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Ok i broke up w/ my boyfriend like 4 days ago because he had sex w/ some other chick. Well his bestfriend and me were good friends. His best friend asked me out the next day and i said yes. I think part of the reason is just because i wanted to make my x jelous. Now i really miss my x. I think i still have feelings for him though is it to soon to be going out w/ anybody else.
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If it feels weird going out with his friend, then break up. But i really suggest you dont go out with your x again. Hes only going to hurt you more. Do what you feel is best for you.
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ok well personally i think that it all depends on the details like how long were you going out with your boyfriend before you two broke up? what all did you two do? how long have you known his friend? how good of friends are they? how much did you like the guy when you two were going out? these are all important questions that depend if it was too early or not if you were going out with the guy for a month or less it is fine, if you were going out with the guy for 2-5 months its to early, if it was longer than that it is way to early and especially with his best friend!!! i hope i helped ~mj
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yea it is kinda messed up that you got a boyfriend the next day that just proved to your boyfriend that no matter what you always win and that he isworthless. which is true since he cheated on you. but you need to keep doin what your doing. if you dont like ur oyfriends ex stop going out with him now. dont keep it up or it wil hurt him a lot more. whatever you decide to do dont go back to your ex. doesnt matetr how hard it gets dont do it it isnt worth it.hope this helps you out.
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Unfortunatly, it is too soon to be dating again. You probably had a hard time handeling the fact that he was sexual with another female, so you're right, you might have dated his friend to hurt your ex. Now, it's ok that you did that, but you have to end it, because it will hurt him if you keep this going and he finds out. You truly need more moments to yourself and to wait until you feel ready to be with someone again. It may be quite a while, and if you were sexually active with your ex, then it's going to take longer. Just end the relationship with his best friend, and tell him that you've found that you just aren't over the other guy yet, and that you're sorry. Make more time for yourself and slow down with dating for now.
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I bet you do miss your x, as do y and z. It seriously isn't that hard to type ex.
Now to your question. Yeah, you just want a rebound boyfriend it sounds like. Don't continue on with your ex's friend. You're just going to hurt him, hurt your ex, and cause loads of drama and problems.
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Youre bf cheated on you, and your were on the rebound!!
Youre doing exactly what my ex did. Dont stoop down to his level of stupidity. Sure youre hurting, but getting involved in another relationship the next day, is just plain immature!! Hell if you really wanted to get him jealous why didnt you just do what he did?
You have to start thinking about this guys feelings and not just about yourself!! Your using him to get back at your ex. Dont involve other innocent people in your troubles. Deal with it with the help of friends and talking, not with paybacks!!
He isnt worth taking back. 1ce a cheater, always a cheater!!
There are tons of NICE guys out there that dont use girls. Maybe hes right under your nose and you just dont want to see it! Id say give this new guy a chance, he might be worth keeping someday.
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Well, your in a relationship now. It's up to you, but wouldn't it make more sense to make the best of it? Because even if you still have leftover feelings for your X, it would not be a smart idea to let him know you are going to put up with his cheating. It's telling him he can do whatever he wants and get away with it. He doesn't seem like the type you want to be dating. If you really don't have feelings for the guy your dating now, I guess you can tell him why you rushed into the whole thing, and just explain the kind of relationship you would like to have with him (friends, or liking eachother but saving the dating till later, etc.). Now, your job is to plot what you would like to do, and make sure you're making decisions you won't regret.
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it kinda wierd
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Well it probably is a little to early to date right now because your gonna always think about your x just take things step by steps before jumping into a relationship.HOPE I HELPED>HOLLA BACK!!!
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