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Q: Okay, has anyone out there been in a situation where you think you're getting a crush on someone and you really don't want it?
That's kinda the situation I'm in right now. He's my guy friend...I refuse to like him. I have a boyfriend whom I adore to absolutely no end. My guy's perfect for me, and he has plans, and he loves me, and I'm safe with him.
My friend, though, has recently been hinting that he likes me, and he knows I have a boyfriend - so he won't try anything. Some little part of me, though, almost wants him to.
What the heck is wrong with me? I think part of it is because he's a good friend, and we have a lot in common...but I know for a fact that it wouldn't work - I've tried relationships where I had almost everything in common with the guy, and they REALLY didn't work. Especially not with someone as competitive as I am. I'm majorly into music, and those guys were too. (So is my friend I'm talking about here)
How do you kill a crush without making yourself hate the guy? (That's what I've done in the past, and I don't want to hate him 'cause he's a sweetheart...)
GAH.
Help? Lol.

Hey Girly
It sucks!but just think about your guy and how much you love him and.. you can just think about one thing you dont like about your guy friend. that way you dont hate him but you arnt falling for him
*~* hope i helped*~*~

Q: Okay this summer I may have to babysit my next door neighbor...every weekday (not too sure on the days and time) but anyways...she's maybe 12 or 13..either way she is ALOT younger than I am and i dont like younger girls all too much...anybody know what 12-13 year old girls would like to do? She has a trampoline in her backyard and i'm sure shes got loads of board games but i'm not sure what to do at all...can anyone help?

Have her invite some friends over and let them all hang out on the trampoline Thats what i do!!!

Q: ok i dont know how to word this but i will give an example like today i got some headphones from around the house to see which would have the music come out the loudest from my ipod and like i took these pair of headphones from our family room and my dad started yelling at me saying im not supposed to leave the room with the head phones when i didnt and and so he was like i thought i told u to put them back when he never did so i yelled back at him so he came like running over to me and like almost broke my finger and he said if i did it again he would beat the $h!t out of me and a couple of times he has hit me and i dont know what i should do cause my mom never believes me when i tell her this and when he hits me it never leaves any bruises and he says if he goes to jail for beating me at least he would have found the enjoyment in it

I know how you feel.It was the same way with me.And i know you are scared because if you talk to someone you are scared he might hurt you more right?

well you need to:

1) talk to SOMEONE anyone a teacher you are really close to or a friends mom or dad or an aunt or uncle would work too!!
2) then to make you feel better get home just stay in your room or go to a friends.

Hey PLEASE I.M me on youaremybaby6 I WOULD LOVVVE TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT IT!!

Q: I like this boy and I think he could grow to like me if he knew I liked him 2.Problem is I'm too afraid to find out in case it's the wrong answer.Even if he does consider it my ex(bastard)would surely steer him in the other direction not out of jealousy but out of spite .Plus he didn't go out with me for me .He just wanted somebody to kiss.Besides he used to flirt with my friend right in front of me.

Hey girly,
Just go for it.Or if you dont want to confront him yourself have your friend do it for you.But make sure he is away from all of his friends and make sure the friend you choose is someone you can trust.Well I hope i Helped. And if you want im always here on youaremybaby6!
xoxMandixox

Q: ok this question is for girls only lol. i have my period & i can't use tampons..but i have swimming in gym class & my teacher is being a jerk about it, so i have to swim for the rest of the week. i'm not sure what to do exactly. my mom told me that your period stops & slows down in water, soo should i juss jump in fast? any ideas?

thanks!

hi there just have your Mom or you just talk to the teacher im sure they will understand especially if its a girl!!
xoxMandixox

Q: hey mandi...i have a question. why DID the chicken cross the road?? it's been bugging me for like 10 years!

lol im sorry Kenzie but there are so many answers to that im me and we can talk bout it then
xox love xox

Q: what the fuck is this mandi? is this an advice column? wow, wow thats all i have to say see ya's

yea it is! thanks

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I love to help people and im very succesful normaly. I want to be a Cycologist when i get older.I was inspired to do this site by my friends Nicole.Most of the stuff i have gone through so im very good at giving advice and helping you out! Im always here on (aim) youaremybaby6!