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well..were leaving for vacation at the beginning of feb and thats when my period is due...is there anything at all that i can to to make it delay like till at least later this month so i wont get it till later in feb? thanks (link)
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Lol. I honestly wish there was a way us girls could delay our periods but unfortunatly our period comes and goes whenever it pleases. You could just hope and pray it'll get a little delayed. Hope it works out ok. Xo>> P.s. you could always wear a tampon on vacation...think bout it.
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ok so theres this guy that sits behind me in all my classes and he always pulls my hair, and i was wearing a thong and he noticed it.. and kept pulling up my shirt, he hit my butt one day. and it seems like hes always flirting with me. i asked his friend who sits next to him why he always does that, he said " i think he might like you" i dont know if its true, hes cool and all , but he went through alot, his brother just died in september, and i donth think he could handle it, plus my bffl likes him too and they went out but he never liked her, he felt bad for her. im so confused
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Hey..sup? I think that you should go for this guy because even though he's been going through a lot lately, maybe he just wants you there 4 moral support. You can be his gf and still help him through w.e. challenges he encounters. As 4 your friend..(I know this sounds bitchy) but she had her chance. lol. Sometimes life just isn't fair..but hey he seems like a sweet guy so how often do you encounter guys w. good personalities? If you're still worried about your friend though, I'd talk to her and let her know the situation, I'm sure if you talk to her before you guys get together than @ least she won't be surprised. She can't control your life and you can't control the feelings you have 4 other ppl. Hope I helped. Xo>
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13/f Okay..for the girls you may know what I'm feeling here..
Well do any of you other girls ever really want a boyfriend? Well that's the way I'm feeling..I mean lately I just feel..ugly. I mean no guys at school like me and today a few guys asked me out but I know(at least I think) that they were kidding. And in a few weeks I will be going to Cedar Point with my friend for her birthday and she's bringing two of her guy friends. She's saying that me and her guy friends would make such "cute couples" but I don't know..With my luck, they probably won't like me.
I don't know..I guess I'm just really self-concious about this..When I look at other girls, they are so pretty and it makes me feel like I'm as ugly as dirt.
And all of my friends think I'm pretty but I don't. I think I'm fat and that I'm totally unattractive.
If you need to look, I'm about to go upload a picture of myself onto my advice column
Does anyone know why I'm feeling this way? I understand that it's probably hormones but..
Thanks in advance for any helpful advice. (link)
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Hey Sweety. O.M.G I honestly think that you might be going through some kind of depressional phase. Don't let the assholes in your school wear you down and make you feel like shit. I know exactly how your feeling though because I'm 16/F and I don't have a bf and sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong w. me too. Like am I not pretty enough or am I not thin enough?? I think that maybe if you had more confidence in yourself other people would have more confidence in you. There's a saying that goes something like "Everything happens for the best," and I've come to find that its true and really useful. Don't look onto your past and don't think about how people view you. As long as your happy with yourself, thats al that really truly matters. There's a sight called www.meetspot.com you could meet some really cool people. If you decide to join my sn is xobeachbabexo.. I-M me sometime so we could talk. I hope everything goes ok with your situation. Xo>
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I'm going to a party tomorrow night and I'm getting quite worried about it.
There's this guy going who I don't talk to that much...but I've been to parties with him there before. Twice. And both times I ended up getting with him under the influence of a substantial amount of alcohol.
And I seriously don't want to do it again, but I don't want it to stop me from having fun...and I just don't know if I want to go any more, but its my best friend's birthday!
I'm pretty damn certain he'll try it on again if he gets the chance, so my question is how can I try and make sure he doesn't try it on? And if worse comes to worse how can I get rid of him without making things awkward for the other people at the party?
