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13/f this is gonna be long. in the past two years i've had three really intense sex dreams where i wake up and i'm really sweaty and kind of shakey and i feel all tingly and stuff. the weird thing is that about a month after i have these dreams i have another dream where i will be in the delivery room at a hospital having the baby. one time i even woke up with cramps in my abdomen. this has happened for the first two times but i only had the last dream like two weeks ago. Are these dreams just a weird...really really weird coincidence or could they mean something?

K.A.

uhmm..Its not totally wierd? this is gonna sound wierd..but how much have u done with a guy if u dont my me asking? maybe your friends have done more and you really wanna catch up to them i dont know the whole situation so im guessing but trying really hard.. i cant say ive had intense sex dreams.. but ive heard of some1 who did and they had them because they felt they didnt do enough with a guy..

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ok i love this guy. no seriously i do. i dream about being with him practically every night & he's like perfect for me. he's funny, smart, and cute. he's hilarious and cracks me up all the time. but we're not really friends. and right now he has a girlfriend. everyone suspected i liked him but i wouldn't admit it...but no offense but it was soooo obvious i did, i bet even he knew about it. but he asked out this girl anyway. there was a time i thought he might've liked me too because he flirted a lot & all with me. but i flirted back...did i mess up somehow??? i'm crazy for him and i don't know how i'm going to go back to school & see him with that girl. i love him so much i just don't know what to do anymore. i can't move on, i've tried so many times. nobody can be as funny as him...i love guys that can make me laugh. omg please help, i just don't know what to do anymore./

i had the same problem! wow did i ever.. i was in love with this kid bryce and i thought he liked me too come to find out he was just a flirt! but thats him! and i hated seeing him with all these other girls and this went on for a lil over a yr! im over him now and we arent even friends because i bitched about it..so dont do that! atleast be his friend ya know what i mean? i couldnt move on til a yr and some lata but i did move on and so will you keep ya head up and beleive in ur self something i didnt do..and maybe he'll fall for you eventually if not then dont get too dissappointed because if he lead you on flirted with you..he noticed you!!just because hes going out with somebody else doesnt mean you ran outta chances

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Me and my friend both have questions:

My question: I just started going out with this guy that I have been with on and off before. We haven't seen each other all summer so we talk on the phone alot. Anyways, I don't know what to talk to him about! We both end up asking the other person what they wanna talk about and saying I don't know. Or we end up talking about "us" or something. Any ideas? I don't wanna seem boring.

My friends question: My dad is racist, and the problem is I like a guy who is partially black. When we're talking on the phone my dad always interrupts me and asks why we are talking. It's really getting on my nerves and I don't think my dad can get over this. What should I do?

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Your question's answer: Just talk about what you guys have in common honestly I just broke up with somebody today that ive been on and off with all summer.. and we never hung out and i got really mad! we talked about what we had in common and basically we laughed alot in the beginning we asked eahcother and we always said no to so its normal for summer relationships to have that problem.

Your Friends Questions Answer : if your dad is racist thats his problem not yours..dont let your dad make you think black people arent okay because they are, if ur okay with black people then keep being close with them and if he asks again why you guys are talking tlel him the truth.. because you like him!

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I got less than a week before tryouts. How do I let my team-mates know that I'm not doing my sports in the fall season. I don't want to get made fun of or yelled at or anything by them. Is there anything I can do other than just not showing up. Everyone keeps asking me to go and work out with them, but I always come up with excuses. What should I do

15/m


hey just go to tryouts and explain that you arent doing that.. tell them the truth even if they get mad they'll get over it eventually, atleast you wont have to come up with all different excuses.

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I know people who have been playing the "choking game." Not by themselves though, I know you can die easily that way. What they do is kneel down, and put their head on the ground and take deep breaths. They get up, take a deep breath and hold it, then a friend puts their arm around their neck and chokes until they pass out. Is this really all that dangerous? I've read that people have been doing this since the 1980's, and the only reason its a big deal now is because kids are doing it by themselves and arent letting go of the choke before they pass out. If a friend is doing it and knows when to let go, is it dangerous?

yeah its still pretty dangerous, would if they arent thinking and get distracted? and they are still holding your neck.. it could still be wicked dangerous! BE CAREFUL



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ok..well...my friend who i have known(he is a guy0 since before kindergarten is going out with this girl who every1 totally hates because she is like sluttish and whoreish. a lot of girls like him and he said no to all of them..except he was leading one girl on..and then he just suddenly goes out with the other girl..now everyone is mad at him bc of that..and he has been lying a lot recently. the girl who got lead on is so depressed. i dont know whether to agree with her or my guy friend. and im somehow in the middle of this. please help me sorry this is so long

torn in 2

hey..id talk to him about it dont completely cut him off from your life though, agree with her in some way of being depressed but dont trash talk him because u must care about him as a friend right. he couldve done it for a reason so just talk to him about it then talk to her about it, dont cut either of them from your life though.

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