Ok, last sunday I went to the scary haunted house hay ride, cornmaze place. Well, while my 2 freinds and I were there, we met these guys. Me and one guy hit it off real fast and we were all over eachother... not makeing out though (just the hands and arms) so, at the end he asked for my number. I gave it to him. Then he came back and sad can I give you my number and I was like my ohone doesn't work.. it really doesnt! I left it out in the rain and the screen doesn't work I can only call people. So i told him that and i thnk it turned him off... anyways I really like him and have been thnking about him since then. I have asked so many people if they know hinm and finally my freind said yes. SO, she's getting his s/n and number for me. Here's my problem do you think I will look desperate? what should I say to him? i really really like him. Where can we go together? we live like 20 min away from eachother. pleas write back with answers and tips for me!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Monday October 31 2005, 8:47 pm: I don't think you will look desperate. I think your phone just broke and your trying to get in touch with him. It might have turned him off because he might be thinking that you might just be making up an excuse about your phone so he can't call you/you call him, and that might get him thinking you don't like him much. Just whenever you IM him, be like," Hey remember me from the haunted house place? My friend knows you and gave me your sn..whats up?" or something like that, haha. And then suggest you guys hang out sometime. There's always the nearest mall, maybe a movie...I hope I helped!
cheerleadrx4 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 10:50 pm: No !! tell him he will want to no belive me..if he had the guts to ask you for your number in the first place tell him everything and explain more about your phone b/c what you said to him about how people can't call you sounds really weird and just sounds like you don't want him to call you && hopefully he understood what you ment [ cheerleadrx4's advice column | Ask cheerleadrx4 A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 8:14 pm: You do not look desperate you just want to talk to this guy. When you talk to him when you get his screen name you should find out what you have in common and tell him that you like him if you are comfortable with that. Tell him you didnt mean for him to react the way he did when you told him about what happened in the rain. Just act like you did when you first met him. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday October 29 2005, 8:11 pm: I don't think you will look desperate. Just tell him you wanted to keep in touch because you enjoyed his company at the haunted house.
Where you can go really depends on if he has a car and drives. If so 20 minutes is nothing really. You just go to movies, dances...anything fun! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
XoXoLeonardoDiCaprioXoXo answered Saturday October 29 2005, 7:51 pm: well... if your comfotable with telling your parents then do!- i encourage you to, most relationships go DOWN hill if you don't. of coarse when your phone works,[ask your parents]give him your #!!! you DO NOT look desperate..,, just want a b/f. When you do have a chance with him pick a [quite] lake or pond[or somewhere alone] to be. then I WOULD hit it off. --If hes comfortable with that. Is he honest with you? make sure you know what your doing if you do go somewhere alone. i would get to know him better too. be careful since you just met these "guy[s]"
anchovy answered Saturday October 29 2005, 7:21 pm: Nah, you don't look desperate. Stop worrying about every little detail. You can't know yet whether it will work out or not, so just do what you want to do.
Maybe you could meet him at his school, if he goes to school. He probably likes to hang out somewhere after school and you could just ask him to walk around with you.
Tell him you really had a good time and hope he did too. He'll know what you mean. And if he rejects you, it will just be because he doesn't want to be with you, not because you said the wrong thing. so don't try to hard, just be simple and to the point. [ anchovy's advice column | Ask anchovy A Question ]
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