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Mom
Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much.
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Just sit your mom down and talk to her. Like girl talk. And just bring it up..i know it might seem kinda scary but it might work.
Katina*
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Wow... This is the first time I seen one of these questions. I completely understand where your coming from. I had to hide quite a few relationships from my mom. You should sit down and tell her that your dating, and let her know that you do have a boyfriend. Because, I learned if you hide it, and they find out.. You'll be in deep shit... BEEN THERE DONE THAT!! I was grounded for a long time.. I wasn't allowed to go out much at all. So my advice to you, is to straight up tell her, and let her know!! She shouldn't be pissed off at you for being honest. Being honest is better than lying.
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Sit your mom down and while your talking be like. Mom how do you feel about me having a boyfriend. And she will give you her opinion and she'll be like why and you can say like well a few weeks ago ( or whenever it happend) so and so asked me out and I said yeah. I really like him mom and it's iumportant to me that you respect our relationship. All mom's are going to be nice if you stay calm and not raise your voice even if you disagree. Hopefully she'll be happy for you. Maybe tell her you'll invite the guy over for dinner so they can meet him. Good luck sorry this isn't the worlds greatest advice.
Kelli
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i think you should be straigh and forward with her! she should understand as your getting older you should have boyfriends. So may be just sit her down and tell her.
roxie
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i think that you should just go up to her and just say it. once you say it you will be glad you did because you know that she knows. maybe you can say something like:" mom, i just wanted to let you know that i am getting older now and i do have a boyfriend and i really like him and he really likes me." something like that. she is your mom, she will understand, believe me.
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brunettecutie**
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Try to bring it into the conversation casually. Ask her when her and your dad started dating and then ask her about her first boyfriend etc. Then maybe u can try to slip it into there...having her look back at when she had her first boyfriend will make her more open to u having one. Hope it helps!
Gaby
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Hey..sup?? I think that you should bring up the topic of your boyfriend "Casually." I'm pretty sure that on most days your mom will ask you: "So honey how's everything going? or Anything new happen today?" During one of these instances you could just let her know that you met this really nice boy that you really care about and you 2 are going out. If your mom lets you have a boyfriend (depending on how old you are) than def. let her know that you have someone in your life. If she's really over-protective and doesn't want you to be going out with anyone than I would tell her you met this guy and you 2 are friends. That way your boyfriend can come over the house and you guys can "Play" in your room.lol. I hope I helped!! xo> Rate me~~
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just sit down with her and tell her you wanna talk about something..then tell her theres a guy that you like that you started seeing..idk any other way than to just tell her! if she gets mad or upset just tell her you really like him and he really likes you so you thought youd give it a try. hope i helped!
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Good question, I have the same problem. Hmm, I think you should tell her very carefully. Oo ya, does your mom allow you to have a boyfriend? If she does, it's not going to be that hard to tell her about your boyfriend. But if she doesn't, you should wait for the best time, so she won't get mad at you. And, one more thing.. Congratulations!! Is your boyfriend nice? Hope I helped!!
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