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I'm 16/F and a cheerleader.

I took gymnastics when I was much, much younger and was pretty awesome if I do say so myself. But I quit and lost everything I once had.

I would really love to have my back handspring again, and i've been working with my local gymnastics instructor. (She was the one I had a while back too) The one problem i'm having with my backhandspring is going backwards, but i'm slowly but surely getting over it. I can do it with her spotting me easily, and i'm not struggling or anything.

As an estimate, how long would it take to get it again on my own? (link)
When I did dance, well acrobatics, I would sometimes hit these stages and not be able to do a backhandspring because I'd be scared to go backwards. Then a couple weeks later I'd be able to do round off backhandspring back tucks and back ariels..when I was ages 8 to 13. You should be able to do it soon because I've stopped doing dance for 2 years so far and last summer I did a backhandspring for the first time in a year without stretching or anything even with the whole backwards thing. You just have to really focus and just go with it. Doing stuff on trampolines can increase the chance of doing it on the ground again too. Hope I helpppped!


Ok... So this nasty girl that goes to my high school told me to charge her ipod [that she stole from someone] well she does a lot of drugs and forgot to ask for it back before the end of the school year. So i sold it.. considering she originally stole [like the piece of shit she is]i didn't think it really mattered. But next year she's going to the same h.s what should i say to her if she remembers that i still have it? (link)
aha I'm not gonna bitch you out like half the people did answering you, because that's not helping your problem any. I'm sure many of the people in my town would've done the same thing you did. anywayss...

You can just kinda avoid the matter..like if she asks for it back just say oh well I'll bring it tomorrow..and then not bring it and say you'll bring it tomorrow again..and just kinda avoid her and not talk to her if you don;t like her in the first place. Orrrrr you can say that your mom/dad took it away because they thought YOU stole it because they know you couldn't buy it yourself and no matter what you said they didn't believe you. haha that's just what I would do. Hope I helped a little?



okay.. so im 15/f and my boyfriend 17/m got into a fight last night. see we have been together for a little over 5 months. we have only got into 3 big fights, counting this one.
last night we went to the movies, and then we hung out at his place. i was in a sad/bad mood so i didnt really talk to him all that much, but i got over it and we started talking, then had sex. Well, he has this game on his phone that i like to play.
&& his birthday is next month, and i was going to have a surprise party for him, i told his best friend, so i looked at his texting to see if his friend told him anything about it. and i saw that his friend asked if he was with me and my bf said yea, shes being the usal bitch. i mean, i didnt do anything to called a "bitch". i told him i wanted to go home and on the way home i was crying and stuff. then i got home and we got into a texting fight, and i told him i would never call him any names like that, and then today he was saying how i dont appreciate the things he does for me. and i said im sorry that you called me a bitch and i had sex with you. and he said that he told his friend that before we did anything.

well really theres more to it then that, but i cried all night and today.. am i over reacting?.. i mean i never had a boyfriend that does the things my boyfriend does for me. hes so sweet, and i do notice the things he does for me. i might not show how i love him, but i do, im just really scared of getting hurt like i did in the past... what should i do to show him that im sorry?... or should i even be sorry? (link)
I kinda think that the person below me is wrong saying that you were basically the wrong one in this looking in his texts. I mean you guys have been together for awhile so it shouldn't be a big deal if you look at eachothers things, especially since you guys care/love eachother and have nothing to hide from eachother. Saying it was wrong of you to do that is like saying that you looked at his texts and found out he was cheating on you, yet 'it was his personal shit and you shouldn't have been looking.' I think you have a right to be upset and you shouldn't apologize because being called a bitch by someone you really care about behind your back hurts and makes you wonder what else they're saying behind your back. I just think that you should have a 'feel good' talk about it, or a calm talk, and try to settle things. Tell me how things goooo



