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hey am lesty from massachussettes.i love talking to people and getting to know them.ihave short black hair with big hershey kisses brown eyes.am 5'2 and lovin it.lets say i love to have lots of fun unlimited.i dont smoke ,drink or do drugs.but the rest am there.the reason i dont smoke is cause i play sports and it kinda slows me down.

advice

about last week me, my cousin,my best friend, and my boyfriend all went to the mall and the movies together. i never knew until my cousin told me that he liked my best friend. and i talked to my best friend about it at the time and everything she told me was basically i like your cousin and i will go out with him. well my cousin never got enough courage to ask her out . he was going to this weekend but things happened and no one could leave the house. he has wanted to call her and do it but he doesnt want to do it on the phone.

my best friend;
she has beening talking to a guy that she has meet online for about 2 yars now. he has came down here once and seen her he shock her hand and left. i thought that was the most stupidest thing he could have done. after that day she stopped talking to him (he lives about 3 hours away from where we live) well just recently she started talking t him again. and now ever time she calls she goes i love bryan i love bryan and it bothers the hell out of me.

the problem;
my cousin likes her a lot and she doesnt care anymore all she wants is bryan. it hurts knowing ur cuz has fell so hard over a girl an the girl doesnt like him back. and my boyfriend knew it was bothering me and had a talk to my friend with me on the phone to now she wont talk to me or nothing. i dont know what to do. she wont get over the guy that will probably never see again. can someone help me out please.

uhhm so i think all this is none of your bizz. so yo friend will probably get over bryan, but untill she does, stay out of it. if she liked yo cuz once then she will or might like him again if he asks her out.so he needs to be brave and do it.also stop thinking about it and gwt on wit yo life

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last year i was like the outcast and this guy Jared liked me and he asked me out i didnt know why the heck he liked me but it soon became love he loved me. and i loved him back the realtionship lasted for 10 1/2 months and i felt like we were good and that we were gonna be together for a while longer then we were and now he ignores me and tells his stupid friends things about me and half the time i cant have a regular conversation with him.. i sed about 3 months ago that i'd changed things for him becuz i love him and he completely blew me off. and when his friends are not in school he will talk to me like he would when we were together and i dont know what to do!! should i let him go and ignore him or tell him one more time how i feel??

thanks and sryy its so long

i think it has something to do with his friends, try to get him to talk about all this. i mean i tthink this relationship has been over for a while and if you talk to him and he doesnt love you. even though he does,why did he choose his friends over you. so i uess its time you start to wrap things up.

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I'm 24 years old, going on 25 and I've never had a boyfriend, I've been on dates, if you want to call taking me to McDonald's as a date...anyway, everytime I see my friends or even relatives smooching or cuddling with their significant other it puts me down, it's like a slap in the face. I've never even experienced my first kiss yet. Everyone knows how I feel and everytime they say again and again "Don't worry, you're turn will come", I am so fed up with hearing that! Any advice you can give me?

just wait , um sure the perfect someone for oyu will come a long finally. dont try to push it all together when the time is right and you meet him, you should know.

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Hi,
I’m 25 years old female. I come from Arab Muslim country. I’m suffering from family violence and I’m planning to run away from this hell..Do you think Human Rights Agencies in other countries, Canada for example, will be able to help me in any way?

Thanks.

yes but you can also get help from agencies in the US too. contact the police or look them up on libe am sure lots of them will be able to help you

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I get extremely nervous about everything. like if i was trying out for a team in school, i get extremely nervous and i can hardly focus. or even something stupid like going to a teacher for extra help. sometimes im so nervous about something that I cry about it and cant gain control. it makes me sick, literally, like if i was about to do something nerve racking. what should i do?

try not to think of whatever you are doin that makes you nervous as a big deal. so u go for extra help...everyone oes it so dont be afrraid. i think that you areshy inside and ujust dont admitt it. also try breathing exercises when you do stuff thatmakes you nevrvous.

