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why does it itch done there when u shave and how can i maybe ask my mom that i wanna get a bikini wax ... anyother way i could remove hair with out my mom really knowing
It itches because when your shave the hair grows bad and you get little tiny bumps that make it hurt and itch.
And yu can tell youre mom that your are really unconfertable about having hair down there. and i would really wanna take it off. pls.
good luck.
*Soraa.
i was with this guy for almost a year and a half. we were so in love. problem was, we never saw each other because of his parents. but we stuck through it. we started going to church together, but his family decided to change churches about two weeks ago. so i started dating another guy, mostly to piss my ex off. but it didn't work. my ex and i started talking today about how we love each other, etc. but we got in an odd fight online tonight. i don't even know how it escalated. but we blocked each other on practically all of our screennames. and he told me he was gone forever. i want to move on, but i love him so much i just can't. i don't think any of you can help me, but it feels really good to get everything off my chest.
wow. that's really deep.
But maybe what you can do. still try to talk to him. Beacause teens that love eachother will get into fights. But then they always make up. it's totally normal. The Longest couples can get into the craziest fights
But they are the one that keep on fighting for their love between them.
Keep talking, stay strong, tell him you love him. Keep fighting; but not just so you can win the argument. Fight for his love.
*Soraa.
Compared to everyone else, I have big legs. They aren't fat or anything, I just want to slim them down and tone the muscle. Any ideas?
Four Simple Slim-Down Moves
1. Doorknob Squats
Targets: butt, quads, hamstrings
Set a timer to 100 seconds. Stand facing the narrow edge of an open door, with your legs hip-distance apart and a footstool directly behind you. Holding your arms straight, grip one doorknob in each hand. To a slow count of 10, lower your body until it touches the stool (but don't sit down!). Pause, then raise yourself to a standing position to another slow count of 10. Repeat until the time is up.
2. Side-Lying Leg Lifts
Targets: butt, outer thighs
Set a timer to 100 seconds. Lie on your right side, with your legs straight and your head propped up in your right hand. Bend your right leg at the knee and place your left hand on the floor in front of you for support. To a slow count of 10, lift your left leg 80 degrees off the floor. Pause and squeeze your hip and butt muscles before lowering to another slow count of 10. Repeat until the time is up, then switch sides for another 100 seconds.
3. Single-Leg Curls
Targets: hamstrings, calves
Set a timer to 100 seconds. Secure a one-pound weight on one ankle, then stand with your feet together. Keep your arms straight and lean forward, placing both hands on a footstool 12 inches in front of you. To a slow count of 10, bend your weighted leg, raising your ankle to your butt. Pause, squeeze your hamstring and lower your leg. Repeat until the time is up, then switch sides.
4. Heel Raises
Target: calves
Set a timer to 100 seconds. Stand facing a wall, with your feet parallel and hip-distance apart. Place a rolled-up towel under the balls of your feet, then lock your arms and place the palms of your hands on the wall for support. To a slow count of 10, raise your heels off the floor so you are standing on your toes on the towel. Pause and squeeze the muscles in your calves, then lower to another slow count of 10. Repeat until the time is up.
these should work. They are helping me!
xoxo
Soraa
my friend and i are going to cheer camp next week and we have this thing where we decorate the room we're in and u can get prizes. well for our room we choose the theme "an evening under the stars", like its gonna be a kinda whimsical romantic theme like with glow in the dark stars on the cieling and white christmas lights, but we dont know what else to have in our room that fits but isnt too expensive
You should get cute little tables and chairs for everyone to sit in, with candles and One "fake" rose laying on top with the table. And why i say 'fake' is because the real roses cost alot.
Hmm.. And Then you should put on some french or Itilan music. That is very romantic.
And you should by incents for the room to smell as romantic as it can.
xoxo
Good Luck.
Soraa.
