ok ive been going out with this guy for 3 weeks and like i didnt rly like him at first i used to but then he kept goin out w other girls and so i stopped liking him but then out of no where he asked me out n i syd yes n now i really really like him and i love to be around him and like he tells his best friends he rly likes me but then some of his friends say hes thinking about breaking up w me and like i had a dream that he did and it was horrible. and i just dont want it to come true. wat can i do to make it not come true???
thnks
(oh and im not real clingy or annoying or nehtign liek that so were cool wiht the whole eahcothers space thing)
Advicelady6798 answered Saturday October 29 2005, 7:56 pm: If he wanted to break up with you i am sure that he would have done it already. You fear of him breaking up wityou and you continue to fear this it will happen. The thing you fear most usually comes true but if you conquer your fears and relax nothing will happen. Just relax and take one day at a time. Sometimes friends say things like that so you worry and they may want you to break up b/c they have a crush on you most of the time. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday October 29 2005, 7:43 pm: Never rely on what his friends say. If you haven't heard it from him then don't believe it.
You need to tell him what you've heard and who from. You should also tell him that if hes thinking about breaking up you'd appreciate not hearing it from a friend of his. Your relationship is nobody's business but yours.
Don't worry about the dream. They just got you worried about it and it came out in your dreams.
There isn't anything you can do to make someone care for you. Just try your best to be nice. Sounds like you're doing okay. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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