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i am soo confused about this one guy. me and him went out and now we are just friends. he keeps on seeming to flirt w/ me but when i flirt back he doesn't like it! i Don't get it, i am really confused. Can anyone help me and tell em wahts going on. My best friends mom said that he is immature and if he was older he would be able to tell that i like him back, but i don't know if i do. I mean i WANT to be friends w/ him but i want to be able to flirt w/ him too. You know? but i dont get why he does that? any answerS?

o think he just like flirting period. he might not think about what hes doin so he might not know hes leading you on. if you flirt back and he doesnt like it.then he just doesnt lie u

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There's this girl that keeps calling me her best friend and she constantly clings to me. She's an ok person and I think of her as a friend who'll I talk to once in a while, but in no way do I consider her to be my best friend. She's a nice person and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but how do I get her to leave me alone?

she probably needssome friends and doesnt have any.talk to her more maybe you guys might havve stuff in common and might end up being good freinds or maybe best freinds.

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Theres this guy I've had my eye on for awhile and we hungout this weekend . My friends say that he likes me because of the way he acts when hes around me, but hes been known to be a "player" (That hes gotten with alot of girls, not that he cheats or anything) Well, I cant stop thinking about him. I really want to go out with him but he wont make the first move and neither will I. My friend says he could make him ask me out, but if we did go out I would only see him every other weekend since his parents are divorced and he lives in a different town. I dont know wether to wait untill the chance is right and ask him out, wait for him to do something or to not even bother since it'd be a distant relationship (sorrta) Any advice from either gender would be great, thanks. f/14

y do you care what other think. if he like you and you like him..well that all that matters.be spontaneous and just ask him out and see what happens.u will never know if you dont ask.

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hey well me and my ex boy friend had been going out 4 months well he desides he wants to take a break and get back to gather april 13 when he can drive but we have been having some problems since we broke up do u think there is any chance of us ever getting back to gather?

i think the relationship is getting to intense for him and he needs time to re-adjust
so talk to him, about how you feel abou all this and ask him whats really going on wit him

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16/f
alrighty so this guy likes me, i like him, i told him that i did and he started acting differently *like not talking to me as much* like we've hung out, gone on a "date", talked on the phone, but lately, he hasn't been the same. like whenever i hug him he just stands/sits there, he doesn't really answer me when i talk to him or he'll just start talking to his other friends, he told me he wanted to go out this weekend and that he'd call but he never did. and i'm still worried that it's all because i told him that i like him. i really don't know what to do because i really care for him and don't want to lose him, but i'm scared that i already have. can anyone please give me advice on what to do?!

maybe he has a severe case of shyness and doesnt know what to do.like he likes you but doesny know how to act around you. you show him that you like him way too much thanhe does you.so do this.try ignoring him for a few days.even though yourdying for his attention just brush him off for 2 or 3 days.dont show him that you care way too much .also just outright ask him why he leads you on.does he yu or does he not.

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I'm 13 and a half
I reely like this guy and im pretty sure he might like me to, but he also might like another girl i just CANT STAND! how do i tell if he likes me and what can i say to him to get him to like me?

x0x Lo

does he show anysigns that he might like you.likre smile at you,talks to you alot.or does he d o that with the other girl.if he might like you.show him your interested,smile at him,tease him and even flrit with him,

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14/ f
ok. so in seventh grade, this guy started coming to our school and everybody was mean to him but me so we became friends. then he left and came back now, our ninth grade year and now he's really popular or w/e with everybody. All of the girls love him, including me (just as a friend now) and he used to say I was his best friend but now he only talks to me in like one class or if he thinks im mad at him. The thing is I liked him in seventh grade and he acted like he liked me but said we should just be friends then and now he's leading another girl on which he said he would never like and it's like watching another me get hurt and he should stop! what should I do. 1)to get him to stop ignoring me 2) to stop leading this girl on
*answer by tonight around 4:30 thanks

power is gettin to his head. he thinks hanging out with you is like so below him.have you tried to talk to him and tell him how you feel. do that.maybe he thinks that you dont want to be his friend anymore.

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all my "friends" turned their backs on me... what are some healthy ways that i can get over them and move on. I am shy so how can i make new friends?

talk to new people,meet new people,are there any people you want to hang out with that arent your old friends.do you feel like you want to be friends with anyone now.also exhibit your chances.you never know,your new friends might be better that the old ones.spirituality.find out what you want for yorself.also what happened bettween your old friends.have you guys talked to eachother.apologize if you were in rog and you might get back together.

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I know this is a dumb question but how do you stunt your growth? I don't want to get taller so how can I stop it, My mom is 5'5 and my dad is 5'7, so how can i stop it.

just love your height if you cant change it.

