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Best Friend and Boyfriend
Hi.. i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 10 monthes and we really love eachother! Before we started going out, he kind of liked my best friend, but he asked me out instead. Turns out, she's liked him since before we were going out and they flirt soo much! I know flirting is just natural but my other friend told me that she wants us to break up and im really worried.. What should i do!? Thanks!
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your friend doesn't sound like she's being a very good friend. she should be happy that you are going out with him. that's what friends are supposed to do. and if she doesn't realize that, then you need to let her know. just keep going out with your bf and she'll just have to wait her turn. hope this helps
steph
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Woa that's wierd. My friend was in the same position but she was like your friend. As it turns out he didn't know that my friend liked him. He ended up dumping his girlfriend of 9 months and now they're going out. This totally broke up their friendship and it's kinda hard for me to trust my friend anymore. Talk to your friend not about ur boyfriend though- can you trust her? You don't want to lose a good friend over a guy. You could dump him or talk to him about it. Good luck!
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Well you should talk to her. Explain to her that you love this boy. If she says she loves him to. Then you might want to re-think your friendship. I know boys come after buds. But from what i hear she isnt the best bud. I hope i've helped =]
p.s this happens to alot of people. and if he does break up with you then just say forget this i hope u to little biotchs are happy together!
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Dear worried,
I would tell your friend that she isn't being a friend to you and that she needs to back off. Talk to your boyfriend about this too. He needs to know how you feel. Take luck and keep in touch!
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You discuss it with your boyfriend. If you really love each other there is no problem. Just trust him. :)
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Well look at it this way. He "liked" your best friend but he asked you out instead. That means he just liked her a bit and he was into you way more. You need to talk to your boyfriend and just comfort him about this whole situation. 10 months is a really long time so you need to trust him and that there are no feeling between them. Your friend is just really jelous that he likes you way way more and because she couldnt get him. I mean thats defenetlly not your fault. If she liked him before you guys went out she should of said something. Thats her fault. Dont let this bother you so much because I honestly think that your boyfriend wouldnt do that to you. She might flirt with him a lot and if he flirts with her back its probablly not on purpose and he probablly doesnt notice it. Just remember he loves you and not her and make sure you talk to him. ♥
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If you guys are going out and have been going out for almost a year i wouldn't worry about it. I mean he chose you over her and it's not like he wants to break up with you. Only she does so i wouldn't worry about it. I say that she wants you to break up because she is jealous. Don't worry about it. If he really loves you he wouldn't break up with you for another girl.
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you really need to just trust your boyfriend. if they start hanging out alot or talking alot then you have the right to get suspicious but deffinetly dont accuse him of anything because that will make him extremely mad!!
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You should definately talk to your boyfriend and your friend. Tell them how your scared and everything, and if you don't want to talk to them in person..talk to them on the internet (aim or email or something.)
I hope I helped!
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i will give you my advice on this one but the best thing to do in this kind of sicuation is to confront your boyfriend he wiol give you the right answer, okay the way i lok at it is that he "LIKED" your friend but asked you out instead but then she likes him i think that he liked her before but found you and once he started oging out with you he relized that he likes you more and that your his gurlfriend and stuff, if they flirt a lot then that can just mean their friends i have the ecact same problem, i mean they could flirt and not mean to or maybe their realsonship is on were u flirt and your really good friends but you can and would never be able to go out! G00D LUCK H0PE EVERYTHING W0KRS 0UT F0R Y0U! X0X`
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