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confused
well i went out with this guy for 16mths and we broke up coz he cheated on me with alot of my mates i know its bad but were been broken up now for 6 mths and out of the blue i get this email i wana be mates and i still like you and all the rest of it i realy want to be mates but i know i love him to much to just be mates but i dont want to get back to gether with him coz i know ill only get hert agian and yet i also want to be mates im so confused i know i shouldnt go back but it realy herts deep down i dont know what to do please just help me i realy carnt deal with this on my own
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I dont think you should go back to him. I know how you feel in this situation i have been there. If you get back together with him he will do it all over again and you will be in the same situation you are now. There is someone out there way better then this guy and if you wait he will come. You are a nice person from what i can tell. You dont deserve to be treated like that at all. I know it hurts and when you find that someone else he will actually make it go away. I suggest just taking it one day at a time and concentrate on something else like school or some activity you like to do.
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whatdo you really want from him.is it close attachment
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since you are still confused than if you start being friends agian you could end up going out again even if you don't want to right now. so tell him that you want to be friends but you need some time to think though things and get over him.
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I would give it a try at friendship... but as a friend you have to be willing to see him around others that he might date. If you dont think that you can handle it then dont do it. But on the other hand you might find out that he is a better friend than a boyfriend. Maybe being his friend will help you get over how much he hurt you.. he might even begin to realize how much he hurt you and try to make it up to you.
As far as you still loving him... you can love a friend. Just take it one day at a time. Only time can tell where this will lead you.
Eva J
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You shouldn't go back with him. Be friends, but don't date him. If he already hurt you, chances are he'll do it again. You deserve better. But you can always be friends with him. Good luck!
♥ Melissa
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