my sister is such a fucking bitch, shesthe same age as me and she always finds a way to critisize me. about everything. literally. after it haappened. it makes me want to strangle her to death. i picture myself tying her to a chair and beating the shit outta her. i cant live with her anymore. she calls me fat, ugly, gay(im not), she makes fun of me because i have ADD(which i dont) and because i got a D on my report card ONCE! in my 1st year of jr. high. i cant stand her, i can hardley live with her anymore. help. 13 f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? helpful_jess answered Friday October 7 2005, 3:54 pm: well have you spoke 2 anyone about how your feeling and how the way your sis is behaving is making you hate her, its not easy and trust me i no my sis is a few years older than me and she picks on me aswell but one thing you must rememba is DONT CHANGE YOURSELF FOR HER i mean the things she is picking on you about dont change them not for her and not for anyone okay if your gonna change you do it for yourself and to make you feel better not to make your sis or anyone else feel better cause she will find something else to bully you about and it will just get worse okay one thing you could do is talk to your sis not in a nasty way and i no you will probley want to cause of the way she has treated you but you have to be grown up about this ask her if she has a problem with you and ask her why she treats you so badly tell her how you feel and how she is making you feel maybe she is suffering from something and is just taking it out on you perhaps she is being bullied herself and she probley doesnt want to be the only person hurting you say that most of the stuff she is saying isnt true so it shouldnt get to you, you no what you are and who you are and no1 not even your sis can tell you otherwise hope ive helped [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
bNicolex3 answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 5:41 pm: I have this same problem my sister is a year younger than me and shes a freshman so everything i do or say and she finds out about it always gets back to my parents. Just find something that shes not good at or if a boy calls you or talks to you just throw it in her face. I would recomend you actually strangling her altho you want to lol but just find something to make her jealous bc thats most likly why shes doing it. [ bNicolex3's advice column | Ask bNicolex3 A Question ]
XoNeLLiE143oX answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 7:48 pm: i would tell your parents, and if it continues, i say slap her across the face and tell her to shut her mouth or else. it might not work, but itll defintily shut her up for a while. hope ihelped!
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//monstika answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 9:36 am: The exact same thing happens to me. My sister pisses me off so much and I just want to strangle her. Although violence and blackmail might solve lots of things, first try talking to her (calmly) about why she wont leave you the hell alone (maybe she's jealous?) and if she turns out to just be a stupid bitch like my sister, start bringing the pain! (tell your mom she got an STD from one of the boys in her school) [ //monstika's advice column | Ask //monstika A Question ]
Gabi143 answered Monday October 3 2005, 11:40 pm: so don't do the mature thing and instead torment her as well. I know that sounds weird but it workds sometimes. I don't knwo your sister or anything but you must know her weaknesses and some "black mail". find something against her and use it... [ Gabi143's advice column | Ask Gabi143 A Question ]
TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Monday October 3 2005, 8:29 pm: Awwww, I'm sorry! What I think you should do is just IGNORE her. I'm serious, it'll totally do the trick. Or, you can say "I'm sorry that you're so insecure that you have to diss your own sister." That would really demure her. If that doesn't help any, tell your parents. [ TheHeadHonchoPoncho57's advice column | Ask TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 A Question ]
letter_girl22 answered Monday October 3 2005, 8:04 pm: shes such a bitch.have you tryied talking to her about t.or maybe your parents.i dont think she hates you but maybe shes jealous and you guys need to get together and work things out.i mean .shes you sister and you have to live with her.if that doesnt work out.whenever she says or does mean things to her.dont show her that it hurtsyour feeling.pretend like you dont have a care in the world.like what shes doing doesnt hurt you.that will make her made.and pease dont slope to her lever [ letter_girl22's advice column | Ask letter_girl22 A Question ]
blueluvgirl4444 answered Monday October 3 2005, 7:46 pm: ok sry if i didnt help but here is another idea try to get her back or tell her that u are getting sick of her telling u what to do and if she calls u names then call her names back
and i believe u i kno that u are not ugly fat or gay she is probably saying that cause she is jelous
fabulous11 answered Monday October 3 2005, 7:37 pm: I have the same problam with my older sister. She is always being soo mean to me and would say I am soo immature and that i have no life and im ugly and all that stuff..But thats just the way girls are when they are sisters. I would always think about how much i want to hurt her but whe i realy do i feel bad...Now that me and my sister have gotten older we are much nicer to each other and dont fight as much..but dont worry deep down she loves you..she just might not always show it..
GANGStAhBAbiiEx answered Monday October 3 2005, 7:21 pm: you can try and not let it bother you she might stop but if not just tell her that you dont want to hear her voice again and try and seperate yourself from her. she probaly does that only cause she has nothing better to do try and hang out with your friends. or do something that you think is fun.
MJ answered Monday October 3 2005, 7:13 pm: well, we i also have a sister and i know what youre saying. but, we have to live with them just try to plan different things with your friends so you dont have to spend time with your sister!! hopefully she will get off your case if she gets the picture [ MJ's advice column | Ask MJ A Question ]
AnGeLs_AdVicE_x3 answered Monday October 3 2005, 6:57 pm: well since my other advice was bad heres something else...ignore her! who cares what she thinks! if you arent then you know that! DO THE SAME TO HER! doesnt matter if she is or not! do it and itll DRVIE HER CRAZY! just try it!
XxSk8grl4evrX answered Monday October 3 2005, 6:51 pm: First off, I have the EXACT same problem as you except I have a brother that is the same age as me. At first he was the screw up and I was the good one in the family but things changed around and he became a perfect guy that all my friends wanted which pissed me off. My advice is that you should try not to let her bother you even though I know it is hard BELIEVE ME! Once she realizes it doesn't bother you, she'll stop and she won't bother you anymore. Hope I helped and hope everything turns out good <3 Vanna [ XxSk8grl4evrX's advice column | Ask XxSk8grl4evrX A Question ]
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