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My names Carlee. im 15 im about 5"2 (yeah im short you dont have to tell me) i just recently moved to virginia. Im a pretty outgoing person i get along with everybody and if you dont get along with me then theres ovbiously something wrong with you lol. I've been through a lot in the past few years. you name it and i've probably been through it.
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Does anyone have any tips on how to be more romantic and cute around my boyfriend. He'll like hold my hand, or wrap his arms around me, but I never know what to say or do! I always think of something cute and clever to say afterwards!
when your boyfriend grabs your hand look at him, kiss him and just smile, to let him know that you like being with him. and as for when he wrapps his arms around you just hold on really tight. just let him know you appreciate the affectionate things he does.
hope i helped =)
Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only.
try calling her one day and inviting her over your house. just the two of you, that way you can actually talk to her without her friends there. as in for body language look into her eyes but not accessively and just smile a lot. it all depends on the girl. some dont like very touchy feely guys towards the beginning of talking to a guy.
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Ok i want to go on birth control, not only to not get pregnant but also because my peroids really hurt. I was just wondering how mch it usually costs and what they do and what are the odds of them telling your parents?
when you go to get on birth control they make you sign a paper saying that the dr. wont tell your parents anything you say or they find out unless you are pregnant or have an STD or something seriously wrong. my birth control costs 10$. it all depends on what type they put you on. when you go they pretty much stick a swab of some sort up there and its very quick. a little uncomfortable but it only lasts for a matter of seconds.
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My hair is long, dry, brittle, dull and has split ends. I want it to be soft, smooth, shiny and healthy. How do I go about getting that? Any product recommendations? I'll rate 5's
try cutting it to a more shoulder length or so hair cut. and get a deep condition. my hair gets very dry so i get a deep condition about every month or 2 to make my hair healthier and shinier. its good if you straighten & blow dry your hair almost every day. and use a shampoo & conditioner for dry & damaged hair
Okay, Tryouts are in 4 days and its for hs if that helps any. I have a few areas (apparence wise) i would like people to help me with. As most of you know who are cheerleading, apperance for tryouts is very important so please help.
makeup- please give me expamples of somthing more settle and natural and not so fun and wild..nothing that wont make me stand out for tryouts but amy make me look cute.
hair- a cute up do for tryouts? cheerleaderish.. cute and mature.
Legs&&Arms- would putting glitter lotion on (it give a natural shimmer) be a good idea? or keep lotain plane?
Any more apperance tips would be nice,, im not worried about clothing, i have to wear dark colored shorts and a white t-shirt.
please help! ive tried out 2 times and made it both buttt this is highschool now!
thxxx in advance.
megg.
i cheer for my school and our coach told us my freshman year that if we tried out and our appearances were over the top she wouldnt put us on the team bc we'd think we were better than the rest of the girls. i wouldnt get an updo for tryouts just put it curly in a pony tail, thats cute enough. and as for make up just kinda wear the usual possibly a little more eye shadow. i dont know about your school but we were never allowed to wear glitter. i dont quite remember why but i just know we wernt allowed so you might wanna make sure that your allowed.
good luck and i hope you make it =]
ive heard a lot of reference to love handles on advicnators.
what are "love handles"?
they are the fat that hangs over your jeans. usually it shows up when your jeans are very tight.
I have pimples here and there. I have tried like almost everything. Proactive doesn’t work for me so don’t say that! Pulse half of you just say it because everyone else says it works because you just want a good rating. I need any home remedies or anything I can buy. I have oily skin btw if this helps! Plz what can I do??
proactive didnt work for me either. i use this 3 step process from clinique and it helps me.
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my older brother who is a senior has a good friend. i am a freshman, and recently me and my brothers friend have gotten very close. we began to like eachothe, and soon wanted to take things further. i told my brother who was ok with it, and my parents. he told a few close friends. we think a good way to break it to others is to go to this school semi formal together. (freshman-senior..is that strange to you?) anyway, we're planning to go. but he is very afraid of reactions, people thinking he is a creep, etc. anyway, do you have any advice? if so, please let me know. i could use as much as possible. thank you very much.
at our high school you see freshman-seniors all the time. its nothing abnormal i dont see why anything would think it was weird.
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last night i talked the guy i like. he likes me. we have a dance coming up. he asked me to it. so were going. im so excited. we have been best friends for the longest time. he is so funny. last night we talked about how much we want to be together, and how much he likes me. then he told me that he wanted me to be his first. and i didtn say it back but i feel the same way. how can i tell him htat. without sounding weird
ill rate high for helpful answers. bye
i agree with the others. take it slower. sex isnt something you give up to someone you really like it should be between you two when you love each other. You guys should start dating and see where it goes from there. Good luck
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What do you do when a boy that you dated and is now with somebody else still acts interested, he cheats on his girlfriend with you several times and tells you that he wants to stay with her to see if it works? should i tell his girlfriend, leave it alone? I don't know what to do i have all the proof that something did happen and more than once, he also tells this girl that he loves her and tells me that he also loves me but as a friend right now what do i do?
i would def. tell his girlfriend bc he ovbiously doesnt love her like hes telling her if hes cheating on her with you. Second of all you need to stop messing around with him until he figures out what the heck he wants. I would bust him before he ends up hurting one of you even worse.
