I dyed my hair a red brown color. It came out darker than I expected. I've tried lemon juice on my hair. It lightened it a little, but I didn't go out in the sun. Could you give me some suggestions of ways to lighten it without dying it again?
spray sun in..in your hair and blow dry it. It isnt like dying it and it wont damage your hair. It works great. hope i helped!
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K so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out about 4 weeks and the thing is... he is really commited and i am not. and i think he likes me more than i like him.. what should i do?
let him know before things get any farther. it will hurt him more if its farther in the relationship and his feelings are even stronger than they are now. It will hurt him but not as much if you wait. He needs to be aware of your feelings because you dont want him to put alot into the relationship that you arent ready for. Just let him know and if hes the guy for you he will understand :]
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15/f sometimes once i start to like a guy i think i become to attached to them. like i will want to talk to them all the time and i'll find stupid excuses just to be near them. and i feel like if he talks to another girls then i have to talk to him too. i know this might seem stupid but its true. so what can i do to become less obsessive?
what might be the problem is your confidence in yourself is coming from whether a guy likes you or not. If you do this your confidence will always be let down because guys arent always going to please you. Try to let what gives you confidence in yourself not be what other guys...or just people in general think of you but what you know about yourself. It makes it easier so you dont have to be so dependent on what guys do. If they like you and want to be with you alot then cool..if they dont then theyre not for you. The guy for you will want to always spend time with you and you wont have to beg for attention from him. I hope I helped.
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can u please give me some ideas and topics for me and my boyfriend to talk about we seem to have a communication problem and it is destroying our relationship. we love each other so much though. i am a 26 year old female and my boyfriend is 30
ok this is what i always do when i am trying to get to know a person better..it sounds dumb but its so much fun and you get to know so many things about them. Play 20 questions!...but dont just leave it to twenty questions..ask them anythign random questions..deep quesdtions..flirtatious type questions...its a conversations starter and you learn alot about the person. Thats just to start but once you know those little random facts about each other it can lead into more of a conversation and just make it easier to communicate with each other because you have more to talk about. i know it sounds weird but it helps alot!
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my friend is being really distant right now. do you think it is just a stage (weve been friends most our lives) and we just need some time apart or is it something else. what should i do.
Friends grow apart its normal. You cant force a friendship but you still have to put effort into it if you want it to last. Try hanging out with other people too but put an effort in to trying to spend more time with your friend if she tries to too. If things just keep staying the way they are yall may just be growing apart. it happens, but you just have to move on.
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is there any way to make my hair grown longer faster?
keeping your hair healthier in general will make it grow faster. If your hair is dead its going to grow really really slow so doing all those things...getting it trimmed..not straightening as much..conditioning..not using hair ties with metal things (so it doesnt rip your hair..and stuff like that keeps your hair healthier so it will grow faster than if it was damaged and dead.
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i sweat A LOT under the arms. what can i do to pervent this?
make sure your using an antiperspirant and not just a plain deodorant..deodorant doesnt keep you from sweating and antiperspirant does. Ok and this may sound really weird but toothpaste is really good to keep from sweating and its not as unhealthy as antiperspirant. i know that sounds super weird but it works haha. but either a good antiperspirant or toothpaste should lessen your sweating.
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I don't know, I've just been thinking about this alot lately. Okay, you know how people always say that to go to Heaven you have to believe in God and be religious and such? Well, what about a person who is kind and selfless and is just a good person in general and is an athiest? Does that mean that they wouldn't go to Heaven even though they were a good person who did good for other people? Because if you think about it, not every person who is religious is good. Like the terrorists who flew the plane into the World Trade Center, causing the deaths of all those innocent people. They claimed that they were doing that for God and their religion. I mean, wouldn't it seem wrong for a person just to go to Heaven because they were religious even if they weren't a good person, and a person who was a really good person not going to Heaven because they weren't religious? I was just thinking about this and wondering if anybody had some answers, perhaps?
