Member Since: October 3, 2005
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Last Update: October 29, 2005
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f/14....is it normal to get "wet" when your boyfriend makes out with you? a little bit of touching below the neck but not past the stomach? (link)
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dont worry about it its toatally normal it just means that hes turning you on, hope i helped ~ mj
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ok, i know its really early but i dont want to leave this til last minute...
i don't know what to get my boyfriend for christmas.
backround information: we've been dating for over a year, in december we will have been dating 19 months.
he's getting me a promise ring from james avery...and something else. heard it through the grapevine...and indirectly from him.
we've been through alot together and i want to show him how special he is to me and how much i love him.
we're still in high school so something thats not too hard.
he said all he wants is to spend time with me...so should i plan a day with us just together? and if so...ideas for what we should do? i know it could be a full day because my parents dont really have a problem with him sleeping over at my house....
if i buy him something, what budget should i stay close to? and what should i get?
please help! thanks in advance. :) (link)
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okay want to know what i think will be really special for both you and him is to either take him out to dinner or have you house toatally decorated have rose pettals and a ton of candles lit and try to kick ur parents out and make him or get him dinner it would be so cute so then he can spend time with you at a romantic dinner and it shouldnt cost you that much maybe $70 at the most and i know he will love it,hope i helped ~mj
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My ex and i have been broken up now for a year. He jumped in a relationship 1 week after we were supposedly over,(very long story). 5 mos. into their relationship, he was telling me that he still missed what we had, that he loved me and didnt want me to hurt him (being with other guys) that he thinks about me all the time, and dreams about US! i never gave into my feelings to him since our breakup, (because of the fact that he had sex with this 14 yr old the 2nd date, and ive ahd a hard time thinking about being with him) A year later and i still have alot of feelings for him, and i want to let him know, but not be so blunt. Hes still with his gf, and i really dont know how he feels about me since he told me how he felt 5 mos ago. Im not just gonna come out and ask or just pour out my feelings. We're both seniors, and i want to ask him to exchange pictures, but i dont want to do this at school when hes with "her". I want to do this alone, and i also want to get him to open up to me again!
Please no immature advice!!!
Ive been going back and forth on this for a year now and i realize that i want him. I never got involved in another relatinship, but i do have lots of guy friends, but thats all they will ever be to me. It took me 3 yrs to fall in love with my ex, and my heart doesnt want to be with any1 else.
Remember>he has a gf and i need to do this very consciously, and take things slow!!!
Thanks!! (link)
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Okay u gotta be kidding me hes a senior n he had sex with a 14 year old ON THE SECOND DATE? well this isnt any of mu business but seriously did you even ever have sex with him? okay i understand that you like/love him but if he could go out with another girl and fuck her shortly after you two were goin out for a year i think that he is using this girl and he doesnt really know how he feels about u! if you love him tell him hopwfully you two can work it out but you also have to talk to him about how he rushed into a relationship shortly after yours and how that hurt you,hope i helped ~mj
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ok
there is this gy and we have gotten really close...
too close.....
i really like himk and he knows this.
but the problem is
he has a girlfriend.........
please send your advice
anything will help..........