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well i went out with this guy for 16mths and we broke up coz he cheated on me with alot of my mates i know its bad but were been broken up now for 6 mths and out of the blue i get this email i wana be mates and i still like you and all the rest of it i realy want to be mates but i know i love him to much to just be mates but i dont want to get back to gether with him coz i know ill only get hert agian and yet i also want to be mates im so confused i know i shouldnt go back but it realy herts deep down i dont know what to do please just help me i realy carnt deal with this on my own

whatdo you really want from him.is it close attachment

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I need some help from you woman only please. Some nights may husband is in the mood and we could go for a long time and other nights he just pushes me away and tells me that he's not in the mood. But when he's in the mood I better be. On fridays nights he'll stay out until 2:00am and that. I have asked him he's cheating and he tells me no.Should I believe him that he's not
cheating on me and let it go.
Hope someone can help.

where is he then if hes not cheating.if he loves you and you let him do you whenever he wants and when you want ift he isnt in the mood.well thats not fair.so talk to him about it.tell him how you feel.and if he loves you he should understand and you guys could compromise.remeber a relation consists of 2 people.also about the cheating stuff.does he give you any reasons that he is.like does he smell like other women or sex.s he grumpy and mad at you when he comes home.talk to him about all of this.what is he doing all that time.approach him calmly and dont shout at him cause men get defensive when they have a comfrotation.be calm and make sure you put your poits acroos.and if you believe he is cheating on you.when you guys have sex.make sure you use protection.
yours letterG

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ok my boyfriend is about 20 and i'm about 16 and my supposelly home girl is telling him that im messing around on him with his best friend but im not and i guess he's believing this because he doesn't want to talk to me or his friend honestly i'm not the type to be doing something that bad and i don't want to break up with him because i liked him for three years and i dont wanna hurt him in ne ways

communication is te best thing in a relationship.talk to him .and if he loves you like you loved him ,he should trust you and believew you.and as for this home girl.shit her.maybe shes jealious of what you guys have.and she likes him too.

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Ok, well... my best friend is a guy, and his name is Chris. He's really awesome, and we're really close. I've always thought of him as a brother to me. But lately everyone has been asking me, "Are you two going out?" and "Do you like him?" and everytime my answer is "no." but lately I've been thinking, and I feel weird whenever I talk to him now. Whenever he comforts me about stuff, I just feel... really really happy. Rediculously happy. Almost..fuzzy inside? I don't know, but I keep thinking that I'm starting to have feelings for him. But we're just friends.. friend's arent supposed to crush on eachother. But I can't help myself.

SO MY QUESTION IS: Am I in love with him? and if I do why do I feel so uncomfortable?

Signed..
JUST FRiENDS

i know your pain girl.does chris showany idea that he may like you too.i think you should make ysure he likes you back before you do anything about those feelings.if you guys are raeally close and all. and i he doesnt like you back.that may ruin your relationship.

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okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there



its not like i want to i do but its like this urge that wont go away its all i cant think about. and watching my niece doesnt help it makes me want 1 of my own more.


i know i am emotional stable and if i did get pregnant my family would help me support this child but i know its not how i was raised and there arent alot of teen pregnancies in my more upscale neighborhood but i feel like i cant live without having a child

i also do babysit and work with children

its just a stage you will get over it. try baby sittin it will give you all the child caring you want.babies are cute and all. but taking care of them is not easy at all.trust me am 15 and i have a 2 month old sister.

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my sister is such a fucking bitch, shesthe same age as me and she always finds a way to critisize me. about everything. literally. after it haappened. it makes me want to strangle her to death. i picture myself tying her to a chair and beating the shit outta her. i cant live with her anymore. she calls me fat, ugly, gay(im not), she makes fun of me because i have ADD(which i dont) and because i got a D on my report card ONCE! in my 1st year of jr. high. i cant stand her, i can hardley live with her anymore. help. 13 f

shes such a bitch.have you tryied talking to her about t.or maybe your parents.i dont think she hates you but maybe shes jealous and you guys need to get together and work things out.i mean .shes you sister and you have to live with her.if that doesnt work out.whenever she says or does mean things to her.dont show her that it hurtsyour feeling.pretend like you dont have a care in the world.like what shes doing doesnt hurt you.that will make her made.and pease dont slope to her lever

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