My bestfriend is 21. She is pregnant and does not want to keep the child because she cannot support it. She wants to have an abbortion. I have mixed feelings about it, but it's her life. I don't know how I can help her..because I'm still in highschool and don't have a job where I can lend her some money. But she's lent my cousin a LOT of money because he needed help, but he can't pay herback, for other reasons. I don't know how I can help her. And she can't tell her Mom because her Mom will kick her out of the house, and then she won't have any place to live & a child.
I'm scared for her.
Any Advice??...
- If you have opinions on abortions, I don't really want to get into the subject. So thank you anyways.
Thank you
You should tell her that she should just have the baby and then put it up for adoption.
And she should explain to her parents. Cuz she is an adult now. She's 21.
xoxo
i'll pray
Soraa.
whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!
thx for any answeres! i rate high =)
Giving head is sucking a guys penis and a BJ- is sucking a guys penis. - - There the same thing.
Just different statements
xoxo
Soraa.
I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond.
Hey,
Sence your a teenager, it's really normal. I answered another problem that sounded just like this and it's the same thing.
It's normal for teenage boys to go through erections 5 or more times an hour.
xoxo
Soraa.
Hi, I shave my lower area but somehow it always get irritaed with bumps and everything. Is there any other way not to get these? Please help.
Hey,
You need really good shaving cream, and i new razor.- maybe your razor is old. And if you are shaving your lower area then you should only shave the sides because your middle area is not suppoesed to be shaved. But the sides are for if you are going swimming and you don't want your pubic hairs to show.
xoxo
love,
Soraa
My boyfriend told me to ask his question on advicenators to see what other guys experience. He thinks he has a problem getting TOO many erections. He gets them constantly, about 6 times per hour. Sometimes they last 1 minute, sometimes 20 minutes. He gets them randomly, even when he's not thinking about anything sexualm like when he's just sitting there or playing video games. He says its annoying and he wants to know if it's normal for all guys, and if not, should he see a doctor about it?
Yeah it's normal.
If your boyfriend is around 13-17. It's very normal.. and he doesn't need to go see a doctor about that.
whats a hand job, giving head, and eating out?
A hand job is when a chick slides her hand up and down a guys penis, giving head is when a chick is sucking a guys penis, and eating out is when a guy licks a chicks pussy.
ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!
-confused
Wow this is one of deepest stories and questions i've ever read.
I think.. you should get another pregnancy test girl, because you gotta be safe..
the first question that you ask is kind of confusing. but guess what.. Condums are safer to use but there acually not safe. because cundoms can get stuck inside of you with the sperm in it.
I loved this one.
stay safe..
xoxo
-soraa.
ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?
16/f
aww.. that's cute..
You should express your feelings to himm.. if your too shy to use your body language. to tell him
Hey maybe he'll like you back.
Heck YES! that would be awesome
-soraya-
God bless you and "him".
ok me and my boyfrind have been datin know for 9 months i am 14 and he just turned 17. we are in a long distance realtionshhip(he live about 2hours away from me) and he left on staurday for 2 weeks to a basketball thing and the thing is he went with his "firend" that likes him. like this girl is a bitch she always tryin to do something with him and trying to get me mad.i trust my boyfriend that wont do anything with her but they are stayin in the same room and bed..i know there is nothing goin on wit them because he doesnt like her like that and his sister would have already told me there is.. his sister is going with him too and the same room but different bed.. should i be worried.:( i trust him but not her. can someone please help me.
Well.. this is my advice.. I'm not saying that your boyfriend is bad.. but If their sharing the same room.. in the same bed.. Umm.. i'm thinking their doing something.. now my questions is why can't he just sleep in a different room? or switch beds with his sister.?
well.. yeah if you believen him keep on going out with himm..
When he gets home.. you should talk to him.. really the same bed.. well.. that's kind of weird.
Take my advice
-Soraya_
This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?
thanks! ill rate 5's!!
Hell yea..
he does. . really he does..
If you like him you should go for it..
guys like that girls make their move's ..
go for it gurl.
i'll pray for you.
oOx Soraya. Make a MOvE.
theirs this boy and he wants to go out with me for the 28th time.i really like him but i jus know he is gonns dump me again for a dmumb reason. i dont know what to do.
help me!
