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How to let her know
Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only.
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well, if you wanna get her attention, wink and smile then look away(still smiling). It makes you look flirty. Here are some compliments girls like:
1)(guy) Wow.....(girl) what? (guy)you have the most amazing eyes.....(while you say this just stare deep into her eyes.
feedback:she'll giggle and smile
2)(guy) Hi. (girl) hi. (guy) I just couldn't HELP but notice you your so beautiful.
feedback: (usually) dinner date and phone #
3) I know this is weird, but girls REALLY do like cheesy lines, like:(guy)"Did it hurt?" (girl) what? (giggle) (guy)"When you fell from heaven...."
well, hope it works out for you. ttyl. ~nickie
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aww how cute. lol. but anyways, try to talk to her. tell her she looks nice, or you like her shirt or something. tell her shes so pretty. maybe call her and ask her to hang out with you. maybe consider going out to the movies or to get something to eat. dont be all over or tho..just be calm and cool about it. and make her feel special.
Good Luck=D
-steff*
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aw thats really cute, i wish more guys wanted to know stuff like this :o) but anyways, call her beautiful, or say you look nice today.. touch her arm or try to hold her hand, and then ask her to the movies or out to eat, and then later on once you get to know her more ask her out im sure she will say yes :o) good luck!
♥ me
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there isn't really any specific compliment that'll make us swoon.just compliment her on what stands out to you most.just be real
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Well heres some things i like and i know girls like. ( coming from a girl)
Compliments are very nice. And we like it when you give them to us. Even if you are in front of her friends. They may tease you or what not but its prolly just because they are jealous a guy isnt that sweet to them.
Checking her out will also make her feel like you are attracted to her. Which it will make her feel good. Her friends will most likely also notice and they will say things to her such as " did you see the way he kept lookin at you.. i think he might like you"
If you would like her to know that you like her you could always tell one of your friends if you still cant find the right way to tell her yourself because guarenteed her friend will tell her.. just make sure that friend does not like you. If you choose that option you should go to tell one of her friends with a boyfriend i think it will work better that way.. for reasons.
Make eye contact with her. That will make her feel like shes the only one you care about at the moment.. that will make her feel great.
Hugs.. im not sure about that girl... but most girls i know love hugs.
Talk to her... dont ignore her even if you are shy.. if you dont tallk to her it will not make her think you like her.
Also you should be the one to make the moves.. most girls like it better that way.
Good luck with this girl! ♥
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Girls (unless they are very shy) love feeling like she's the only person you notice in the room. In that, there's plenty of ways to let her know you like her. Just show a lot of intrest! Talk to her whenever possible and mabe ask her if she wants to do something outside of school. Then you would be able to ask her out withought her being surrounded by friends.
As for flirting/body language. Well, like I said above, show a lot of intrest in her. Tell her she looks pretty....kinda lean in when you talk to her. It doesn't take much.
Most girls I know (including myself) find it fustrating when a guy isn't straightforward. It's so annoying to know a guy likes you but is too chicken to ask you out! You should be honest and tell her that you think she's all those things that you used to describe her in your question! Why beat around the bush?
Oh, and by the way, I'm glad you don't like asking people out through your friends..it's lame..never do it!! good luck! hope I helped!
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when you are in a group with your friends and her friends, whenver you talk make eye contact with her. a good compliment in my eyes is just as simple as "i like your shirt. you look very pretty" get her number and mabey talk to her on the phone. good luck! <3
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Okay, tell her she is beautiful. It may sound corny to guys but girls love to be told they are beautiful. Ask her questions about her self, and make sure to make her laugh. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Sorry, I'm a guy, but I thought I could help.
Do this. Tell her you can read minds. Play a game with her. Ask her to guess a number between 1-10.
Most girls will pick 7 - trust me, I've tested it. If they don't pick 7, it'll usually be 6. Unfortunately that happened to me tonight. I said 7 , to which she said "Nope! I usually pick 7, but this time I chose 6" DAMN! But oh well, it happens occasionally.
Now, if she doesn't pick your number then say something like this "Oh... that's too bad. We'd never work out"
She'll reply along the lines with something like "What? What do you mean"
Say "I was doing a personality test, people who choose my same number or higher -if she chose something higher than 7 then just say people who go with something lower- I can tell I'll have a great future with"
It's corny, but right here you're pushing her away. From this point on, she'll try to qualify herself for you. To show she is YOUR type.
If she picks your same number just say "Great, you're my kind of girl." And continue on with your story about how people who choose your number you get along with and blah blah.
This should most certainly work for you.
By the way DO NOT compliment her. By doing this you're giving her control. Make her work for you. Don't give her a compliment, but give her a playful I don't want to say insult, but I will.
Don't tell her she's ugly, but say something to show you arent' interested in her. Not only will this make her want to prove herself to you, but you'll definitely see a change in her attitude.
Now, why do this? You said she's beatiful. How many times a day do you think someone says "You're pretty/hot/insert any cliche word for good looking here/ to her?
If you change up the pace and say something she wasn't expecting, she won't know what to do and will want your approval.
As for special body language do this.
Stand straight. No arching of the back or slouching of the shoulders.
Speak in a slow and understandable voice. Don't talk fast. Sound confident.
You're a guy, don't put your hands in your pockets -it shows insecurity. Sprawl your arms out. Look comfy, look confident.
Look her in the eyes -but don't just stare to the point that it is scary.
PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE SAYS! You can run a conversation off of all the info she is giving you. You don't even need your own material. This is also a real plus with women. They do realize you're genuinly paying attention to what they say -don't be suprised if she compliments you on your listening skills-
The best way to end this conversation with her will be 'I've enjoyed talking with you but I have to leave. We should have a conversation like this again. Maybe go out and have some coffee? Whatever works best for you."
From here you can expand your relationship.
If you liked this info I gave you -though I'm not a girl- go ahead and drop a line in my e-mail or on AIM.
Both are listed on my column.
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call her over when she's only with like one or 2 friends and say "hey, i just thought you might want to know, you look gorgeous today" or to start just try talking to her. you seem sweet so if she gets to know you then maybe she'll like you better. the way i see it, anyone can be good looking but a good personality is what really makes them attractive,so get to know her and let her get to know you. dont be afraid to open up as long as youre not telling her your whole life story cuz thats annoying. do you get what im tryin to say? i dont blame you if you didnt its 1:40 in the morning right now but i hope i helped anyway. let me know how it is
-modelkate11-
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try calling her one day and inviting her over your house. just the two of you, that way you can actually talk to her without her friends there. as in for body language look into her eyes but not accessively and just smile a lot. it all depends on the girl. some dont like very touchy feely guys towards the beginning of talking to a guy.
hope i helped =]
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