;)
kashia (link)
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if he likes you to you need to talk to him just be like ok i really like you and you like me and i really want us to hook up and we cant do this if you have a girlfriend and then you will find out if he really does like u because if he does he will dump her for you but if he doesnt dump her u cant mess around with him anymore and you should just give up because then if he still expects for you and him to be "close" than he is a player and you should just give up, hope i helped ~mj
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ok i really like this guy, i have liked him more then ne ohter guy. he knows i like him. on friday me and him flirted a lot. he was touching me and hugging all over me and stuff, and he has done it before like once. and on friday i broke his sex bracelt, i really want to hook up with him, i really lie him my friend says that she thinks he likes me but somtimes i cant tell. i hang out iwth him everyday at lunch. do u think he likes me. (link)
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I think that you should ask him out some guys are just natural flirts so you cant really be sure but seriously it could never hurt to ask and if you do ask him and he says no then just still try to be friends with him seriously he knows you like him so it shouldnt change anything if he says no and if he says yes then hey u got a boyfriend, hope i helped ~ mj
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Ok so my friend asked this guys out for me that I really didn't know. He said "Well I really don't know her so not right now". So is he thinking 'No I won't go out with her or was he thinking what he sayed to her? Plz help! I really like this guy! (link)
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Ok usually when guys say this they mean that they want to get to know you better before they go out with you so you should just try to plan to do things with him and call him and stuff and if he doesnt act interested then that means he isnt ready for a relationship, hope i helped ~ mj
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ok, im a 16 y/o guy, and i've never had a health class (reason i'm asking.) What are some signs that a girl IS NOT pregnant? like, is her period not the same? my girlfriend is 15, and we dunno. we had sex about 3 weeks ago, and we were woried about it. she's on her period right now, but does that mean she is FOR SURE NOT PREGNATE
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if she is on her period that means that she is not pregnant but if you two still wanto be for sure just go get her a pregnancy test that will for sure tell you that she isnt,hope i helped ~mj
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heyy my name is cate and im 13 and i liek this kid named shaun and hes 13. He likes me too so we both liek each other. Well the last time i went out with him in 7th grade we didnt talk much cuz we were both shy. Then i had to go to cheerleading practice one night while there was a dance. He went to the dance and ended up making out with one of my best friends. We are all still friends though soo.. Anyways i liek him again and i wanna go out with him but i dont kow if i trust him enough. Recently i wen tot eh football game and met up with him there. We walked around around and we held hands and he pu his arm around me and it was really sweet. I wanna go out with him but how do i know he wont cheat on me again or just wanan go out with me to make out. He really nice and super hott. What should i do?
Xoxo
CatieZ (link)
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okay i think that you should give him a chance i mean i have a boyfriend right now that is known as a player and has a history of cheating on women but, he is the sweetest thing ever and if he cheats on you again than it isnt worth it and the worse thing that will happen is that you will get hurt, but you will eventually move on but i have a feeling that it wont just give him a second chance and show him how much you care about him,hope i helped ~mj
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Ok i broke up w/ my boyfriend like 4 days ago because he had sex w/ some other chick. Well his bestfriend and me were good friends. His best friend asked me out the next day and i said yes. I think part of the reason is just because i wanted to make my x jelous. Now i really miss my x. I think i still have feelings for him though is it to soon to be going out w/ anybody else. (link)
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ok well personally i think that it all depends on the details like how long were you going out with your boyfriend before you two broke up? what all did you two do? how long have you known his friend? how good of friends are they? how much did you like the guy when you two were going out? these are all important questions that depend if it was too early or not if you were going out with the guy for a month or less it is fine, if you were going out with the guy for 2-5 months its to early, if it was longer than that it is way to early and especially with his best friend!!! i hope i helped ~mj
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Hey,, ok well theres this guy i rlly lik lets call him " Bob" 4 now lol but neways "bob" is my ex boyfriend nd were still close friends now i guess you could say.... but i still really like him,,,, and he just broke up with his gf two weeks ago and im not sure if he likes me or if hes just messin with my head because when he did have a girlfriend, and i was hanging out with him and my other friends he would just stare at me and one time he blew me a kiss but i smiled and turned away...i thought he was just messin wit ma head but my friends tell me that they think he still likes me but if he does then why does he lik flirt with other girls in front of me...but then again lik 4 days ago when i was over my friends house he showed up and lk things happend.. nd we ended up lik kissing - makin out-but lik wen my friend was out of the room.. i dont know if he kissed me cuz he likes me or he just wanted a kiss... are we just good friends or is he tryin to get me jealous and does he still like me? And I wanna figure out if he likes me or not without embarrisin myself and feeling weird if he says no because like whenever i see him in school he asks me for hugs and whatever. Please HELP!!! thnx in advance...
