyone feel like they are going to barf. its called cardio. should i just rebel and not do it or should i just barf so they make me not do it!?
~~your bubbly friend~~ (link)
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lol.....hmmmm....sounds familiar! lol i would say rebel and not do it bcz just barfing would be really messy and gross. but rebeling means your coach will get mad at you and kick you out of the gym! :o) i guess i'll just have to see how it is next week....not looking forward to it by the way. lol
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Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again? (link)
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no. a lot of people just try it once just to see how it feels, but quit right away. just cz your curious doesn't mean you're a cutter.
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ok so theres this guy and ive known him FOREVER. and well i really like him and i think he likes me (but im not sure) and i like always talk to him at school but now that school ends on thursday i wont see him as much, except he lives down my street and so i will prolly see him some. well any ways we talk on the phone a lil bit and do you think it seems like clingy or slutty or something if i call him in the summer? (link)
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NO!!!!!! absolutely not! your his friend atleast so i bet he wouldn't mind your calling him. as long as it isn't like twice a day or something. lol.
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how do you gain body fat?? like what foods help?? (link)
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wow...i've never known anyone want to gain body fat. lol. but foods that you can use are basicly all the junk foods that you'd normally want to avoid. like greasy chips, fast food, doughnuts, lots of sweets, stuff like that. hope this helps...for whatever reason you wanna gain weight....lol.
~steph~
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ive had 20 boyfriends. does that make a slut. im a 14/f (link)
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no. the only thing that makes you a slut is that you are sexually active in any way with lots of guys. you are not a slut.
~steph~
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Me and one of my guy friends Tom, like eachother. I dont want to ask him out but I want to go out with him. We have kissed a few times but never frenched. How acn I get him to ask me out? 16/f (link)
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bring up the possibility of you two going out and see what he says. chances are, he'll end up asking you out.
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Last year I dyed my hair black and i've kept it black since then. I am now trying to get my hair back to a more natural color: dark brown-light brown. I tried Herbal Essences Dye.. It was called Iced Bronze or something like that.
It just dyed my roots brown and make the black in my hair a really odd color.
If anyone knows a good brand and/or color of dye that will completely cover black, let me know!!
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i think my hair stylist person said that you have to bleach it first so that your hair will accept the color. then use the stuff that you got.
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is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship (link)
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absolutely not! the only people who think there is, are racial, and you don't wanna listen to them. you just have to know what you like and go for it! hope this helps!
~steph~
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okay so yesterday i got highlights [bleached] and i wanna go underwater in the pool.. would they turn green or sum,thing go worong if i did? (link)
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that would only really happen if you're in there for an extremely long time. i have blonde hair and it's never gone green and stayed that way. and if it has gone green, it was barely noticeable at all. just make sure you wash your hair immediately after you're done swimming.
~steph~
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ok so my bestfriend (whos a guy) who lives 2 doors down and me have been best friends forever..well we always mess around and like wrestle and play fight. ive knwon him since i was 5. well anyways im talking to him on aol right now and hes like "last time you were at my house i almost when down to kiss you but i didnt know if you would like it so i didnt" wtf. i do not like him like that @ all. hes really cute and alot of girls like him..but i cant hlep it...i just dont see him that way..
help..i feel way weird now.. (link)
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just make sure that you let him down easy and tell him that you don't like him like that. make it clear that you still wanna be friends and everything, too. don't let it get between you. it sounds like y'all have a very good friendship going on. hope i helped
steph
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I want to ask my guyfriend out because I really like him & there are so many signs he likes me. However, he really likes this other girl & she knows that. What should I do? (link)
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i guess just start hinting more that you like him and see how he reacts. if you are absolutely positive that he likes you, go for it. all you can do is ask. good luck!
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Okay, I'm 15/Female if that matters and I've liked this guy for about a month. He liked me at the beginning of the school year for a long while but he never told me that because I had a boyfriend at the time. Now, I'm single and I'd like to go out with him but here's the problem .. he's been dating this girl for a month. I don't get why they're together though because everytime he wants to hug her she just pushes him off, she never wants to hold his hand, kiss him, or anything and I don't know why because they're going out .. but my question is, should I wait until him and his girlfriend break up so I can ask him out or should I go ahead and try and like some other guy or do something else? (link)
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if you REALLY like this guy, then just wait. it doesn't seem like his relationship with the other girl will last much longer. just be patient. then it will make your relationship with him when you do go out even more special since you had been single for a while. be patient!