Okay well i'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 4 months now, and i love him with all my heart.. i really do. he's like an amazing boyfriend. he's so good to me. it's just like.. well he's like other guys and i don't understand. he tells me how much he cares about me & stuff but he doesnt show it all the time. we always fight about this & he says i only care about myself.. but i think that like if he cares, why can't he show it?! i mean he does show it.. but not as much as i want. i mean this is my first realllll boyfriend and i know i have very high expectations but idk what to do.. basically i've fallen too too hard for him. every day i cry on the phone with him over stupid things like if he ignores me a few times, or i think he's mad at me but is saying he isn't i'll think he's lying.. or if he forgets to call me especially. i'm so sick of getting hurt. i want to still be in love with him, but i need to stop caring so freaking much.. does anyone know how this is possible? like i tried giving us space & stuff but nothing works my weakness is i care too much... someone help me. (link)
Haha wow it looks like I wrote this question. Well it's really hard to not care as much, but the most you can do is try. I used to get so upset that I'd threaten to break up with him, but obviously not do it. It's really hard to love someone so much, then stop caring as much..it's almost impossible. I think that after awhile, it'll start to mess with your head..such as all the fighting and crying and whatnot. You'll probably feel like you're starting to lose feelings. Does this guy yell at you a lot for caring and getting upset? I don't know if this question is asking whether to get him to care for you more, or to get you to care less. I think that you need to tell him how it feels like he barely cares about you or just doesn't care about how things are going. Ask him to maybe call you when he says he will, or don't say he'll call at all. Try to get him to make some of the decisions whether to call or not, or talk to you online or whatever. That way, you DEFINITELY should be expecting a call, and that's when you have the right to get somewhat upset. DO NOT give in to him all the time either. You need to have some control in the relationship because what seems to happen when one person cares too much is that they turned whipped. That's when the relationship basically turns to shit because someone gets controlling and you don't want that. I mean it's okay for you to care, because I do the same thing, like cry when I get frustrated with him or when it feels like he doesn't even care about the relationship. It'll be really hard, but try to get a tiny bit less clingy little be little, but if the fighting keeps happening along with the crying, it WILL take its toll and will make you start to lose feelings as unbelievable as it sounds. I hopppppeee I helped a little bit at least lol. Good Luck and tell me how things go :)


ok well what i what is a song for my myspace that isnt too well known by people because i like too be original and unique..i like-
Emo
Country
Rock
Power Pop
Punk pop
punk
and stuff like that (link)
Minor Threat's always nice. Outbreak is actually really good too. Those are all hardcore bands though..but they're still extremely good


Hello! I have a pair of dark blue jeans that I really want to punk out. I don't have a sewing machine but I have a few scraps of fabric I'd love to add, and I want to kinda rip it up and make the holes look natural. Any ideas? Links to sites and/or pictures that would help inspire would be greatly appreciated. Oh- the wierder designs and patterns, the better. I want these jeans to really stand out and look as punky as possible. Thanks! (link)
Just saying..punk isn't all about baggy pants and chains and stuff...what you'll probably wanna do is sew them skin tight, and add band patches and things. Chains I guess aren't too bad unless you over do it. I don't know if adding studs will make it 'punk', but who knows haha. That's basically all i can really say about thinnnnngs


Does anyone know what the song is called that they played during the slideshow in rememberance of J.T in tonights episode? it went something like "if i would die today my life would be o.k" it was a girl singing, im not sure if that was the exact words but close.Thanks! (link)
The song is Say What You Will by Damnhait Doyle. I guess she never released it anywhere like limewire or anything. That's why it's so hard to find =/


What are those shoes that are a brown suede fabric that are squared in the front and have stitching on the front? (link)
ahh I think you're talking about clogs? i think..a lot of preps wear them? aha that's what I think you're talking about



I'm trying to find songs similar to
Avril Lavigne - Holding on.
Rascal Flatts - My wish.
Michelle Branch - White houses.

Does anybody know of any good ones? I'm looking myself also, so don't say Im relying on others and blahblahblah. I'd just like to know if anyone knows of any. Thanks. =) (link)
This is kind of different but have you listened to Regina Spektor yet? December and Loveology are two really good songs from her =]


wats the god of the noose on myspace and why is every1 talking about it? (link)
alright its not a virus..tom asked my best friend personally if he could research this for him. It's someone who hacked into myspace and think theyre cool but really arent lol. ♥


how do you kiss someone ... im afriad i not going to do it right...

thankss (link)
Ok--I know this is going to bother you a little butttt...

it seriously DOES come naturally. I was wicked worried about my first kiss..I thought I was gonna ruin it, do it wrong, etc. Once it happens, it just happens. Just don't stress it much and you'll be fine.