Okay.. if i was you then i wouldn't go out with him because. If he is going to dump you thenn. there is no way you should go out with him.. really .. i would do that.
god bless.
bye bye
ok so yesterday i was supposed to pick up my boyfriend to go to the movies with some friends. But my mom was being a bitch and didn't pick him up. So i felt bad throughout the whole movie because i couldnt get ahold of him at his house and i guess he was just waiting at his house. So i bought him skittles and im making him a big card but what could i do to make it up to him? i want to bring him somewhere or something. i rate 5's for good answers.
Instead of going to the movies with a group of people. go with just you and him.
You guys should just be alone you know to talk and have fun. Tell him that your sorry.
And give him a hug and a Kiss.
He'll love that. it makes him feel like he's loved. You know.
xoxo.. ask me for more advice if you want.
i'll pray.
Soraya. - -
Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!
Hmm.. you know hopefully there not just doing that so it can be funny.. really there are alot of really stupid and unmature guys out there.
But maybe what you should do is go up to one and ask them out. or talk to them .. You'll notice if he really likes you. He'll get red, studder, or maybe if he plays a cool he try to impress you. so think about that.
But if all he is doing is looking at your ass and trying to touch you or if he talks to you in that kind of way.. all he wants is sex.. really it's tru.
take my advice and i hope it works.
xox Soraya x3
This guy who's friends with my ex really likes me. I told him I just think of him as a friend. He calls all the damn time and whenever i do pick up, he tells me, "Hey i was going to come over to your house today." Practically inviting himself over...i thought...wow..so i have no say in it at all
I told him i was stepping out and hung up.
But later on he called 8 times and the next day he showed up at my house, looking for me (so my brother tells me) while i wasn't home.
This has been going on for a week now.
The constant calling and coming over to see me and leaving me messages on the machine about wanting to "spend time with me" and "date me"
IT NEVER ENDS!!! I was wondering what anyone else thinks i can do. Anything that means he'll go away!!!
You know hopefully he is not the kind of guy that is really sensetive.. because I think you should just tell him to leave you alone.
really that's what i would do.
but say it nicley cuz you don't want him doing anything crazy. really people do crazy things to them selves when they can't have something or someone.
break it to him nicely and maybe just maybe you guys can hang out. you know as friends.
think about that.
hopefull my advice is worth wild.
xoxo
i'll pray.
ok. So I've been planning on asking this boy out tomorrow since last wednesday. i didn't because he was sick for wed, thurs, and fri. so i couldn'y. so i've been waiting for monday and yesterday, this boy i liked asked me out. And i said yes. But i want the other boy. and i dont really like the one who asked me out anymore. do i brake up with him now? or do i wait, ask the guy out, and if he says yes, break up with the other one? HELP!! oh and i had a dream last night that the guy i've been waiting to ask out asked me out, is that supposed to be a sign?
thanks i rate people who give good answers!!:)
Okay.. if your going out with someone already don't break up with him now then go out with someone else because that guy is gonna think your a durty hoe.. that moves from guy to guy .. really you don't want to be thought of that way
you should just go out with this dude for a while then maybe break up with him . .
but don't go running after this other dude. wait a while maybe talk to him and tell him that you really like him then he'll save you and turn down the other 'hot chick' that tries to get him
take my advice aite.
i pray for lots of people and your one of then. good luck.
xox soraya x3
-ByE.
16/f Okay, ive known this guy for like ever..he wants me to give him head..i I reallly wanna, but im kinda scared. Like i dk if I should or know. Hes never had it before..so can i still get anything?..plz help!! I rate ALL awnsers 5s!! ;) thx so much!
Umm. NO
Pls don't give anyone head until your out of school because it's nasty, taste like "shit" and I think you can get a sickness. a disease or something.
really don't Ok.
tell him maybe when you guys are like older but yeah don't. Giving someone head is nasty.. if you don't like foods that taste nasty in your mouth then you wouldn't deff want to give someone head.
lol
xox Soraya x3