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Hey, sup?? Well your situation is a little tight but I think I know what you should do. Try not drinking at the party because the more you drink the more you become influnced by the alchol, that way you can stay in control of yourself. If he tries to kiss you/ w.e. than you should just politely smile and hint that "I'm sorry but you were only a one time thing." Another idea would be go to you bff b-day party with a guy. That way when this other guy see's that you have a guy on you, he'll know to back off. If you can't do either than I would just try to stay clear of him all night and try to keep busy by talking to a variety of people. Don't let one guy ruin your entire night. Have fun and relax..I'm sure everything will go smoothly. Xo> Rate me!
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ok i dont really like wearing pads and tampons hurt and i cant get them in so wad do i do (link)
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Hey sweety.
Well I knoe exactly how you feel w. the whole pad situation because when I wear them I feel like im wearing diapers. lol. I think that the only reason the tampons are hurting you is because your not inserting them properly. If you read the labels on the tampon box it'll explain exactly how to get the tampon in w. out any pain. If this still doesn't work you might try to use extra slim tampons instead of the regular ones until your used to the feeling. Good Luck!! Xo>
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Ok So I Met This Amazing Guy And I Actually Dumped My Ex Because Of Him (not for... i knew it was over long before he just helped ease it along)... But The Problem Is He Has Become One Of My Best Friends And Him, Me And Our Friend Marty Have Become Inseperable... I Know He Likes Me As Much As I Like Him (he has told me and marty both) But He Told Marty The Only Reason He Hasnt Asked Me Out Is Because Of How Tight We All Are And He Dosent Want To Mess That Up... But He Still Tells Me He Likes Me and Does All The Little Things Like Scoring Points With My Family And My Other Friends... But Im Not Sure If He Will Ever Ask Me Out... I Guess The Question Is... Should I Keep Liking Him And Keep Hoping... Or Give Up And Just Be His Friend??
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Hey.sup?? Well I think the fact that you guys have a connection is already a step up from just liking each other. You guys have already become inseperable in your friendships which is really cool. I think maybe you should confront him about it and see what he says. If he tells you he really wants to be with you than you guys should just promise eachother you'll stay friends no matter what. If he tells you that he doesn't want to wreck the friendship than you should just move on because you don't want to walk around w. hope you want to walk around w. the guy next to you. lol. hope i helped. Xo. Rate me~~
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Today at cheer camp my coach wasnt there and one of the high school cheerleaders(theyre the instructors)told her that we was complaining and she told her we sucked and we wanted to change the cheer because we didnt want to do the tumbling in it and that we wanted to put stunts in there...but NO thats the biggest lie ever!...we were doing soo good and everyone WANTED the tumbling in there...and when our coach got the she started screaming at us and shes get ready for a hard practice at 3!!!!!...and now we're all mad and stuff bcuz we know shes gonna make us run till we puke..literally...what do we do???...plz help im sry its long!...i'll rate (link)
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Hey..> I would def. be really pissed if I were in your situation.lol. I think you should take a couple of the girls on the team w. you and confront the coach about the situation. You should say something like: "Excuse me coach but I don't know what that girl is talking about because we really enjoyed all the tumbling and things we had to do. I think that that girl should talk for herself and not for the rest of the team. She made all of that up, because we really did enjoy all the stunts and activities and time we dedicated into making up this dance." I'm sure once you confront the coach she'll be more leniant w. you and the other girls. For all you know she might kick that lieing bitch off the team. Xo> Goodluck. Rate me~~
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Alright, there's this kid that I've known for like more than a year. I met him when I went over one of my best friends house. He lives like next to her. So we would always go over and chill with him and his sister. We have sooo much fun. But the other night I decided to sleep over his house. So we stayed up all night and we kinda cuddled and he knows I like him a lot, but he won't tell me how he feels. Like from the other night I have a feeling he likes me, but I wanna know for sure. What should I do? I like really like him and I see him and talk to him a lot. Also I can be myself around him.
