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What do i do??
My ex and i have been broken up now for a year. He jumped in a relationship 1 week after we were supposedly over,(very long story). 5 mos. into their relationship, he was telling me that he still missed what we had, that he loved me and didnt want me to hurt him (being with other guys) that he thinks about me all the time, and dreams about US! i never gave into my feelings to him since our breakup, (because of the fact that he had sex with this 14 yr old the 2nd date, and ive ahd a hard time thinking about being with him) A year later and i still have alot of feelings for him, and i want to let him know, but not be so blunt. Hes still with his gf, and i really dont know how he feels about me since he told me how he felt 5 mos ago. Im not just gonna come out and ask or just pour out my feelings. We're both seniors, and i want to ask him to exchange pictures, but i dont want to do this at school when hes with "her". I want to do this alone, and i also want to get him to open up to me again!
Please no immature advice!!!
Ive been going back and forth on this for a year now and i realize that i want him. I never got involved in another relatinship, but i do have lots of guy friends, but thats all they will ever be to me. It took me 3 yrs to fall in love with my ex, and my heart doesnt want to be with any1 else.
Remember>he has a gf and i need to do this very consciously, and take things slow!!!
Thanks!!
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i now how you feel , its has happend 2 me before if this is your first love its very hard 2 let go if you really want 2 let him know how u feel call him on his mob so now1 can hear wat you r saying but him tell him every think you will feel somuch better and dont do what i did in keep it 2 your self it will break you down it it will hert you i stayed in my room 4 weeks crying 4 no reason an trust be u dont wanna get like that over a guy i told this guy how i felt an he said he felt the same way any he was dateing thisgirl coz he wanted 2 get over me so tell him an i promise you ,ull feel so much better frm steph
p.s stop listening 2 ya head 4 1 minan listen 2 ya hart it will do you a load of gd
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Okay u gotta be kidding me hes a senior n he had sex with a 14 year old ON THE SECOND DATE? well this isnt any of mu business but seriously did you even ever have sex with him? okay i understand that you like/love him but if he could go out with another girl and fuck her shortly after you two were goin out for a year i think that he is using this girl and he doesnt really know how he feels about u! if you love him tell him hopwfully you two can work it out but you also have to talk to him about how he rushed into a relationship shortly after yours and how that hurt you,hope i helped ~mj
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The best thing is to write him an email or a note or even call him. If you can get him alone with you you can ask him if he still has feelings for you. If he was serious about what he said then he will tell you how he feels for sure and will break up with his g/f if he knows you want him back too.
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The guy you want has a girlfriend. That is the long and short of it. No mater what else has gone on between you right now he is with someone else and there is nothing you can do about it.
If he really wanted to break up with her. He would have.
If you still like him, call him, write him a letter, try to catch him alone for ten mintutes to tell him. Don't try and break them up, don't try to exchange photos or fool around behind her back. Is that really the kind of girl you want to be?
You said you are seniors, has it occurred to you that you might be acting out of fear. You are growing up and getting ready to move on. This isn't the time to be grasping at a long dead relationship this is the time to start cutting these ties and ending these painful drawn out games. Look forward. Move on. High school is ending, let the high school bullshit die.
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You need to move on.
He has a case of, I don't want her but I don't want anyone else to have her either. That is very unfair to you.
If he was truly that in love with you, he would have broke up with the other girl 5 months ago instead of just talking about it.
Sorry if that sounds harsh but there are guys out there like that. :)
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Then you need to let him know how you feel. Even though its a bad thing to do to some other poor girl. Personally though, he didn't wait long to jump another girl. Not sure I would trust him again.
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