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boyfriend issues.
ive had 20 boyfriends. does that make a slut. im a 14/f
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No, but it does make you look like a very indecisive individual with terribly bad judgement.
Make up your damn mind, actually get some foresight before you date a person. You're 14, you have no need for that many boyfriends, if you actually looked at personality and such and actually tried to get a stable relationship you wouldn't have this question. Having 20 boyfriends does not by any means make you a slut, but at your age you shouldn't be making those kind of decisions anyway, you've obviously shown you aren't capable of making good ones.
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No not unless you have had sex with them.. If you had sex with them i guess you might as well represent yourself as a SLUT!
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No as long as you wer'nt sexually active with them, but you are young. whats the rush? slow down and enjoy being young. its ok to have boyfriends but you dont have to have one. just be carful what you do, because some people will call you a slut. it doesnt matter if you have been with five guys or fifty, someone out there will hate you and spread rumors about you being a slut. just be careful what you do and slow down. i hope i helped.
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Do *YOU* think you'Re a "slut"??? TheRe's youR answeR. PeRsonally, I don't believe in "sluts" and "whoRes"... but maybe that's just ME?? hope this helps!!!
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depends in what amount of time and what you did. thats just called burnout.. some ppl will say you are, some people (who want a good rating, i might add) will say you are not. its for you to decide. try stayin with one or going out with someone you really like...no just whoever comes along. <3
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Erg... well, it depends on what you did. I know there are 12 year olds that have had 50 boyfriends. I think that's slutty, yes. If you didn't do anything at all with them, no, you're not. But if you kissed them and such ... maybe. It just depends on how you act.
You are much too young to be having that many though! I prayed for ... gah, what seemed like ages about having a boyfriend, and I know that God is okay with me right now. But, I am not going to do something stupid. I don't think that I ever want to even kiss a guy. Maybe that will change, but I don't know. It depends on how God leads me. (something I'm praying about. Very hard.) It's all in how you act. But you're only fourteen. You have a long time before you're going to get married... why do you want to bounce around like that? I don't want to, I know that much. I want to have very few boyfriends and have a lot of very close guy-friends. I'd rather go out with ... one (if possible) or two, maybe three guys, and marry one of them. That'd be nice.
Back to your question: That is for you to decide. It depends on how you acted etc. But I wouldn't say so, because, like I've said, there are 12 year old girls who've had 50 + boyfriends.
-FunnyCide
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It depends on what you've done with them. And as for being 14 with 20 boyfriends, make up your mind. It's too early of an age to be worrying about boyfriends, especially if it's not for love. (Which obviously isn't what you and your boyfriend had if they were so easily replaced)
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ok wellll..
-did you go far with a lot of these guys?
-how long did the relationships last?
-and who usually dumped who??
thats what would pretty much determine it..leave feedback with the answers to those questions and ill help you out :)
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no. the only thing that makes you a slut is that you are sexually active in any way with lots of guys. you are not a slut.
~steph~
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it depedns on what you did with these guys and if you were onyl with them for a few days or something like that then, I'm sorry, but you would sound like a slut to me
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no, having alot of boyfriends does not make you a slut, as long as you do not do things with them, or get things from them and then move on.
-K e L s E Y-
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no... not unless youve done like a ton of sexual stuff with most of them... i personally dont consider anybody one unless they ""fool round""
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if im helpful i dont really think your a slut because alot of people have alot of boy friends so no your not
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