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Hey..> Well I think that you should tell him how uou feel. Once he knows that you like him, if he likes you maybe you 2 can hit it off and spend more time together..wink wink.lol. If he tells you that he was just flirting and didn't mean anything by it than it's his lose but @ least you won't be lead to believe things that aren't true. Xo> Hope I helped. Rate me~~
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Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much. (link)
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Hey..sup?? I think that you should bring up the topic of your boyfriend "Casually." I'm pretty sure that on most days your mom will ask you: "So honey how's everything going? or Anything new happen today?" During one of these instances you could just let her know that you met this really nice boy that you really care about and you 2 are going out. If your mom lets you have a boyfriend (depending on how old you are) than def. let her know that you have someone in your life. If she's really over-protective and doesn't want you to be going out with anyone than I would tell her you met this guy and you 2 are friends. That way your boyfriend can come over the house and you guys can "Play" in your room.lol. I hope I helped!! xo> Rate me~~
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i feel like my friends never want to hang out with me unless i call them. they never call me and always hang out but not with me. i feel like i don't have any friends right now and that nobody likes me. i want to tell them that i'm feeling left out and stuff but i'm not sure how to tell them without them getting pissed off or sumthing. idk... so can anyone help?? thnx. (link)
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Hey..sup?? Well even if your friends might get pissed off @ you if you confront them I would still do it. Confronting them about the situation might actually make them understand how your feeling and what your going through. If you never tell them about your problem than they'll never be able to help you and invite you places if they don't know that it's one of your concerns. If they get mad @ you when you tell them how you feel than their not really true friends. True friends would invite you places without even thinking about it twice..>it would be like a natural instinct to just pick up the phone and dial your #. So def. tell your friends how you feel and hopefully they'll understand and try to invite and call you more often. Don't forget that friendships work both ways and you have to call them as well. Hope everything turns out ok. Xo> Rate me~~
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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
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Hey..sup?? I think it depends on how old you are now but if you're really close to 15 than you should just tough it out and wait. If you're really far from 15 like 12/13 than I would confront her again and tell her that you really think you need them and it's just underwear. I know that you think that wearing thongs is cool and sexy but honestly it just gives you a permanent wedgy up your a**..lol. If you really want to get them confront her about your desires and if she still says no than just tough it out. DON'T HIDE IT BEHIND HER BACK because she can find out ne time by going through your closets. Thongs aren't really that important but if she says you can have 1 shop till you drop. I recomment Victoria Secrets> hehe!~ Xo> rate me!~~
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when's the earliest after having unprotected sex that you can take a pregnancy test and it will be accurate?
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Hey..sup?? If I were you I would wait a week and than take a pregnancy test, that way you know you waited a good amount of time. Usually the results are accurate after 3 or more days. Try buying more than 1 test(even though they can be pricey) to make sure that the answer you get it stable throughout different name brands. Xo> Hope everything turns out the way you wanted it 2. Rate me~~
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i know there has been a lot of questions like this so... i hope i'm not getting on your nerves! okay my birthday is in october and i'm turning 14, i have no idea what to do for my party b/c i can't have everyone over to my house or anything and what would we do anyway? i was thinking maybe w/all girls head to a spa or something, but i have a TON of guy friends. so please help! GOOD answers get 5's i'll report you if i have to! (link)
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Hey..sup?? Well when I turned 14 I had a really cute dance party. I rented out a small hall that was really cheap and invited all my friends (guys n grls) to come and have a ball. I had my own big Cd player which I bought to the party and I downloaded a lot of mixed songs onto Cds and played different songs all night so the songs just kept on running. (That saved me 500$ on a DJ.) I made my theme "Clubbing" so everyone came to the party in really comfortable jeans and a nice shirt that they were ready to dance in without struggling and being uncomfortable. I think that maybe if you have a cute hall where you live, you could rent it out for the night and have a blast w. you and all of your friends. You could also really be creative on decorations and have a lot of fun planning it out. For food you could just order pizza for everone and have a Carvel Cake..it could turn out to be a perfect 14th b-day 4 you. I hope I helped.Xo> Rate me!~
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ok well im 13/f and i still havent made out with a guy , like ive had the opertunitys (cant spell sorry) and ive wanted to but it just doesnt feel right and i feel that if i did make out with a guy that i would be known as a slut . everybody calls me prude to and i want to make out im just scared that the person i do make out with will think im a bad kisser . is this normal? should i make out? pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee help!!!!!
