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my boyfriend and I are madly in love! seriously.... no joke! to help you with this you might want to no that hes a very kinky person he LOVES to bite! but today i found out he was hanging out with his ex-girlfriend (whos wants him bak desperetly) and today she was complaining about her arm and one of my friends asked her wot happened and she rolled up her sleeve and there was this MASSIVE bruise and she said he bit her! i was totally crushed i no it isnt really cheating but im kinda wondering about alot... he asked me wot was wrong today and i totally went off on him and was yelling at his in front of the whole skool telling him to keep his efing mouth to his efing self! and i no that prolly didnt help.... please dont remind me! but anywayz... its not really that i dont trust him its that i dont trust her! im am SOOOOOOOO close to kikin her skanky ass! normally we tell eachother we love eachother b4 every period and kiss! he finally got me to kiss him but thru the whole day i never said i love you! am i being too harsh on him? cuz im serious this REALLY REALLY pisses me off! i dont no wot to do :'(! (link)
You are not being too harsh, at all!! I was in the same situation like this last week with my boyfriend. But anyway, I would have done the same exact thing. If it really pisses you off, which I see why it does, than he needs to know that it pissed you off so he won't do it again. ESPECIALLY since it was with his freakin ex-girlfriend. Wow, I know how you feel on this one. But just make sure he knows how much it hurts you. Don't break up with him over something like this. Just get it through his head that it pissed you off and it deeply hurt you too. I hope everything works out for you. Oh and you telling him to keep his mouth to himself...I seriously would have said the SAME exact thing. Don't be down on yourself about yelling at him either, he deserved it.


well i want to have sex with my bf. but i want to know if he has std's or anything like that. i want to ask him but i think it would be awkward. can someone give me advice on how to ask? thank you!! (link)
This happened with my boyfriend and I, too. I just directly came out and asked him if he did. He wasn't weirded out by me asking it, he was a little surprised, but you have every right to ask. Especially if he has been sexually active with other girls. You are just being cautious. And if you have time, please tell me how things worked out for you.


i know this is something really weird but if i drink like a mini bottle of water (8.5 FL OZ) I dont feel good after and I have a really bad stomach ache for about an hour. Why does this happen and what can I do to prevent it? (link)
Are you 100% sure that it's because of the water? It could be from something you ate previously to drinking the water. Or even right after. If you are positive that it's because of water, then tell your parents who will hopefully bring you to a doctor. Also, if this has been going on for about 2 weeks, then you have to tell your parents. Good luck!


my bff (i will call her jane) & i have been bff for a while now. i like her (obviously) but sometimes she acts so insecure...like she wants to be friends with these other girls who obvioulsy aren't that nterested with her. sometimes when i am with her & feel bad, because she seems so focused on being frineds with them that i feel like she doesn't want to be hanging out with me. i know she likes me, but every once in a while she will do something on an important day (like dances, new years eve) & if i ask her if she wants to do something she will be like "no i can't, i am doing something with _____" and she won't even offer to have me come, which is something i always dowith my friends (unless they hate each other, which almost none do, they all get along). it makes me feel bad, but i also know that jane DOESN'T have that many friends, so i feel like she does it to sort of show off that she's doing something. ahould i say anything, i mean its not that serious & it only happens once in a while, but i feel sort of unwanted. we like never fight though, so i don't want to start anything! (link)
I've been in this situation before. If this continues to happen and things start getting worse, then you have to talk to her about it. Or else you'll just keep feeling unwanted and eventually you'll start feeling sad. If your friend ends up freaking out on you and doesn't want to be friends with you anymore, then that just means she wasn't a good friend to begin with. I hope this helps. Good luck!


well okay..there is this boy in my class that i like alot..but this other girl alex likes him too...an she is pretty big to be able to kick my ass...well the real prob is that i can't really tell him i like him or also date...an i hate this girl but im scared of her..SHE CAN SIT ON ME..but then there was rumor that if would ever to go out with her ..her told her to keep it on the DL..(down low)...soo yeah..PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME !!...an please dont say just do tell him..becasue i wanna ...but i cant b.cus of her..what should i do about the other girl an him!!!

-please help..tasha (link)
Life is too short to be worried about what other people think. Your problem with this other girl, if she isn't one of your close friends, then who cares what she thinks. She probably won't even do anything to you. Especially if you end up going out with him. I'd definetly tell him that you like him. And if he ends up not liking you, just remember that there are LOTS of other guys out there for you. And you should tell him as soon as possible before it's too late. Good luck!




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