From,
~Always missin ma_xBabY~
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okay seriously i think that he still likes you and the most important thing is who broke up with who the first time? if he broke up with you, there is a good chance of you two hooking up but, if you broke up with him you have to work even harder to get back with him. just some time when you two are hanging out and it isnt toatally ackward just ask him if he would ever consider going back out with you. i hope i helped ~*MJ
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Three girls. Used to be friends with them. Now I'm not (long story) and they're bitching about me behind my back. The part that makes it upsetting is that act really lovely to me when I'm around... and I'm a trusting kind of person. It took ages for me to believe it.
Would you please tell me what to do? Is it better to...
1)...confront them, and a)hold a grudge b)forgive them OR
2)...ignore them, and a) hold a grudge b)forgive them.
3)start a hate campaign.
Or if you have an alternative I'd be glad to hear it (but I'm not changing schools!) (link)
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ok seriously although i love your idea of a hate campaign, i think the best thing to do is either comfront them or ignore them seriously if they see that it doesnt bother you they wont do it anymore because all that they want is your reaction, hope i helped, ~*MJ
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my boyfriend and I are madly in love! seriously.... no joke! to help you with this you might want to no that hes a very kinky person he LOVES to bite! but today i found out he was hanging out with his ex-girlfriend (whos wants him bak desperetly) and today she was complaining about her arm and one of my friends asked her wot happened and she rolled up her sleeve and there was this MASSIVE bruise and she said he bit her! i was totally crushed i no it isnt really cheating but im kinda wondering about alot... he asked me wot was wrong today and i totally went off on him and was yelling at his in front of the whole skool telling him to keep his efing mouth to his efing self! and i no that prolly didnt help.... please dont remind me! but anywayz... its not really that i dont trust him its that i dont trust her! im am SOOOOOOOO close to kikin her skanky ass! normally we tell eachother we love eachother b4 every period and kiss! he finally got me to kiss him but thru the whole day i never said i love you! am i being too harsh on him? cuz im serious this REALLY REALLY pisses me off! i dont no wot to do :'(! (link)
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ok if he thinks that you dont trust him just be like babe i love you and i trust you its just that whore that i dont like or trust i bet you it wasnt even your mans fault it was that whore are you sure she didnt know that he bites ? she probabally does maybe she bit herself just to piss you off to make you 2 break up!!!!! Ask your man about it ask him if he bit her and if he says ya be like why do you think that that is okay???? ~MJ
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What are some good ways to get guys? like things you can do...say...wear??? I mean (for guys) are there any things that girls can do that just like drive you crazy? i really want to make an impression! thanks! xoxo _..:~*i|rate*~:.._ (link)
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Wow seriously i would just say find one guy that is your goal and find out what his intrest are and just try to let him se that you are a cool girl and that you two have stuff in common then get him to hang out with like you and your friends then casually get better just hang out with you and him so you two can develop a good relationship and you want him to know that you are available but you dont want to seem desperate it is really confusing i know just try to do what i told you and for what you wear dont dress to slutty guys like skirts and if you got boobs (atleast b cups) wear a low cut shirt that shows some clevage but not a ton
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Okay, there's this guy Robert. Long story short, he's annoying. Well in math class he made me drop my stuff so I told him to pick it up and when he did he slammed it on my desk so I kinda smacked him in the side of the head and he smacked me back the same way. Now, I don't keep things from my boyfriend, so I told my boyfriend what he did. Now Justin (my boyfriend) wants to fight him for hitting me. I told Justin, "it's okay I hit him first," "it wasnt very hard anyways" whatever, but he doesn't care. Now Robert's pissing me off because he's up at the front of the room talking to my friend Bryce calling me a mother-f****** c***-sucking stupid lying ass b****. And when someone in class says "We don't screw everything in math" Robert goes "Christina screws everything." It's starting to piss me off and I don't know what I should do. I can't ignore it. Any help is greatly appreciated, thanks! (link)
