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my best friend
about last week me, my cousin,my best friend, and my boyfriend all went to the mall and the movies together. i never knew until my cousin told me that he liked my best friend. and i talked to my best friend about it at the time and everything she told me was basically i like your cousin and i will go out with him. well my cousin never got enough courage to ask her out . he was going to this weekend but things happened and no one could leave the house. he has wanted to call her and do it but he doesnt want to do it on the phone.
my best friend;
she has beening talking to a guy that she has meet online for about 2 yars now. he has came down here once and seen her he shock her hand and left. i thought that was the most stupidest thing he could have done. after that day she stopped talking to him (he lives about 3 hours away from where we live) well just recently she started talking t him again. and now ever time she calls she goes i love bryan i love bryan and it bothers the hell out of me.
the problem;
my cousin likes her a lot and she doesnt care anymore all she wants is bryan. it hurts knowing ur cuz has fell so hard over a girl an the girl doesnt like him back. and my boyfriend knew it was bothering me and had a talk to my friend with me on the phone to now she wont talk to me or nothing. i dont know what to do. she wont get over the guy that will probably never see again. can someone help me out please.
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uhhm so i think all this is none of your bizz. so yo friend will probably get over bryan, but untill she does, stay out of it. if she liked yo cuz once then she will or might like him again if he asks her out.so he needs to be brave and do it.also stop thinking about it and gwt on wit yo life
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rachel :- ohkay so this whole thing with this bryan guy is probobably not going to work if they have to drive for three hours just to see each other. she will probobly get over it after a while. also i would try to get your cousin to hang out with you and your best friend more so that she can see what a nifty person he is. your friend will eventually get over this whole being mad thing and talk to you again, so just wait it out. hope this helps you!
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This relationship or whatever it is with Bryan in all likelihood will not work out at all. Distance makes it too hard especially at a young age and especially if the relationship actually STARTS long distance. My guess is that nothing at all worthwhile will happen with that. What you need to do is, like younggrandma said, stay out of other people's love lives in the future. If you hadn't told your friend about your cousin, your cousin would have had to tell your friend himself and everything may have worked out perfectly. You did what you thought was right at the time and most people in your position would have done the same thing. It just wasn't the right thing to do. Now that you are involved you can try to set things right. Talk to your cousin and tell him that he needs to talk to your friend. There is still a chance. He can give her a lot that Bryan can't. He can hold her hand, hug her, and see her every day. If she can see that and isn't completely obsessed with Bryan yet, she should go for your cousin. He needs to work up the courage because if he doesn't he will not only miss his chance with your friend, but may have problems with starting relationships well into the future. If it doesn't work just let it go. If it was meant to be, it will find its own way. Good luck!
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The best thing to do now and in the future is for friends to stay clear away from each others love life.
Chances are not good that the best friend will EVER be the girlfriend of someone so far away. She will miss school dances, she will not be able to date...her teen years will get clear away from her.
However, she probably will not listen to reason.
So, there isn't a whole lot you are able to do about it...unfortunately.
Maybe if you have another friend who might be interested in your cousin, you could arrange for them to meet.
I think the best overall solution though would be to let them all find their own dates. Being stuck in the middle of all the drama is awful. :)
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