~steph~
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Hi.. i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 10 monthes and we really love eachother! Before we started going out, he kind of liked my best friend, but he asked me out instead. Turns out, she's liked him since before we were going out and they flirt soo much! I know flirting is just natural but my other friend told me that she wants us to break up and im really worried.. What should i do!? Thanks! (link)
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your friend doesn't sound like she's being a very good friend. she should be happy that you are going out with him. that's what friends are supposed to do. and if she doesn't realize that, then you need to let her know. just keep going out with your bf and she'll just have to wait her turn. hope this helps
steph
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I have a blushing problem. Whenever I think about blushing or see my crush, I start blushing. My friends are like "your face is always red!" It's become like a habit now. How can I stop blushing like this? (link)
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i don't think there's anything you can do about your blushing. but don't worry. everyone blushes. you are just more sensitive or something to the things that normally make people blush. you'll eventually grow out of it, but in the meantime, try to not think about blushing and it might make it a little better.
~steph~
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I have this friend named Allyson. We have science class together and I always see her flirting with this guy named Mitch. She told me later that she has a HUGE crush on him. I mean..yeah, he is pretty cute but his attitude is awful. He sexually harasses her all the time and says really perverted things to her. She thinks that he is doing this as his way of flirting but I think he is being a plain jerk. Am I having a bias because this guy was mean to me way back in elementary or is he really an ass? I mean..I know this is bad but I've got to say this to explain how bad it is. "Hey allyson, you have this bruise on your cheek..whats that from, huh?" "Allyson, you've got some hair stuck in your teeth" "You got something white dripping down your lips" Sometimes he even calls her a heffer and she isn't fat at all! She is like one of the skinniest friggen people I know. If he is being a true jerk, what do I tell Allyson? It's not like I can forbid her from dating him... (link)
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he souds like an enormously major jerk to me so i don't think you're just being biased. all you can do is warn her about him. so just do your best to keep her away from him and bring her into the light about his pervertedness and then you'll just have to hope she makes the right choice. there's nothing else you can do.
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Me & my guyfriend are going to the movies. We've never hung out one-on-one out of school so this is a big deal since I like him. I'm not sure if it's going to be uncomfortable for us. He likes some other girl (& she knows that) but people keep saying he likes me. Do you think that it'll be weird hanging out alone? (link)
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it'll only be weird if you let it. just be yourself and act how you normally would around him. you'll be fine if you just do that.
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ok theres this boy that i really like and have alot of feelings for. i have know him for a really long time. he was my frst b/f, my first kiss, and i lost my virginity to him also. then he switched school districts and moved, only like a 5 minute car ride.but we didnt really keep in touch. now i see him once in a while when hes in the nieghborhood, he stops by my house, he kisses me, and the last time ihe was here he took down my #, and then asked me if he could come over in 2 days and chill and i said sure, he nevr came over though. i need help do u think this kid likes me back, and should i be mad at him for not showing up when he says and wat should i say to him about this??
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i think he does like you back cz he still visits and he got your number and because of your history and everything. but i dunno why he wouldn't show up. maybe he got busy and didn't call you or something. but don't get too mad just yet cz you dunno what's going on. but next time he visits, make sure you get an answer from him as to why he didn't show up.
hope i helped!
steph
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ok. So I've been planning on asking this boy out tomorrow since last wednesday. i didn't because he was sick for wed, thurs, and fri. so i couldn'y. so i've been waiting for monday and yesterday, this boy i liked asked me out. And i said yes. But i want the other boy. and i dont really like the one who asked me out anymore. do i brake up with him now? or do i wait, ask the guy out, and if he says yes, break up with the other one? HELP!! oh and i had a dream last night that the guy i've been waiting to ask out asked me out, is that supposed to be a sign?
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don't just dump your current bf because you want someone else. you told him yes and you need to atleast give him a chance. wait a week or two and if you really can't stand going out with him anymore, then break up with him. this other guy you like will still be there. and don't ask the other guy out while you're still going out with your current bf because that's just rude and everyone will start thinking your a cheater or something so just wait.
and the dream, don't start thinking it's a sign. it most likel isn't. but i'm not saying that it won't happen. i might just be that that's what you were thinking about before you fell asleep and you just dreamed about it. that happens a lot. so don't get your hopes up. but don't worry!
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Ok I'm 13/F . I will be starting a competative swim team tomorrow morning and it will last all summer. I will have practices 1 hour for 3 days a week and a swim meet (competion) every Thursday for 3 hours. My question is, can I expect to lose a few unwanted inches on my stomach, thighs and legs with all this swimming? (Im hoping maybe 2 maybe 3 in on thighs, 1 or 2 on stomach an 1 or 2 on arms) I'll rate!! :) thanx! (link)
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you probably will.
swimming works a ton of muscles all over your body so it's always a good way to lose weight and a few unwanted inches. so have hope!
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