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heyy my name is cate and im 13 and i liek this kid named shaun and hes 13. He likes me too so we both liek each other. Well the last time i went out with him in 7th grade we didnt talk much cuz we were both shy. Then i had to go to cheerleading practice one night while there was a dance. He went to the dance and ended up making out with one of my best friends. We are all still friends though soo.. Anyways i liek him again and i wanna go out with him but i dont kow if i trust him enough. Recently i wen tot eh football game and met up with him there. We walked around around and we held hands and he pu his arm around me and it was really sweet. I wanna go out with him but how do i know he wont cheat on me again or just wanan go out with me to make out. He really nice and super hott. What should i do?
Xoxo
CatieZ
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Hi hunny,
I don't think you should go back out with him. I don't think he's worth it. Once a cheater always a cheater. I don't think he has any self respect for you if he cheated on you the first time he went out with you. I hope I helped you in some way. x3
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It doesnt matter how nice or hot he is, once a cheater always a cheater. I had to learn that the hard way, and now im stuck in pain. He might be sweet, but if you cheated on you once, theres a big chance that he'll do it again, you can find someone who you will be able to trust and still nice and hot at the same time, dont waste your time on someone you can not trust.
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Guys mainly cheat because they either know they can get away with it or are tired/bored of the girl they are with. It is obviously a really bad way to solve the problem of boredom because people will get bored of their couples every now and then and as for getting away with it that is just wrong. I would say he is just naturally a charismatic guy that people like and I have some friends (who are like him and cheat on girls, some have several girlfriends in different cities, but again are nice people just low morals) who are like that. Do not go out with him if you are looking for a serious relationship or to not get hurt again. And if you really want to go out with him, just be his friend and enjoy friendship. Friends are fun, make you laugh, good times, and you can depend on true friends so you don't need a relationship yet especially at such a young age.
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okay i think that you should give him a chance i mean i have a boyfriend right now that is known as a player and has a history of cheating on women but, he is the sweetest thing ever and if he cheats on you again than it isnt worth it and the worse thing that will happen is that you will get hurt, but you will eventually move on but i have a feeling that it wont just give him a second chance and show him how much you care about him,hope i helped ~mj
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Just answer this question are you really willing to take a chance with a guy you know that cheats on women. I think you should at least give it a shot and if it doesnt work out then you guys can still be friends. If you dont you will just wonder what would have happened if i would have gone out with him. You shouldnt have to wonder you should be able to know depending if you are up to take that chance.
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well all i can say is if its making you think this much about him try going out woth him but watching him around other people is an important thing to do *~*Karlie*~*
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You don't know if he will cheat on you again. There is no way to know that for sure. You need to talk about it before you go out with him again.
If after you talk you trust him then move forward. If you still don't feel you can trust him then don't even bother because if you can't trust him it isn't going to last.
Sometimes you just have to take the chance.
The only way to know for sure he just doesn't want you to "make out", is not to do any making out. Hold him off until you know you are sure of him. If he sticks it out, then he likes you for yourself and not just what he can get from you. :)
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