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sluttish
ok..well...my friend who i have known(he is a guy0 since before kindergarten is going out with this girl who every1 totally hates because she is like sluttish and whoreish. a lot of girls like him and he said no to all of them..except he was leading one girl on..and then he just suddenly goes out with the other girl..now everyone is mad at him bc of that..and he has been lying a lot recently. the girl who got lead on is so depressed. i dont know whether to agree with her or my guy friend. and im somehow in the middle of this. please help me sorry this is so long
torn in 2
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Dear Torn in 2, ok if people call a girl a slut or whore they might not like her for some reason. Your guy friend doesn't seem to be right and if you talk to him and get his side maybe there'a reason why. Break ups are always hard so if this girl is going through a depression don't stop her let her cry and spill her guts out. She'll gt over it eventually.
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u should TOTALLY side with the girl. what he did to her was WRONG. i personally wouldnt want to hang out with that kinda person. im sorry to say but i think u should ditch the guy.
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You should tell your guy friend that he really hurt her, and that he shouldn't lead girls on and then suddenly change his mind because he needs to realize how the first girl felt about him. Tell the girl that she shouldn't be so quick to give up her heart or many more heart breaks will follow her way. Tell her to express her feelings in poetry or writing short storys.
WiseWordz
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it's probably time to back off your friend. Just remember to give him his space to run around with the slut and not say a word. real, true friends are around forever and he'll be back.... boyfriends/girlfriends come and go.
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what you should do is talk to your guy about this and ask him if this one girl is worth what he is doing to everyone else?? talk to him and see if you can maybe make a point to him. try not to be rude while talking to him because then you might ruin your friendship wit him so just explain to him what he is doing and what is happening around him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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hey..id talk to him about it dont completely cut him off from your life though, agree with her in some way of being depressed but dont trash talk him because u must care about him as a friend right. he couldve done it for a reason so just talk to him about it then talk to her about it, dont cut either of them from your life though.
hope i helped<33
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