ok you already have alot of answers for this one but i wanted to tell you what i know. Going to heaven or hell is NOT about how "religious" you are. Religious is just doing all the right deeds..which in itself isnt a bad thing..but it doesnt get you to heaven. Its also not so much as believing IN God but believing God. If you think about it really..the devil believes in God..he knows he exists..but hes definitely not going to heaven. Thats because he doesnt have faith in God and he doesnt follow him. To know you are going to heaven you need to accept that you arent perfect and that you need Jesus in your life. Going to church being nice to people and just those things that ARE really good things..they jsut dont get you into heaven. Heaven wouldnt be as great if we could work are way to it. It is a gift and we have to accept it. Religion has nothing to do with it, its the choice that you make in your heart, and hopefully the choice you make will affect your deeds but either way the things that you do wont get you into heaven. Only Jesus can.
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my friend is so desperate. she will take any guy, even the most perverted ones! She is one of my really good freinds and I just don't know what to do. Even outsiders tell me she acts and looks desperate. WHat should I do? Should I talk to her? Or leave it alone? Please help! Thanks
tell your friend this but in the nicest way possible. most likely the reason she acts so desperate and will take any guy is because her self esteem isnt very high. So to help her build her up. Give her compliments and tell her why she deserves better than the guys she has been settling for. You have to be careful on how you phrase all of this to her because you dont want to hurt her, but the best thing is to just tell her the truth. What your friend needs most right now is for you to build her up so she can realize for herself that she deserves guys that are better.
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One of my best friends, who I've known since we were toddlers, is starting to really get on my nerves. She tries to be like the popular people ALL the time. She doesn't buy clothes from the "it" stores, but she tries to act like her clothes are the best... like, she rolls up her sweatpants like everyone else does (which I hate, but that doesn't really matter) and tries to make her hair have that bump on the bottom when she wears a ponytail. But... it comes off looking reaaaaally bad on her. Then, when she's talking to people, you can tell that she thinks that she's better than them, even when she's obviously not. And she always ditches me for her other friends just so she can be "popular"... like, my other best friend waits for me at the end of all of the classes we have together, but this friend just walks out the door talking to a different person every class. It really ticks me off. Although, when we're alone, she acts like she always used to. I think its great that my friend wants to try and be... cooler... but she's really hurting her other friends feelings, since I know she ditches my other best friend (we're a trio) all the time. And the thing is... her new friends are almost all geeky and nerdy. What should I do??? I don't want to seem like I'm telling her what to do.
my advice for you on this one is to just let your friend try to do the whole "popular" thing, dont really tell her what to do just let her experience it for herself. If she ever needs you be there for her and if she asks you how she looks tell her honestly. Most likely she'll realize that its not worth trying to be popular when she has a bestfriend that she loves and that will stick by her no matter what. It may take some patience with her but i think its something that your friend has to learn for herself, that being popular isnt everything and actually having 2 close best friends is way better than having all the aquaintences in the world.
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so I have this friend that well lets just call her "gaby" and I feel the only reason we are friends is because she wants to borrow my brittany spears/nsync dance instruction tape. She just cant accept it that I am their number one fan and not her. What should I do?
well for starts i think that this gaby girl loves you more that peppermint kisses. I'm sure you are their number one fan because you seem like the type of person that would believe in "aliens" and what not. im sure your friendship with her will get better and better as you teach her their cool moves. hahahahaha i love you leighton!!!
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hey guys(:
I got a haircut like, last year and loved it. But the problem is everyone copied me. Maybe they didn't exactly copy me, but whatever they did EVERYONE has it. So my point is i want a new haircut. Right now i have medium length, angled and layered hair with thick side bangs. What can I do to it to make it, err, unique?
You can go with a different color..or a cute new style is not side bangs but just straight ones. it looks really cute on certain face shapes and not that many people have regular bangs. dont do them to thick though. wearing it in different styles can make it more interesting too..dont just stick with straight..but curly wavy scrunched..some pieces curled..or whatever else that comes to your mind.