And yes, when people say it comes naturally, it ticked me off too because I was like "Well I don't know how to do it..I just don't so it WONT come naturally!!" but it really did and I wasn't worried about it at all. All you have to do when the time comes is RELAX! hope I helped a little..leave one in my inbox if you need any more help! :)


13/m
i need a polo shirt, for a party. i dont have any, not the preppy type. where can i buy the shirts? how much are they? easy 5's (link)
Aerpostale has some nice, pretty cheap ones for about $10. :)


does anyone no of a website that says all of taking back sunday's concerts? Like, where their going next and when... thanks in advance! (link)
you can go onto ticketmaster and search for them and it usually has the concerts in your area, then out of your area and the dates. Thats what I did for the MCR concert. If you need anymore help feel free to drop one in my inbox :)


How scary is the movie Hide and Seek? See, we're thinking of watching it at my Halloween party, but I get scared VERY easily and get nightmares and stuff - basically I'm a wimp lol!! If it's really really scary, does anyone have any suggestions of movies that are good, scary but not terrifying (from a wimp's point of view lol)?
We've already seen Blair Witch Project, Signs, The Ring (what is Ring 2 like?), Sixth Sense and both Final Destinations and don't really wanna watch them again.
Thanks!! (link)
Hide and Seek isn't scary at all. ANd im a scardey cat too lol. and theres this one part where the guy opened a box and i started screaming so loud when there was nothing in it aha. SO if you want like a movie thats really nothing, then pick that. Its still a very good movie, just not too scary. If you need any movies just leave one in my inbox :)


What are some songs that are about being sad because of the death of a friend? Thank you. (link)
Hear You Me - Jimmy Eat World.

thats the only sad song I can think of that has to do with a friends death. Its a really good song you should listen to it :)

hope this helps, if you need anymore songs contact me :)


What would be worse?

Straightening your hair alomost everday

or

Putting mousse,gel and hairspray in it almost everyday as well?

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I think the mousse and gel etc. is worse because I noticed that when I go to the hair dressers, they dont put much hairspray or anything in my hair but they straighten it with a straightener for me and even suggests straighteners to me. They have been coming out with straighteners that dont really damage your hair much. Hope this helps :)


My hair is so boring and I was wondering how can i make hair wavy without buying anything from the stores?? Anything i can do/use?? Rate 5's for first 6 people if it works. (link)
OK what I do is i twist my hair in spirals (i have like hairspray in my hair n stuff before I do this) and then I use a straightener and press down on it and it was mak it crimpy/wavy and it works really good because my hair wont hold anything from color to curls but this works for me. Just try it and see if it works.


What's the best kinds of women's deordorant that smells good? And don't say Lady Speed Stick, because I hateee that. Thanks. (link)
I heard Secret Platinum Glacier Mist smelled wicked good and worked really good.


well my BF broke up with me 2 weeks ago, i am upset that he did that and i miss him a lot but i'm still going out and gettin on with things.

my question is, is it right for me to look for a new BF now, when i'm still thinking about my ex? or should i wait? (link)
It really depends on what you think. But how I htink about it is that HE broke up with you so it's your choice not his. Try to get over your ex a little more. I've gone out with a few guys but noticed I still loved my ex a wicked lot. It was really hard to go out with those other boys because he was all i thought about. Just really think on what you should do. Good luck! drop one in my inbox if you need any more help!


im a dancer and i'm doing a lyrical solo for like the 4th time and i'm running out of songs. i need some songs that are really sad and tell a story. thanks. (link)
Via Dolorosa's a nice song.
that's pretty much the only nice lyrical song that tells a story. I really like the song though. If you need anymore songs just drop one in my inbox :)




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