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can anyone think of any reason why a bf wouldnt be happy for his gf if she found a job that she really liked?
I'll right anyone who answers with a 5. Thanks!
Its possible that hes scared that your gonna meet a new guy at your work or that you will be too busy for him. reasure him that your with him for a reason and for him not to worry.
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Ok well here it is there is this girl that i like and i have told her i like her and asked her if she saw me as frinds or more and she said frinds for now and i jus wanna kno if there is anything i could do to make her not like me as much as a frind but more than that and i really like her
I will rate high thnx peace
Just give her some space but not too much bc that wont make her like you. And just let her know that your there when she needs you but dont let her think she can have you whenever she wants.
i hope i helped =]
What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true?
it means that like this person is like the total opposite of you. or it could just be some things that yall are different on. i think it is bc if you think about it. all the good girls want the bad guys ya know?
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My friend is jealous that this year I made a new friend and now she is spreading mean rumors about me cuz shes jealous what do I do?? Much Luv
~~Mackie~~
Honestly i would confront her in front of people and if she doesnt stop then just forget it. if you let it bother you then people will think its true. hope i helped
I am just 13 and I have this urge to smoke. I have never smoked before and I know it is bad for you. I have never did any kind of drugss including weed or coke. My mom would kill me if I did smoke. So I ask my sister how old she was when she started smoking and she said about 13 or 14. And that made it even worse for me! Even people at school smoke! What can I do? I have even thought of stealing them from my mom! I'm a good kid! HELP!
I went through this. bc i have asthma i couldnt smoke so it was like i wanted to try it even more. So i tried it once and it discusted me so bad that i havnt tried one since.
I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?
prettykitty77723
eh. this question hits too close to home. What i did was ask your friends what it is about him that they dont like and if its a pretty good reason then i would seriously think about it because your friends will be there when he isnt and most likely they are just looking out for your benefit. On the other hand if its not a good excuse then confront them and just be like. look i like him cant yall just be happy for me?
hope i helped
Hey,
I'm 16 and I want to try contact lenses. My optician says it's all OK. I was just wondering if anyone had any really good/bad experiences with contact lenses they could tell me about, or if there are tips any of you might have? Are they really weird to get used to? I have a real thing about touching my eyes, I don't like it at all. Will I find this really difficult? What happens if you can't get it out?
Ive had contacts for about 3 years now. and i havnt had that many problems with it. The only bad problem ive had is one time i accidently didnt rinse my hands that well and when i went to take the contact out i got soap in my eye and it really wasnt a good feeling lol it hurts. BAD!
Getting the contact out is the least of your worries thats the easiest thing. Putting them in for the first week is what may be a little difficult but other than that contacts are perfectly fine.
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okay well i like this guy and i have liked him since last year.. well He came up to me ,because i made hima picture last year and he came up to me today and he was like " I still have that picture you gave me and then he showed me and then we just talked about stuff... do you think he likes me and if i asked him out if he would say yes???? please answer this question nicley and i will give you a 5 Because i need the help!!! with this
love Brittany
not to get your hopes up but that doesnt necessarily mean he likes you. before asking him out why dont you ask around and see if he likes you back just to be on the safe side.
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I was looking through a few questions on religion (Not a darn clue why, I just was) and I was reading a question about a girl who wanted to become Buddist.
An answer she recieved made me a little upset. This person that answered kept saying how she was choosing the wrong religion and that being Buddist is wrong.
I've noticed things like this before, strong Christians (yes, it is mostly Christians) criticizing other religions. They will rant on and on about how it's the wrong religion.
What is so wrong with believing in Buddah? Why do you have to criticize people who do not believe in God? We have the right to choose our religion and the right to choose no religion at all.
Why do you believe that your religion is the only "right" religion? This has been bothering me for a while.
I really don't want any Christians on this site to feel that I am directing this ONLY at you. But what I've seen on this site about 90% of the people criticizing people for their religion are strong Christians. So, I'm just basing my question on the majority.
I'm sorry if this question has offended anyone.
i myself go to a christian church and i understand what your saying. Most strong christians believe that their religion is the right religion and if you dont believe in what they do your stupid or retarded.
I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks?
Some girls go for the chase rather than what they really should be going after. I also should take my own advice lol but the bad guys will end up hurting them and the good guy will be there waiting. Good guys dont finish last.
Hope i helped