(will rate high for good answers)!!!!
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Hey Sweety..sup?? Well trust me it's totally normal to be freaked out when the topic of making out comes up. I think that you shouldn't force yourself to make out w. anyone until you think your ready for the challenge. Don't worry about the fact that people call you *prude* there just jealous because your not a *slut* and they are. When you think that the time is right and that you want to just grab the guy that your with and go for it..don't worry about being bad most guys won't pull away either way. It's also a proven fact that 99% of guys won't pull away if a girl tries to kiss them because they don't want to appear not manly enough.lol. I thought I was bad the 1st time I made out w. a guy but I got a lot of compliments so don't worry about it and just go w. the flow. Xo> Hope I helped! Rate me~~
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ok, well i really have liked this guy for 2 years, i think i love him. he knew, he hated me for it. lots of horrible stuff happened. now i'm going to a different school next year & i'm almost over him, which is good. i met a guy at this school who i really like [through the drama camp], & i really want him to know how i feel about him & how i can't stop thinking about him, but i don't want to tell him i like him, because he barely knows me. i don't want any of my friends to do it for me because i don't want to cause any tention between us. all the guys i've ever had feelings for have hated me in return & i don't want this to happen again. someone please give me some advice. i'll rate you for it if you want. (link)
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Hey Sweety..Sup? Well hey look on the bright side @ least you've moved on from the guy you liked before/ that's a start. O.k I think that you should try flirting w. him and talking to him before you let him know that you like him. The best way to get to a guy is becoming friends w. him first. If you're already friends w. him than you should ask him if he wants to hang out sometime> if you have a pool invite him to go swimming/ something casual; that will get his attention is really hood. Hang out w. him a couple of times and than just let him know how you feel once you've spent quality time together. If he rejects you there'll be plenty of fish in the sea so don't worry just go fishing.lol. If he likes you back than there you go..have fun and be safe wink wink..Hope I helped Xo> Rate me``
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ive had a girlfriend for a little over a week now we fooled around allot for 3 nights prior everything but sex and she was mad because i teased her with everything but sex (which i refused because i had a bad feeling about it) after she harrassed me about not giving her what she wanted and her telling me that its what she wants and "dont worry about my feeling ill stop if its not what i want" i desided to go through with it so after a wonderful night which she enjoyed and left with a smile shes mad at me because she said she wasnt really ready and i should have known that. im not saying i have no fault but i dont think she can really be that mad at me for it (link)
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Hey..Sup? Wow thats some really intense stuff I just hope that your both legal.lol. Well I think that (if you still want to be w. her and like her) you should call her up and buy her something cute like flowers and go over her house just to talk about the sitution. She might be feeling a little overwhelmed by you right now because you did just take her virginity so try to act caring and concerned w. w.e. she tells you. Maybe you should ask her what's wrong because it could possibly be that something else is on her mind and not just the sex thing. If she tells you that she forgives you 4 w.e. the problem was than you should refrain from having sex again (or make it REALLY romantic) until she's ready. If you don't want to see her again and you just want to stay friends you should go to her house and confront her and ask her what's wrong. Tell her that you really like her and all but she's just not the girl for you and that you 2 could still be friends. If you feel like being nice about it get her a cute bracelet or something to start your friendship on a healthy jump. Hope I helped. Xo> Rate me~~
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ok so my bf is hott...like if i wernt with him there would be a lot of girls swarming around him...anyways...my friend is always flirting with him and ive tlked to her about it but she keeps flirting...and the worst part is that she has a bf too! ive tried tlkin to him(cuz we hangout a lot and stuff) but hes like- as long as shes not hooking up wit him i ok wit it...ugh! major pain! anyway- so i was making out with my bf and she walks in, gets all pissed and storms out!!!! i cant believe her! i mean she has a bf! ugh- now she wont tlk to me (n.b.d) and shes being totally rude! what should i do??? need help!!!
