ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!
-confused
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? chadilac answered Sunday July 17 2005, 12:44 am: i cant answer the thing about the period (being a guy and all) but just because he pulled it out right before he cummed, doesnt mean you NOT going to get preganate. im not saying that you are, but it's possible. because most cuzs, when they get..well..."get it up", or have a boner, they have alittle bit of sperm on the end of it. i dont mean to scare you, but that little bit could get you pregante. then alot of guys get cought up, an they might not notice it, but they might have 2 or 3 little ejaculations and not notice it. so, i donno what the point of me saying that was, ig uess i just fely like i should. [ chadilac's advice column | Ask chadilac A Question ]
tyedyeprincess answered Friday July 15 2005, 3:14 pm: You can still be pregnant and get your period. Its even common to spot around the time you get your period for a few months even if you are pregnant. Take another pregnancy test. Next time, use a condom if you are going to have sex or use abstinence:-) guys do expel sperm in with the "precum" before he has an orgasm. [ tyedyeprincess's advice column | Ask tyedyeprincess A Question ]
hErEtoheLp answered Friday July 15 2005, 5:08 am: Yes, if you start your period that will mean you're not pregnat. Also, if you don't start your period the day you're suppose to, don't freak out about it as much. Having sex may cause your period to become slightly irregular. And stressing over it won't help it come any faster as well. If you don't start on the day you're suppose to, then get another pregnacy test just to be safe. [ hErEtoheLp's advice column | Ask hErEtoheLp A Question ]
AskAndy answered Thursday July 14 2005, 5:54 pm: 1 period takes care of the whole pregnancy thing. I would be worrying about pregnancy though. Hiv, Aids, STDs would be what im worried about, because if you forget to use a condom, how would either of you know what you could possibly have? [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
sweet-pink-babie answered Thursday July 14 2005, 3:44 pm: Wow this is one of deepest stories and questions i've ever read.
I think.. you should get another pregnancy test girl, because you gotta be safe..
the first question that you ask is kind of confusing. but guess what.. Condums are safer to use but there acually not safe. because cundoms can get stuck inside of you with the sperm in it.
Courtney answered Thursday July 14 2005, 12:54 pm: It probably would be safe to take one pregnancy test now, and then one after your period, just to be for sure. I've heard of things like this, and I'm not meaning to scare you or anything, but I have heard of women being pregnant when they also had their period at the same time as well. My aunt for example. So , just to be sure , I recommend that you take one before and after the period. And although I don't think I have to tell you this , but next time use a condem or birth control, so you won't have to go through this anymore. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
mushoku answered Thursday July 14 2005, 12:49 pm: First, yes you can get pregnant even if you have your period. Some girls (rare) have their period the entire time they're pregnant.
Thing is, any time a guy capable of reproduction puts his penis in your vagina, even if he doesn't have an orgasm, he may (and if he's turned on, it's quite likely) have what's called pre-cum. There is semen in pre-cum, and it only takes 1 sperm cell reaching the egg. It's just extremely unlikely unless he remains in you for part of or the whole ejaculation (and even then it's only something like a 40% chance). [ mushoku's advice column | Ask mushoku A Question ]
dasweetness2603 answered Thursday July 14 2005, 12:28 pm: Hey.sup? Wow I really don't think that yu should fool around w. anyone without a condom> Its really not safe~ If I were you I would def. have taken the day after pill(which you can get @ any Plan Parenthood) the day right after you have sex. It's a little too late now so just incase maybe you should schedule an appointement @ your local gnecologists office for a *check up*. Definently Pee on the Strip today/tom and see what is says. If it turns out "positive" than thats a matter of if you want the child or not..but if its "negetive" than you could release a sigh of relief. I would still go to the gyno. though just for a check up to see if you contracted any diseases. Even though you've been w. your bf for a long time you never know what kind of diseases he had before he met you. Good luck w. everything and I hope it turns out ok. Xo [ dasweetness2603's advice column | Ask dasweetness2603 A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday July 14 2005, 12:21 pm: well i think from now on you should use a condum no matter what.. it is just to protect you... yes it took cover of both times... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
lilaquidas18 answered Thursday July 14 2005, 11:53 am: Well for now on you should use a condum. My cusion thought that she was not pregnant because she had her period for the first month but she was pregnant you can still get you period for the first month.Even if he still does use the"pull out" there could be a chance that there is one that slipped out.Just be careful.If you dont want a child then use a condum [ lilaquidas18's advice column | Ask lilaquidas18 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday July 14 2005, 11:42 am: yes the period takes care of the whole month..so if its definately negative your safe from both times
good luck!
-melissa- [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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