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am i being too harsh on him?
my boyfriend and I are madly in love! seriously.... no joke! to help you with this you might want to no that hes a very kinky person he LOVES to bite! but today i found out he was hanging out with his ex-girlfriend (whos wants him bak desperetly) and today she was complaining about her arm and one of my friends asked her wot happened and she rolled up her sleeve and there was this MASSIVE bruise and she said he bit her! i was totally crushed i no it isnt really cheating but im kinda wondering about alot... he asked me wot was wrong today and i totally went off on him and was yelling at his in front of the whole skool telling him to keep his efing mouth to his efing self! and i no that prolly didnt help.... please dont remind me! but anywayz... its not really that i dont trust him its that i dont trust her! im am SOOOOOOOO close to kikin her skanky ass! normally we tell eachother we love eachother b4 every period and kiss! he finally got me to kiss him but thru the whole day i never said i love you! am i being too harsh on him? cuz im serious this REALLY REALLY pisses me off! i dont no wot to do :'(!
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give the guy a brake maybe his ex-girlfriend did something to him and he bit her. Dont be to harsh on him just tell him not to hang out with her and he wont but if he does talk to her and hang out with her than i think that he might want her back
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ok if he thinks that you dont trust him just be like babe i love you and i trust you its just that whore that i dont like or trust i bet you it wasnt even your mans fault it was that whore are you sure she didnt know that he bites ? she probabally does maybe she bit herself just to piss you off to make you 2 break up!!!!! Ask your man about it ask him if he bit her and if he says ya be like why do you think that that is okay???? ~MJ
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You are not being too harsh, at all!! I was in the same situation like this last week with my boyfriend. But anyway, I would have done the same exact thing. If it really pisses you off, which I see why it does, than he needs to know that it pissed you off so he won't do it again. ESPECIALLY since it was with his freakin ex-girlfriend. Wow, I know how you feel on this one. But just make sure he knows how much it hurts you. Don't break up with him over something like this. Just get it through his head that it pissed you off and it deeply hurt you too. I hope everything works out for you. Oh and you telling him to keep his mouth to himself...I seriously would have said the SAME exact thing. Don't be down on yourself about yelling at him either, he deserved it.
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Well, to start off, do not try to pick a fight with this girl. Shes not the problem you need to focus on. Your boyfriend is the problem you need to pay attention to. I think that maybe instead of going off and yelling, things could have been solved a little easier. Your boyfriend was definetly crossing the line for even touching his ex-girlfriend that way. To be honest, even though yelling and being upset was a little far, I couldn't really blame you for doing it. The only part that concerns me is that you did it in front of people. I know you didn't want to be reminded, but if you both are as madly in love as you describe, then you've got to solve issues in your relationship with him in private. Don't make your relationship become the school gossip. Its wrong too, why put people through that anyway? It sounds to me like you were trying to show off by talking trash to him in front of everyone. Thats a really selfish thing to do, and he did something really foolish too, so you both have a lot of things to work out. You need to apologize to him and explain your emotions when you saw her arm and found out that the person you love and trust did it to her. He needs to understand that it is really wrong to do something so damaging to a girlfriend like biting his pass girlfriend. Your boyfriend needs to tell her to back off when she tries to come onto him. You have to talk to him though. Leave the ex girlfriend out of this.
-TheTeenGirl
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it dosent matter if you trust the girl it only matters if trust him.find out more then talk to him.dont just say this because you think its what you think it is that is unless you wanna lose your boyfriend
only between me and you my girlfriend would have been kicked her ass
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You're right, he has no right to do that with another girl, whether it's cheating or not. But rather than blowing up on him just talk to him and tell him how that hurts that he would hang out with her and put his mouth on her, whether he thought of it sexually or not. Explain your point of view, and listen to his. That way things will hopefully get resolved sooner. Good luck!
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Hey,
You're definitley not being too harsh. You're handling this perfectly. But you really do need to go up to him and ask him what really did happen and why he would do such a thing to you.
Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2
P.S.Write back and tell me how my advice was and if it helped.
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