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Hey Sweety..sup? Well it seems like your best friend is being a pain in the ass. lol. I think that she's just jealous that you have a *hott* bf and hers will never compare to yours. I think that you should explain to her that "Chicks go before Dicks" and if she's willing to sacrifice your friendship by flirting w. your bf than you don't wanna be friends w. her anymore. I think after making her feel guilty that she's flirting w. your bf she'll come running back to you and apologize. Your other option is maybe to take her to the movies, bowling, shopping, etc..and ask her what's wrong. Maybe she's not jealous/ or wants your bf maybe she just misses you and the quality time you guys used to spend together. If you spent more time w. her alone as friends you guys could build up your friendship again and she won't flirt w. your bf because she'll be too close to you to hurt your feelings. Hope I helped Xo> Rate me~~
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i shaved "down there" once before and i got red bumps were i shaved, does anyone know how i can prevent these bumps or any other advice to do it? i would greatly apreciate any answers, ill rate high, thanks (link)
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Hey Sup?? Well girls break out too when they shave in sensitive areas. A really good solution to your problem could be using Aloe Vera down there because it calms your skin and prevents break outs. Xo> Hoped I helped.. Rate me~~
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Okay, well there is this boy name andrew and at the end of the 6th grade i started to like him and at first he was cool about it and then he was really mean to me and said mean things to me and really broke my heart although i still liked him. In the 7th grade i went on and off liking him and we hung out a lot more and i was his best friend and he told me that somedays he liked me and other days he didnt and i just stopped like telling people that i liked him i mean if people asked i wouldnt lie about it but one day andrew asked if i still liked him and i said, "ya but i dont want to like you because whenever i like you, your always mean to me." and he was like "that was 1 time and i've changed" and he kisses me a lot and always ask for kisses and i just really like him and he always says these sweet things to me and i mean i really want to be with him but he says that some days he likes me and other days he doesnt and he really hurt me in the 6th grade and i dont even know if he wants a girlfriend and urghh now i just dont know.. somedays i think i'm over him but then when he signs online or calls me or i see him i just completly melt and idk .. should i just keep wasting my time on him or should i try to move on? idk what to do please help i need advice (link)
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Hey Sweety..Sup? Well I def. understand the situation that you're under. I think that you should confront him and ask him if he's serious about you or just (what it seems like to me) wants to be "friends w. benefits.* I know that it might seem really difficult to ask him how he feels about you because you might be a little shy but believe me it'll pay off in the end. If he tells you he really likes you and wants you as a Gf than go for it! On the other hand if he tells you he's not intrested in a serious relationship right now than you should just stay friends. If he tells you he just wants to be friends than try your hardest to keep your mind off of him by hanging out w. your friends, movies, etc...Maybe you could even go to some places where you could find really cute boys wherever you live and try to stop thinking about him. I hope everything turns out o.k. Xo> Rate me~~
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Okay well My problem is I like someone that is about 3 yrs older and i dunno what to do about this cuz my b-day is soon so i will be 16 and he is 18 now so this makes me only 15 and i heard it's jailbate, so should i still date him? I really like him a lot and he treats me so good...
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Hey Sweety..sup? Well I went through the same experience that you are going through right now. Honestly I think that once guys turn 18 all they want is sex and they have higher expectations in girls. I know that you think he treats you really well but any guy would treat a pretty girl well right?? Anyways the other thing to consider is if you guys decide to have sex and your parents find out somehow is he going to be going to jail?? I mean if you ask your parents if you could date him and they agree to the whole thing than date him..I mean you have nothing to lose. But if your parents tell you that you shouldn't go out w. him than DON'T because he'll wind up in prison sooner or later> Hope I helped xo> Rate me~~
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