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alrighty so this guy likes me, i like him, i told him that i did and he started acting differently *like not talking to me as much* like we've hung out, gone on a "date", talked on the phone, but lately, he hasn't been the same. like whenever i hug him he just stands/sits there, he doesn't really answer me when i talk to him or he'll just start talking to his other friends, he told me he wanted to go out this weekend and that he'd call but he never did. and i'm still worried that it's all because i told him that i like him. i really don't know what to do because i really care for him and don't want to lose him, but i'm scared that i already have. can anyone please give me advice on what to do?!
frenchfries21 answered Monday November 14 2005, 7:52 pm: ask him whats up. maybe theres something going on with him? talk to him and see why hes acting this way. if he just simply says he doesnt know what your talking about, or that nothing is wrong, then tell him you know something is up, or ask him if he still likes you, cause he sure isnt acting like he does. if nothing works with him, simply do the same thing to him as hes doing to you. then maybe he'll realize how annoying and confusing stuff like that can get.
good luck!
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happy-helper answered Sunday November 13 2005, 2:20 pm: Perhaps he's just shy or isn't used to a relationship. I suggest a nice night out, perhaps go to a cafe then the movies maybe? You prepare it though and schedule things. Don't worry about it too much, hun, boys can be like that!
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donttread answered Sunday November 13 2005, 2:17 pm: I think he's just trying to play hard to get. I mean, I understand that he already "has" you, but he wants to make it seem like he doesn't need you. He might be afraid that you're going to leave him and he wants to look strong and like he doesn't need you. Just tell him that he shouldn't take you for granted and reassure him that you're there to stay. I hope I helped and, if you have any more questions, feel free to ask. [ donttread's advice column | Ask donttread A Question ]
letter_girl22 answered Sunday November 13 2005, 2:17 pm: maybe he has a severe case of shyness and doesnt know what to do.like he likes you but doesny know how to act around you. you show him that you like him way too much thanhe does you.so do this.try ignoring him for a few days.even though yourdying for his attention just brush him off for 2 or 3 days.dont show him that you care way too much .also just outright ask him why he leads you on.does he yu or does he not. [ letter_girl22's advice column | Ask letter_girl22 A Question ]
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