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ok this question might seem a bit weird. when i do my hair in the morning, i usually straighten it & wear it down. basically, by like 11 i have to put it up. it annoys me so much. i just can't write and have it down because my hair is thick and i have a lot of it. i put it up in one of those cute little messy buns but i dont know. for some reason i think its prettier to wear it down & if i wear it up i feel boyish. im basically just wondering what your opinion is. should girls just wear their hair down all the time?? or is it pretty to wear it up too??
thanks!!
wearing it just up or just down gets boring. Change it up so you have a bit of a different look everyday. maybe even half up half down or just your bangs pinned back. Wearing your hair down is probably the most classy and it is cute but do what looks best on you not what other girls do. If you wear it the same everyday people expect to see the same thing..suprise them and youll feel more..fashionable i guess haha..if you have more than one style.
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16-f
ive always been unhappy about my nose. i think its kinda big and i dont know! i know i have to live with it but its something ive always been self-conscious about. and it made me even MORE tonight. you see there is this adorable kid and hes really sweet and hes always thought i was hott my cousin said. but then tonight he came up somehow and my cousin was like he said you werent so hott anymore and because you had a jacked up nose or something. this made me feel really bad about myself because i thought people were getting past seeing my nose. everyone thinks im soo pretty but i just cant get over my nose and sometimes i just think im overreacting but then when people start saying stuff i know its true. i just dont know what to doo.. =(
Everyone has flaws. we just have to learn how to get past them and flaunt the things we do have. First of all you shouldnt settle for a guy thats shallow and just cares about looks. The guy for you will love everything about you starting with your heart. Next i know its hard but we cant get what we think of ourselves based on what other people say. If we did our self confidence would never be solid and would just change from day to day. Learn to love everything about yourself by focusing on your good things and not comparing yourself to other people. I know you can do it and youll feel so much better when you dont have to worry about what people say because you know you are beautiful!
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What are the best products to scrunch your hair with? I have sorta wavy hair and its thick. thankss :]
i use herbal essence gel. it holds it sooOOOO well and smells really really good.
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I don't exactly know how to shape my eyebrows. Should I tweeze or do the whole cut thing with the eyebrow razor thing? Either way how should I do it?
if you dont mind spending a couple bucks its best to jsut go get your eyebrows waxed by someone else. If not tweezing is the best because cutting jsut makes it grow back faster. your eyebrows should start about where the small part of you eye begins and end at an angle at the end of your eye. dont pluck on the top of your brows that just makes them have no curve which looks weird. sick to the bottom. If you go get your brows done once then you can just pluck the hair that grows back as it comes and so you dont have to worry about shaping them just plucking the hairs that grow outside of what was there when you got them done. hope it helped!
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I really want soft beachy hair like Hollister Co. models. I really don't want to load tons of gel or other products in my hair and give it that "hard, crunchy" feel. I don't mind using some hair products in moderation to achieve the look. I have mid-back, thick, straight/lots of volume hair. Any ideas on how to get the style?
i use this garnier fructis product called surf hair. its exactly what youre going for and doesnt make your hair really crunchy and hard. this may sound weird but getting like a spray bottle with salt water and just spraying it in your damp hair will give the effect of just coming from the beach. either one works!
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Do you think pink or black dye would look better on the tips of a medium brown hair color?
probably pink. black will barely show up. pink will stand out alot more and just has more personality to it.
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Right so i know a few people who were their jeans low and then their boxers show..do girls get put off/ turned on by this ? or does it dpend on the person ?
For the most part its just the norm and most girls like it. Not in excess though dont wear your pants so low you have to hold them up just enough showing and as far as what i think its hott haha..hope i helped!
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i was wondering what is THE BEST hair straightener you have used. i dont care about prices i just want a really good quality hair straightener=].
Chi's are the best hair straightener you can have. thats what hairdresers use to so you know its good quality. IT doesnt damageyour hair as much and it heats up in 10 seconds so no waiting. Ive had mine for about 3 years now and i love it i dont knwo what i would do without it. You can buy them from anywhere from HEB to a hairsalon place. they range from about 90-100 dollars. Buying it from a hairdresser may give you a discount.
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