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Hey girl ok seriously if i were you i would either kick the shit out of him personally, let my boyfriend kick his ass, go to the cops/office and file sexual harrasment, or start shit back with him when he says that you screw everything be like "hey i could get some if i wanted some unlike you" god i hate assholes like that you just gotta stick up for yourself and find your inner bitch i mean what kind of guy hits a girl back? ~MJ
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ok.. i kno having sex is a big thing anme virginity is something i could neva get back my boyfriends and i have been goin out 4 2 yrs and the subject about us haveing sex came up about 2 months ago and hes not a virgin and im not either but i told him i was(long storyand weve been goin stedy and i love him ... uis 13 to young to have sex and is there any way he could find out im not a virgin...... (link)
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ok i am 14 and me and my boyfriend had sex when we were going out for 7 months, if you really do love him i think you are ready and no their is no way he can find out youre not a virgin inless you tell him or someone else does
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ok well i'm a 16 yr old gurl and i just recently started going out with a friend of mine like 3weeks ago on thursday and i ador him......my first question is, is it weird that i might love him already? like i feel so confortable with him....and the other question is......i want to have sex with him...but is it to soon? like he knows i'm a virgin and he doesnt care to wait but i want to.
plz help i'll rate high
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i think it is possible to love him but i personally think that it is to early to have sex with him the perfect moment for that is when you know that you are both ready and when you have no doubt in your mind that you wanto spend the rest of your life with him because think ahead if you wernt sure that you really did love him and then you did fuck him and you two broke up it would be even worse cuz beleive me when you have sex with someone that you thought you loved you start to love them a whole lot more and to lose them after that, it hurts a whole lot worse ~ MJ
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ok my bestguy friend hes cute and im entirely in love with him i think he has a girl so i dont know what to do? i think he likes me. we nown eachother since last year so about two years ive loved him in silence. my best fiend is his cousin and my other friend was his girlfriend .so obiously i dont know what to do i love him so much i dont know if i should tell him or not? please help me?ok and now im in 8th grade and soon ive will be graduating jr high school so i wantedto go the prom with him but i dont know what hes gonna say so i dont know if i should tell himor not but to be honest im scared to. please help me please. (link)
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i think you should ask him to prom but if he says no just try to keep a good friendship with him cuz many friendships are ruined because of relationships and if he says no about prom just ask him if you can go to prom with eachother as just friends and if he still says no just give up you shoulnt be pushin up on your friends ex anyway
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my sister is such a fucking bitch, shesthe same age as me and she always finds a way to critisize me. about everything. literally. after it haappened. it makes me want to strangle her to death. i picture myself tying her to a chair and beating the shit outta her. i cant live with her anymore. she calls me fat, ugly, gay(im not), she makes fun of me because i have ADD(which i dont) and because i got a D on my report card ONCE! in my 1st year of jr. high. i cant stand her, i can hardley live with her anymore. help. 13 f (link)
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well, we i also have a sister and i know what youre saying. but, we have to live with them just try to plan different things with your friends so you dont have to spend time with your sister!! hopefully she will get off your case if she gets the picture
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Okay, my 18th birthday is in...like, three weeks and I have no plans. I want to do SOMETHING with my friends. Unfortunately a bunch of my friends aren't 18, so that rules out going to a club or anything. My birthday's on a monday, which really sucks, but we could do something the weekend before, or on halloween weekend or something...anyway, I know that.
I'd like a few opinions and ideas as to what we could do. I refuse to let my 18th go by without celebrating. I did that with my 16th and I regret it quite a bit.
So, ideas? Also, please try to hold off on the chatspeak. I rate down if it takes me more than one attempt to read and understand the response. Punctuation marks are your friends. ^_^ (link)
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I think that you should just plan a fun party with some of your close friends some of the best times im life are with your close friends but you gotta do somethin like have a party at your house or go to the movies but definately dont let your 18th birthday pass but now just look forward to your 21st birthday!!!!
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